On 2020-10-06 16:05:56 Lupe Luxe said:
On 2020-10-06 05:39:59 ystervark said:
...or start punting :))
Lol.... any recommendations, advice and that kinda stuff??
Not sure if you are only joking, but if you honestly want my opinion, id say punt around (as in pay per visit) until you find someone you click with and then stick around there. Masturbation is a weak alternative to a good punt. Just like we (men) had to learn that similar to some pay for golf we pay for play. In my view nothing wrong with a wg also paying to be with another wg that makes you feel great.
It may feel strange at first to pay for a service you sell as well, but if it makes you happy, it cant be all bad :)
If you prefer a male, inviting a punter you like and being honest that you are not giving a freebe but asking for a particular service/experience since its your need for the day, should not turn into him expecting it free again.
Once i was asked to return "not a booking, but can you return at x hour?" She waited for me with a candle lit (a candle i previously gave her :) ). It turned into the very best sex i have ever had, yet there is no doubt in my mind that it was the exception. I appreciate the opportunity that i was gifted and embrace it as a compliment in trust and if it changed our relationship in any way, it only made me more comfortable with her.