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Posted: 2026-05-08 07:19:48

For every attempt at a booking, every working girl has to RIGHT tO choose to see you or not to see you.

Punters need to start being able to accept a No from a working girl.

Please allow WGs to say no to your booking requests; you don't have to bitch and moan about it. Move on.

Her body, her choice, EVERY SINGLE TIME.

If you are given an excuse, take it as a no and move on. It is well within her rights to accept the next booking.

It is well within every WG's right to decline 5 bookings consecutively, for whatever reasons. ESA is not a regulator and will never be able to dictate to the advertisers on this platform how to handle their business.

No matter how desensitized you are, it doesn't take away the right to choose from a wg. And if you receive no's from wg's consecutively, then ask yourself how you have been in your last few bookings.
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Posted: 2026-05-08 07:50:16

It's odd, but appreciate it. It means she knew the service was not going to be her best. Rather book another time than pay for a booking you'll complain about after. The girl saved you money and a herself a bad review.

Available status, frequent inputs and responses on forums, and a PG picture which is just a nip slip are few of many ways woman try keep their profile on the home page of the site. Home page equals attention, attention equals enquires, enquiries equal potential business.

If you want to book, rather text or call regardless of available status imo and conclude a date and time.
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Posted: 2026-05-08 07:55:54
Edited: 2026-05-08 07:56:48

This thread is about the abuse of the "set yourself to available right now" button ESA provides to advertisers.

The point is it's been abused for years to such a point that we are limited in the amount of times we can use it per day because people have been jumping the que for years and choose to set themselves as available right now when infact they are not.

Yes we choose who we see.
Yes we choose when we work.
All good.

Just be fair. Why steal the exposure from another's plate when you are not able to cater to clientele at a time you chose to "set yourself to available now"

I very rarely use this function myself but when I do, I always am available at that time.
It doesn't mean I have to see anyone I don't want to see.
If a client doesn't meet screening criteria politely decline.

Don't abuse a system simply because it's there.
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Posted: 2026-05-08 08:00:12

Maybe just maybe, when they refresh their browser it automatically sets them as available?
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Posted: 2026-05-08 08:11:20

On 2026-05-08 08:00:12 shoeguy said:
Maybe just maybe, when they refresh their browser it automatically sets them as available?



No.
It is an actual button you have to click on.

Refreshing your browser shows "last online"
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Posted: 2026-05-08 08:30:02

On 2026-05-08 07:50:16 Moffievirjou said:
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Available status, frequent inputs and responses on forums, and a PG picture which is just a nip slip are few of many ways woman try keep their profile on the home page of the site. Home page equals attention, attention equals enquires, enquiries equal potential business.

If you want to book, rather text or call regardless of available status imo and conclude a date and time.



Fucking bullshit!!!

Available right now is for wgs that available right now and want a booking and the money right now and for punters who are also available right now and want to punt right now, not book in advance for another time. That's what the normal ad and the advertisers section is for. They can go post on those that they're available at whatever time they feel like and post as many times as they want to stay in the front page.

Don't rob other wgs of business and waste punters time and punting opportunities which might not come along very often.

JP69
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Posted: 2026-05-08 17:09:34
Edited: 2026-05-08 17:11:20

On 2026-05-08 08:30:02 JackParrow69 said:
On 2026-05-08 07:50:16 Moffievirjou said: ...

Available status, frequent inputs and responses on forums, and a PG picture which is just a nip slip are few of many ways woman try keep their profile on the home page of the site. Home page equals attention, attention equals enquires, enquiries equal potential business.

If you want to book, rather text or call regardless of available status imo and conclude a date and time.

Fucking bullshit!!!

Available right now is for wgs that available right now and want a booking and the money right now and for punters who are also available right now and want to punt right now, not book in advance for another time. That's what the normal ad and the advertisers section is for. They can go post on those that they're available at whatever time they feel like and post as many times as they want to stay in the front page.

Don't rob other wgs of business and waste punters time and punting opportunities which might not come along very often.

JP69



I fully agree JP. I had frustrations with it for some time and I still do when the availability is misrepresented.

The issue is those advertisers who don't understand they ruin the whole system by doing this. Or maybe they don't care. So far the most effective method against this that we have is to name and shame, but it's not having the same impact it once did as this becomes normalised. It shouldn't be normalised at all!!! Basics manners imo. Too many punters tip toeing around reporting something instead of calling things out. Even this forum chat hasn't named the lady directly.
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Posted: 2026-05-08 17:34:49

Maybe she decided she was not available to you. Maybe it was something you said, or it was the way you said it.

Grow the fuck up, and spend this energy looking for someone else. Life is all about rejection. Move on.
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Posted: 2026-05-09 11:17:30

On 2026-05-08 17:34:49 Mex said:
Maybe she decided she was not available to you. Maybe it was something you said, or it was the way you said it.

Grow the fuck up, and spend this energy looking for someone else. Life is all about rejection. Move on.



Literally. There's always another girl. Actually, there's plenty more girls.
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Posted: 2026-05-09 12:05:41
Edited: 2026-05-09 12:10:48

On 2026-05-08 17:34:49 Mex said:
Maybe she decided she was not available to you. Maybe it was something you said, or it was the way you said it.

Grow the fuck up, and spend this energy looking for someone else. Life is all about rejection. Move on.



I personally know the OP like I know him a lot and he is not one that would cry over rejection infact outside of the purple world he has girls throwing themselves at him, like always. He is just here for fun and he is most definitely not starved, that I know for sure. I am pretty sure that he was just sharing his experience as per his explanation and not trying to cause trouble. Some of you are just angry birds ready to poke at anything at any given time... relax maan
I'm even laughing, Priceless crying over ***yoooooo... that would be the day birds started singing amapiano and snakes living in harmony with humans cos never

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