On 2026-01-19 12:14:41 Bonganelovejoy said:
Maybe it's just me but man I hate reading a review and then the punter says "I won't go into much detail" or "a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell"...like what's the point.

Maybe they don't know how to put their experience into words but come on, You can summarise your experience without keeping us guessing.

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I understand the frustration when someone says "I won't go into detail" or "a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell". I get why that can feel vague or unhelpful if you're trying to decide whether to see someone.

That said, I want to add a bit of context from my side as a reviewer. In the past, I did go into a lot of detail. I tried to provide nuance, atmosphere, and a fuller picture of the experience rather than just a checklist. However, I was told directly by another punter on another thread "I'll be honest here Raawi. I tried to read a review from you once and couldn't get through it. I skipped to the ratings because it was too long." He added that it was unfortunate, because he felt we probably like the same type of ladies.

That feedback wasn't isolated. Over time, it became clear that many punters are impatient and prefer quick summaries over detailed reviews. Because of that, I've deliberately toned my reviews down a lot. They are more concise and yes, more 'watered down' than before.

So when my reviews don't go into exhaustive detail, it's not because I can't articulate the experience or because I'm trying to be evasive. It's a conscious choice based on how reviews are actually consumed here. If I wrote the way I used to, most people wouldn't read past the first paragraph anyway.

For anyone who does want more depth or specific information about an SP I've reviewed, I'm always happy to share via DM. That way, those who value detail can still get it, without overwhelming those who prefer brevity.

Different reviewers have different styles, and different readers have different preferences. I've simply adjusted mine to strike a balance between being informative and being readable.

I absolutely abhor it when punters go into details. It's okay to talk about her as a Person, her accommodation, deameanour , cleanliness and such. But when a punter starts talking about how his dick was curved when he was inside the provider, that's no longer a review but a porn hub story. I detest punters like that. It should all be subtle and classy. What's good for the goose is sometimes not good for the gander. There has to be chemistry for certain services to be offered to certain clientele right off the bat.

I'm reading alot of interesting perspectives from both the ladies and punters. I always ask myself is it necessary to say "I don't wanna go into detail". I mean you already know you not gonna give us any detail so why mention it? Whenever I see that it just triggers my curiosity and makes me think that this review is missing something.

Personally, as Rob mentioned above, I would try to tread the fine line between vulgarity and detail.

However, I do echo Bongz's frustration with those "I won't go into detail" reviews. My take is that this is a sex site populated with adults. So when reading a review, I want to know about the actual sex; from blow job to actual positions and rounds.

@Sage, love you long time my lady, but I want to disagree on this one. The reviews are not for the ladies, but for us punters. So describing how well she can take a pounding is par for the course in my mind.

Think of reviews as locker room talk amongst the boys.

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My take is that this is a sex site populated with adults. So when reading a review, I want to know about the actual sex; from blow job to actual positions and rounds.

This is what most providers hate and once they discover you are a tattle tale, they will never see you ever again. Be very careful how you review. Be a gent.

Maybe Im missing something, but reading how are guy fucked a girl for 2 hours straight and then blow his load of thick cum over her face with his 20.578cm erect cock is not going to make me want to book a girl.

But I suppose some guys are interested in their fellow punters penis size, hardness and volume of cum (for some reason) and can only book a lady once he got all the detail.

Weird shit.

On 2026-01-19 15:25:22 Yvonne said:
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My take is that this is a sex site populated with adults. So when reading a review, I want to know about the actual sex; from blow job to actual positions and rounds.

This is what most providers hate and once they discover you are a tattle tale, they will never see you ever again. Be very careful how you review. Be a gent.

I disagree. But let's leave it there.

Look at the general forum.

"Travelling to JHB tomorrow, anybody available for sex, must be white. Thanks"

You can't expect someone like that to write anything coherent and that's the average punter believe me.

Details matter but we can be classy about. Let me teach you how to do it.

This SP gave me the sloppiest head to the point where a puddle was forming at the base of my dick and stomach. Saliva was dripping onto my nutsack and onto the bed sheets.

Did I say all that on the review? Nah. I said she gives the sloppiest head ever and that my dick lost a shade of colour.

And please for god sake start letting us know how private the SPs venue is. That's arguably more important than her face.

Peace and Love.

On 2026-01-19 15:34:46 Minime V10.1 said:
Maybe Im missing something, but reading how are guy fucked a girl for 2 hours straight and then blow his load of thick cum over her face with his 20.578cm erect cock is not going to make me want to book a girl.

Why? Now you know she can take a pounding for hours and is freaky enough to allow you to bust on her face.

The only reason you wouldn't be interested is if you're here looking for a wife.

On 2026-01-19 13:12:35 Pumpkineater said:

Unlike the one punter who types out a 10 page essay of his experience. I tried reading it. I always give up not even half way through it.

You and Raawi need to tag team an SP to get this sexual tension out.