On 2022-05-02 20:47:03 mervhughes said:
It's month-end, so some of the working girls I know are all messaging to say "hi, how are you?"
I say good.
They then say "when am I seeing you?"
Or "can you recharge me?" All the usual. "Please book me by rent is short."
I think I will put myself up for tender.
Ask them what they are offering me for an hour of my company and my budget, say R700 (which is too low most SPs on this site.
Lol!)
And pick the SP with the best offer. Or most provocative reply.
Will they do it, or tell me to take a hike?

Lol. Seriously. Few girls are in that situation. Business is grand in the North

@AnthonyEdwards, welcome back sweetcakes xxx

Aaah, the age old rate debate..

Girls will fight for higher rates, and that makes sense.
Guys are always looking out for a better rate as it is part of the hunt..

This tender for a punt will work and I'm sure mervhughes has had plenty of pm's with offers. Criticizing him, scaring him or trying to paint him with a cheapskate brush wont make a difference.

What I will add is, instead of putting this on a public forum, put it in a pm or watsapp to your regulars and reputable ladies only.
THAT way ALL parties are safe

I hate negotiating. My hope is for the ladies to assess the situation quickly and come up with an offer that can't be refused. Everyone wins.

@AnthonyEdwards

Since you have decided to drag this up again I will respond but beyond this I am not going to get into a big fight. I am sorry for the essay but I'm trying to be clear.

If ESA would like to investigate then I would be happy to comply, I don't have anything to hide. All I have done is refuse to pay your ridiculously high asking price for items and instead paid a reasonable amount and attempted to return the items.

Firstly, I am not in contact with that person anymore I have even sent you proof of that on your watsapp. She reached out yesterday off of someone else's number since she has been blocked and that is it.

The meet up under flash pretences as you call it was not arranged with me, it was arranged with the friend and I was misled when told about it, my mistake there was that i trusted her and didn't verify with you myself

The items that I "stole" from you... you mean the second hand shoes that I agreed to buy and then suddenly when things got heated you were asking for ridiculous amounts. I paid over R500 to you and I do have the proof, and asked multiple times to return all items since I didn't feel your asking price was fair at all, yet you refused.

You then demanded that I pay for 4 girls ads which means I would be paying R2200. This was a ridiculous amount for those items, however I initially backed down and agreed because I was honestly feeling harassed and just wanted you to stop.
Afterwards I realized that I was not prepared to be ripped off like that and once again asked to return everything to you, bear in mind I had paid R500 to you for the same items as well.
I don't think you were being more than fair at all, you were bullying me into doing what you wanted because you decided to use me as an example for all the times that you have been ripped off by ladies in the past.

Fact is I paid R500 to you and begged to send the items back as well but was refused.

I have nothing to do with the lady in question contacting you, I have nothing to do with her at all, so please don't assume anything.

I have said my part, people will draw their own conclusions no matter what I say or do and that is to be expected.
I am still more than happy to return the items that I have in my possession since I have never worn the shoes, but I know that you won't allow that because it's not about the items in the end.

Welcome back to the country, I wish you nothing but the best.

Xxx

What? So you have the shoes with you already and already paid a previously agreed R500? At what time did that amount become a problem? Or did you pay 500 because you thought that is a fair amount?

Dont go the tender route...
They will ask if you are BEE compliant.
Whether your taxes are in order.
Etc

:-)

On 2022-05-03 18:19:29 Vrik said:
Dont go the tender route...
They will ask if you are BEE compliant.
Whether your taxes are in order.
Etc

:-)

Lol

On 2022-05-03 18:19:29 Vrik said:
Dont go the tender route...
They will ask if you are BEE compliant.
Whether your taxes are in order.
Etc

:-)

Maybe if you add another hundred the questions will stop. Lol

Yo yo yo I'm really confused hear.
This story is longer then a mills and boons book.

All I can conclude is that Anthony Edward's sold Courtney second hand shoes.
My head is puzzling