Hehehe.. first time ever i hear a guy complain about a girl flirting with them ;)

Normally its the other way around.. complaints will normally be "she is to cold in her reply" "she is all business" "she is too the point and i fear it might be mecahnical"

And they say you will never understand females... sometimes i wonder if we will ever understand males;)

On 2024-11-22 17:41:30 Miss Red ( Louise ) said:
Hehehe.. first time ever i hear a guy complain about a girl flirting with them ;)

Normally its the other way around.. complaints will normally be "she is to cold in her reply" "she is all business" "she is too the point and i fear it might be mecahnical"

And they say you will never understand females... sometimes i wonder if we will ever understand males;)

I get why he doesn't like it, flirting is an art, and some girls get really annoying, you've not even read the pricing and services she sent through 30 seconds ago and she starts applying pressure with fake flirts: "so what time are you coming over sweetie, I am so wet for you my baby, please come now." It's a bit much.

But to get offended and call her out on it is overreacting.

Hehehe... have to think about this a bit and I get it now.. ....

It must be as annoying as when a guy you never spoken to before sends a message like...

' baby i am so horny for you , my cock is dripping already, i want to come to you right now"

I can sh#t a duck when they start convos like that.

But i dont come crying here on forum if it happens, it happens way more than you would think it does.

I just answer politely by saying "hi i will forward you my service list and prices" ignoring the very crude "introduction" and 9 out of 10 times thats also the end of that converation that started off so very horny.

My service and fee list must have either made him go limp or had him cumming in his pants. Either way he dont need me no more suddenly and i dont hear from them again.

Which makes me very happy can you imagine have to share space with someone that dont have the common decency to greet properly or have a grown up conversation but acts like a horny teenager from americaan pie with no social skills or emotional regulation.;)

On 2024-11-22 11:08:37 Ryantrixyconnors said:
Is it normal for a sp to block you after enquiring about services. The sp made a certain statement that I was not comfortable with and in kind I requested that she is coming off too strong and unprofessional.

I don't understand thus type of behavior. Has anyone else encountered something similar?

Woman do that.

It's not a wg exclusive thing. 'Hello' might piss someone on their period off or they had a fight with another eg or their sister.

Some wgs I became friends with used to tell me about their days and bookings and enquiries and stuff. I found it very interesting when they say that business is bad and they not getting bookings etc but continue on to say they blocked a couple guys or all in a day. So I asked what did they say and literally got responses like "Hi" or "Are you available?" And when I ask what was they problem with that the response is usually something along the lines of "I got a bad feeling about him". It's very real.

Don't beat yourself up over it, just move on.

N4P

Some crazy wgs out there

On 2024-11-22 19:16:23 Need4Passion said:
On 2024-11-22 11:08:37 So I asked what did they say and literally got responses like "Hi" or "Are you available?" And when I ask what was they problem with that the response is usually something along the lines of "I got a bad feeling about him". It's very real.

Don't beat yourself up over it, just move on.

N4P

This I can say I understand to an extent, although for me it may only be one or two in a few weeks that get blocked, but having a bad feeling is something I have come to rely on here, its not foolproof yes but I do believe in following that feeling.

Xxx

On 2024-11-22 12:44:33 fduck said:
On 2024-11-22 11:08:37 Ryantrixyconnors said: Is it normal for a sp to block you after enquiring about services. The sp made a certain statement that I was not comfortable with and in kind I requested that she is coming off too strong and unprofessional.

I don't understand thus type of behavior. Has anyone else encountered something similar?

What is difficult to understan...she just does not want to talk to you anymore.

I think you are short of a few brain cells.

On 2024-11-22 13:40:13 Lowden said:
On 2024-11-22 11:08:37 Ryantrixyconnors said: Is it normal for a sp to block you after enquiring about services. The sp made a certain statement that I was not comfortable with and in kind I requested that she is coming off too strong and unprofessional.

I don't understand thus type of behavior. Has anyone else encountered something similar?

Ask any wg the ridiculous messages they get (and lots of them) and you'll understand why some of them develop a low tolerance. I know a girl who blocked a guy just because she was annoyed that he didn't know Greek refers to anal. There is no formal qualification to get into this business where they teach customer relations. And I'm not saying it's right, but don't take it personally, it could be her not you. My advice is ask straightforward what you are looking for in one clear precise message and at most one or two follow ups which shouldn't be necessary if your first message was clear and precise.

Exactly what guys sometimes forget is we deal with inquisitions day in day out. Often I sent a full detailed description of services prices and fees and some chips still ask what does Full house entail lol or is there penetration involved or so no sex. If you guys say on the other side of your enquiries you would also end up blocking time waisters or serial enquiries some guys ask for services and fees every other day sometimes I push up my fees for those guys because honestly over the past year some guys enquire every month two or 3 times a month with same old same old I'll get back to you or they just don't respond at some point it gets boring so yes I block serial enquiries after a certain amount of enquiries. Sometimes a guy appears to be pushy so I just push they block button because if they pushy and they not yet in my space then they will be when they are so yes I am guilty of blocking a large number of people but after all my time in the business one can tell the difference between a genuine enquiry and a time waister, serial enquiry and a shopper. The questions may differ. It's like when a guy calls or texts and the first thing he asks for is pricing then I know this is not my guy because that is the imo of a budget punter.

I can't speak for everyone but personally some guys are just not worth the effort frustration and time and in some cases not even counting the money helps then it's better to avoid the lot. Money will always come just from a different source.

I recall my first punt. After building the courage to send the enquiry message (around 3 pm after about 3 double brandies); the lady on the other side was very pushy (or shall I say engaging). I don't think I would of had the courage to go through with it if she wasn't. Around 7pm she was still insisting that I come over. A sweet talker. I eventually decided, fuck it, just do it.

Having never done this before, after taking the shower she offered I went to lay on the table using the towel to cover myself. She came into the room, took all her clothes off and removed the towel from me. Laying kaal gat on her table, vulnerable, exposed, she gently started rubbing my ass and asked if I wanted a massage or if I wanted to move over to the bed and be naughty, which came with a different price. Being naive, I didn't realize at the time this was an upsell. But I only brought enough cash for the service agreed upon so I shyly responded, just a massage.

She was a nice lady, very chatty - which was helpful to calm the nerves, but realizing that this was my first time, she kept trying to tell me not to feel guilty, which didn't help, just made me feel more. Plus, while with me she was on her phone a lot, presumably encouraging the next guy to come over. Literally had my dick in the one hand and the phone in the other, then in between asking me very personal question about myself.

I think that may have been the first time I've been naked with a women, being touched, and struggling to get an erection. Needless to say it was a terrible first experience. And I wasn't going to do it again.

About 6 months later, horny as fuck, I decided to try again. This time I discovered ESA. Browsing through the 1000s of photos one just popped out. Reminded me of my high school crush. Her photo, at the time gave me an impression that she was a fair skinned colored gal, Cape Malay maybe. When I met her, I must have given her a weird look, the first words that came out of her mouth was 'what, not what you expecting'. Admittedly I was framing in my mind a high school sweetheart who was a tall moslem girl with a massive pair, based on an esa photoshoot of facial appearance and boobs . The lady in front of me was white, like super pale white, short with a massive pair and sexy ass. In my mind I was reframing, she actually looked a lot like my best friend from varsity. Someone I've shared my soul with, loved deeply, but not sexual in any form. Wasn't sure if I could go through with it, but I followed her to her room anyway. Still processing in my head, but naked on her bed. Never been that hard, that long, that ... release ... the best experience I've had. She was awesome, her entire routine was sensually enlightening, all senses heightened, until a mind blowing orgasm. Even though I may not have responded reassuringly to her question at the start, as I was still processing, she delivered the best damn service one could possible imagine.

Her approach was very structured during the initial engagement. Not pushy, with enough information to make a rational decision.

When we finished she walked me to my car, leaned up to me and gave me the softest kiss on the lips, wished me well, followed by a short message afterwards. I don't think I'll ever forget that kiss ... needless to say I booked again before the end of the week and the next week again ...

@ JJ...that lady did right by you on your second time. A shame though that your first time was a bust.

I myself get a bit nervous when someone shares that it is a first time punt for them.

Because like it or not his first punt will always be remembered.

There is a certain amount of unwritten responsibilty on you as a SP to a first timer as to how he will end up being as a future punter.

If you allow him to be disrepectful and a brute during a session he will be that in his future appointments too. If a lady treats like your first time lady treated you, he might end up having zero respect for ladies and just end up seeing them as cum buckets and nothing more.( thankfully you seem to have not become that guy)

If you deliver steller service and treat him good and also maybe impart some pointers as how to adress ladies when making appointments etc he will most probably become a well loved and respected punter in the future that respects boundries, time etc.

Hopefully ladies out there are mindful that they do play a part in shaping our future punters if they accomodate first timers.