On 2016-10-13 09:24:24 Allxxx said:
Humans are jealous creatures. We guard our material possessions jealously, and we do the same with the people we love

Jealousy is not a sign of love. Jealousy is borne out of a lack of self confidence / insecurity. Believe it or not there are actually people in this world who are secure enough within themselves, not to feel threatened by, nor jealous or possessive of another human being. You can never truly own another person. You can take your wife, lock her in a basement, tied to a chair, blindfolded, gagged and earplugs in, but she can still fuck you around in her mind....

On 2016-10-13 09:24:24 Allxxx said:
Falling in love with a prostitute is all well and good; the issue is what he or she does for a living and whether he or she will stop.

If you met her as a prostitute, why would you want to change the person you fell in love with in the first place? Chances are she will never leave the industry permanently, no matter how much love or money you throw at her. The industry is addictive, gives her independence and is good for her self esteem. The biggest mistake people make in any relationship, is to try and change the person and mold her into what you think a wife or girlfriend should be like. Relationships like that never last.

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Prostitutes are at very high risk for HIV infection and other sexually-transmitted infections.Are you willing to take these risks with your health?[/QUOTE]


You can have sex only once, with a morally pure "normal woman" and be infected with HIV or STD'S. In fact, ladies in this business are more aware of std's and hiv, than you average woman out there. Your average woman generally only goes to see a gynae when there is a problem down there or when she is pregnant. This straight from the mouth of my gynae of more than 30 years .

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Are you willing to engage in a criminal lifestyle?[/QUOTE]


Do you pay bribes to traffic cops? Most people do. If so, then you are engaging in criminal behavior. Do you lie to SARS, many people do, that is a criminal offence too. Do you drink and drive? Criminal offence too...there are many more examples.

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What happens when you want to get married or have children? Can you raise a family with this person?[/QUOTE]


You will be surprised to learn that escorts make wonderful mothers, precisely because they are street smart, they will be very protective over their children, they will make sure their children get a good education (often degrees), so as to not follow their path in prostitution, they know the dangers of drugs and alcohol abuse and much more. I daresay, I have found most escorts to be far better mothers than average women, precisely because of the above mentioned.

[QUOTE;570013;Allxxx] What values would you be passing on to your children? {/QUOTE]

Do you seriously think that the majority of mothers in this industry, tell their children that they are prostitutes? You are very much mistaken my friend. Sure some women do tell their children, but I would say that they are in the minority.

The values I have passed on to my children are:
Tolerance & Respecting all races and belief systems, respecting life style choices of other people;
Good Manners and Self Respect;
Determination and Hard work pays off - to never give up;
Good Morals & ability to resist peer pressure;

And you know what? I couldn't be more proud! They don't drink nor do drugs, are well educated, have good jobs and have always walked the straight and narrow, DESPITE their mother being a prostitute!

Any one can fall in love... This scenario just comes with its own set of complications..similar to falling in love with a soldier or an actor or just about any other profession...falling In love happens with the right chemistry and understanding between 2 people...

Witwolf82

"...internet stuttering...". I learn something new all the time. Who said that the forum isn't educational?

Thank you, kind sir.

On 2016-10-13 10:42:02 Mr Bond said:
Witwolf82

"...internet stuttering...". I learn something new all the time. Who said that the forum isn't educational?

Thank you, kind sir.

Glad I could help! ;-)

@Allxxx...because previous threads of a similar nature existed, many people will refrain from commenting on your post, as they already posted their views before. Making you attent of the other threads, simply points you to more people's views on your topic.
xMx

On 2016-10-13 10:32:14 lookingforfun29 said:
Mynx's response to this thread... game set & match to you for that response.

For what it's worth, you can fall in love with a wg lady, but it will also mean you will need to quit punting, and provide a stable environment for her to live in.

If you not willing to give up punting for good, but she must stop being in the business, that's not on. That shit don't float.

Correct!
Ive been in this position so meany times and let me tell you... its the gentleman that walks out because they cant handle our work.
You know what if you want me to stop.. give me options, dont just ecpect me to give up the only way of making a living, providing for my kids and paying my accounts.

If I should stop then he should stop.. and dont even tri and come back with another user name.... moet dani dat die deur jou op die gat slaan oppad uit nie asb..,
Or dont stand in the dooreway.. you blocking the traffic!

Maybe a different perspective.
Whether it's okay or not is irrelevant. If it happens I believe you will have a lot of unnecessary strain in the relationship irrespective of how open minded you believe yourself to be.
In my short punting career I have found every girl respectable, period. So falling in love is not so far fetched.
Myself fell for one of the ladies on this site, and I was willing to move mountains for her,still am. And I daresay still licking my wounds.
But, and I say this with respect. I think the lady you're visiting and the lady in real life are 2 different people and to her 'love from a punter' is really not desirable.
So, if you have a special lass somewhere on this site, all the best for you.
Regards

To the OP, what makes a prostitute, hooked, working girl or any other name you choose to label them with any different from a woman in any other field.
If you are so close minded that you believe a person's occupation defines them then you need to wake up and smell the coffee. By this very stereotyping then all plumbers must smell of shit and all IT experts must be geeks who are unable to change a light bulb.
In many ways your hypothesis is flawed because they are more aware of std's and hiv than most other women and as such more inclined to take precautions. Their occupation is illegal and frowned upon yet so is mine and possibly many others too.
Can I deal with knowing she fucked 5 guys while I was at work? Well at least I know. Do you know if your lady fucked the boss or a co-worker?
What would happen if we had kids? Not gonna happen cause I have mine and dont want anymore.
How will she cope knowing that I punt? Same way I cope. I would only need to punt if I desired something she could not offer and that is not likely. So in conclusion, being with ANY partner, no matter their profession requires honesty, respect and trust.

Lol mynx,death by your come back.
I stil find it so sad that some punters think us WG are incapable of normality.
Its like we're an alien species of some sort.

@Mynx
Very good posting by you. Excellent, you've got the right approach.