On 2023-01-14 13:40:30 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
Wow, what a shit choice I made then @Curious878

I of course love choosing a world where there would be bigotry and hatred, possible hate crimes, violence, corrective rape (because the LGBTQ community is so disgusting that of course people would want to force themselves on those they find repulsive), slander and slurs.

Love this choice for me ;)

None of us choose a life more difficult.

We choose freedom by being ourselves. Instead of the bandage of being someone we're not and we are fully aware that that comes at a price.

Perhaps we should start our own thread Code: 4 Bigots

I'm not one who entertains drama or slurs.

But if you don't like something or don't agree with something, just leave it alone.

Comments like these cause serious mental health issues and are part of the reason a lot of people in our community take their own lives.

Well said my angel. No one will choose to be queer. I respect you for standing up to bigotry.

I don't understand, that in 2023 there are still folks who think that way. Each to their own.

I completely understand the OP's dilemma. He likes women. Ending up with a person of the same (sex organ) which may have been removed has an ego crushing ability.

But still, there isn't a reason to insult how people identify as. Live and let live. We need not to love, only to accept.

On 2023-01-14 13:40:30 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
Wow, what a shit choice I made then @Curious878

I of course love choosing a world where there would be bigotry and hatred, possible hate crimes, violence, corrective rape (because the LGBTQ community is so disgusting that of course people would want to force themselves on those they find repulsive), slander and slurs.

Love this choice for me ;)

None of us choose a life more difficult.

We choose freedom by being ourselves. Instead of the bandage of being someone we're not and we are fully aware that that comes at a price.

Perhaps we should start our own thread Code: 4 Bigots

I'm not one who entertains drama or slurs.

But if you don't like something or don't agree with something, just leave it alone.

Comments like these cause serious mental health issues and are part of the reason a lot of people in our community take their own lives.

Wow, you were triggered but I don't think he meant any of the things you said but you're slandering him for having a preference.

All he said was if he wants a CIS woman, he should be able to get that without being deceived by anything else that they are a CIS woman and that is perfectly acceptable.

Some days, we want a super model women that may have a dick, some days, we want any women wether she had a dick or not and some days, we want a natural born CIS women with big soft natural boobs and a feminine voice. They are free to choose and be who they want and he is free to choose who and what he wants.

It's not disrespecting or bashing another to not want them or have preferences but it is wrong to deceive someone into believing you're something you're not and offering something you can't to make a quick buck.

JP69

Dear JP69

"Stop this nonsense of how people identify, seriously it's ridiculous and something you can't just randomly choose"

Clearly to my eye, this is a dig at people who identify as something else. This is bashing, and this is disrespectful.

On 2023-01-15 10:06:22 Jess @ Broadway said:
Dear JP69

"Stop this nonsense of how people identify, seriously it's ridiculous and something you can't just randomly choose"

Clearly to my eye, this is a dig at people who identify as something else. This is bashing, and this is disrespectful.

Wow, it's easy to copy extracts of something out of context to suite.

And yet he clearly put it in context before that statement by saying:

"if I want to be with a woman it means an actual woman and not a man who chopped off his wiener pretending to be a woman"

and in context all that means he has preferences and choices too but because his choices exclude a certain demographic at certain times pretty much like how wgs have ROAR, now he needs to be called the scum if the earth because he doesn't want to have a booking with someone who isn't what they claim to be. That's a bit hypocritical, don't you think? His wording may be brash but the context and message is still the same.

JP69

As long as I'm not deceived, I have no issue.

It is more about the dishonesty of the 'ladies' not disclosing they are post op or trans or shemale. I have far more respect for those that say they are shemale or post op as I know what I am getting. Then I have the choice to engage or not. But to get there and discover a lie is not tolerable. There are some of us that want the shemales or the post op ladies. We don't have an issue. The issue is not saying so up front. I then wonder what else you may be hiding.

On 2023-01-13 22:08:51 Curious878 said:
I agree 100%. I don't care what the cry babies of this world thinks, but if I want to be with a woman it means an actual woman and not a man who chopped off his wiener pretending to be a woman. Stop this nonsense of how people identify, seriously it's ridiculous and something you can't just randomly choose

Okay JP69

Here I quoted the whole thing. And still at the end he is saying that people that identify as something else should un verbatim stop their nonsense because identifying as something other than male or female is ridiculous and something you can't decide for yourself.

I am not sure why you keep choosing to ignore this even in the context. I can however say, let's agree to disagree here because we both agree that this post is actually about a man who doesn't want to end up with a sex changed individual because it triggers him to close Esa and feel sick :)

On 2023-01-14 13:40:30 Raphael_ Xclusive said:

But if you don't like something or don't agree with something, just leave it alone.

Comments like these cause serious mental health issues and are part of the reason a lot of people in our community take their own lives.

I appreciate your position on it, but I think your personal (and therefore subjective) proximity to this topic may be interfering with having a reasonable conversation.

Curious878 may have the tact of a buffalo, but in the context he was expressing _his_ preference.

Your position on his stated preference was to attack his way of thinking about things, and not what he said.

It's his right to prefer whatever he defines as his preference.

It is not your right to try and regulate what he is allowed to think about his preference or even the language he chooses to express his preference, regardless of how it may make you feel.

More practically : The opinions of others about you (the indefinite article) should be none of your business.

#sayingthisasafriend
#believeitornot

I appreciate everyone's answers, even if we disagree.
No malice intended here. Just pointed out that not disclosing all the relevant facts about yourself is a definite turn-off.

Special thanks to JP and Jess. Calmly talking through matters raised is the way to go.

Every one hasa right to his or her preference, but that does not give you the right to insult others as the OP have done.

You can relay your preference in a decent and respectful way, without insulting others.

There is no justification for insulting others.