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Posted: 2026-07-09 11:29:23

Ask yourself if this is how you will live your entire life. In a few years, this will feel boring too.

Partner, Children, pets, hobbies will keep you sane and alive. ESA and similar worlds are an escape from the boredom, not a permanent lifestyle.

Girls here have a life outside of the ESA/this profession and for them, that is their escape from the mundane, monotonous, routine life.

My 20c

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Posted: 2026-07-09 11:31:27

On 2026-07-08 22:10:55 Littlerascal said:
On 2026-07-08 14:08:23

To me this is what stands out. The ladies you want, you don't get to be with.

It sounds like you've thrown in the towel.

Do you consider the ladies you want to partner up with out of your league?



A single, desirable modern woman is almost out of everyone's league.

A woman with a career and who has looked after herself expects a flawless partner. Their partner should out earn them, be charming, physically in shape, funny and always be in touch with the latest trends and hip spots in town. They should be available or keen on spontaneous trips and be satisfied with paying for everything. They should be willing to fight to protect their girl, while never raising their voice to the said partner. They need to be stylish and fashionable. They need to have active social media pages but be inactive at the same time. They should have dozens of women commenting on their posts but shouldn't respond to any of them. They shouldn't be clingy but they should text constantly.

Most importantly they shouldn't give women the "ick". The ick could be anything.. Struggling to find a parking spot, using a rewards card, claiming a free coffee while on a date, worrying about finances in general, not matching your belt with your shoes, having a chronic medical condition. The list goes on.

All in all, it's easy to say a woman is out of someone's league because their options are so vast, their criteria is always changing. Dating today is harder than it's ever been.

My gym is filled with decent guys who haven't had a steady relationship in years because they don't meet today's criteria.

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Posted: 2026-07-09 13:00:00

On 2026-07-09 11:31:27 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
On 2026-07-08 22:10:55 Littlerascal said: On 2026-07-08 14:08:23

To me this is what stands out. The ladies you want, you don't get to be with.

It sounds like you've thrown in the towel.

Do you consider the ladies you want to partner up with out of your league?

A single, desirable modern woman is almost out of everyone's league.

A woman with a career and who has looked after herself expects a flawless partner. Their partner should out earn them, be charming, physically in shape, funny and always be in touch with the latest trends and hip spots in town. They should be available or keen on spontaneous trips and be satisfied with paying for everything. They should be willing to fight to protect their girl, while never raising their voice to the said partner. They need to be stylish and fashionable. They need to have active social media pages but be inactive at the same time. They should have dozens of women commenting on their posts but shouldn't respond to any of them. They shouldn't be clingy but they should text constantly.

Most importantly they shouldn't give women the "ick". The ick could be anything.. Struggling to find a parking spot, using a rewards card, claiming a free coffee while on a date, worrying about finances in general, not matching your belt with your shoes, having a chronic medical condition. The list goes on.

All in all, it's easy to say a woman is out of someone's league because their options are so vast, their criteria is always changing. Dating today is harder than it's ever been.

My gym is filled with decent guys who haven't had a steady relationship in years because they don't meet today's criteria.




What a depressing picture of what sort of shallow, vapid women you seem to be surrounded by...
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Posted: 2026-07-09 13:12:31

On 2026-07-09 11:31:27 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
On 2026-07-08 22:10:55 Littlerascal said: On 2026-07-08 14:08:23

To me this is what stands out. The ladies you want, you don't get to be with.

It sounds like you've thrown in the towel.

Do you consider the ladies you want to partner up with out of your league?

A single, desirable modern woman is almost out of everyone's league.

A woman with a career and who has looked after herself expects a flawless partner. Their partner should out earn them, be charming, physically in shape, funny and always be in touch with the latest trends and hip spots in town. They should be available or keen on spontaneous trips and be satisfied with paying for everything. They should be willing to fight to protect their girl, while never raising their voice to the said partner. They need to be stylish and fashionable. They need to have active social media pages but be inactive at the same time. They should have dozens of women commenting on their posts but shouldn't respond to any of them. They shouldn't be clingy but they should text constantly.

Most importantly they shouldn't give women the "ick". The ick could be anything.. Struggling to find a parking spot, using a rewards card, claiming a free coffee while on a date, worrying about finances in general, not matching your belt with your shoes, having a chronic medical condition. The list goes on.

All in all, it's easy to say a woman is out of someone's league because their options are so vast, their criteria is always changing. Dating today is harder than it's ever been.

My gym is filled with decent guys who haven't had a steady relationship in years because they don't meet today's criteria.



It is far easier than this. You simply have to embrace your dark side and become a psychopath. Then she will devote herself to trying to make you change.
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Posted: 2026-07-09 14:56:34

On 2026-07-09 13:12:31 MajorJohn_reborn said:
On 2026-07-09 11:31:27 YourChunkyFunkiness said: On 2026-07-08 22:10:55 Littlerascal said: On 2026-07-08 14:08:23

To me this is what stands out. The ladies you want, you don't get to be with.

It sounds like you've thrown in the towel.

Do you consider the ladies you want to partner up with out of your league?

A single, desirable modern woman is almost out of everyone's league.

A woman with a career and who has looked after herself expects a flawless partner. Their partner should out earn them, be charming, physically in shape, funny and always be in touch with the latest trends and hip spots in town. They should be available or keen on spontaneous trips and be satisfied with paying for everything. They should be willing to fight to protect their girl, while never raising their voice to the said partner. They need to be stylish and fashionable. They need to have active social media pages but be inactive at the same time. They should have dozens of women commenting on their posts but shouldn't respond to any of them. They shouldn't be clingy but they should text constantly.

Most importantly they shouldn't give women the "ick". The ick could be anything.. Struggling to find a parking spot, using a rewards card, claiming a free coffee while on a date, worrying about finances in general, not matching your belt with your shoes, having a chronic medical condition. The list goes on.

All in all, it's easy to say a woman is out of someone's league because their options are so vast, their criteria is always changing. Dating today is harder than it's ever been.

My gym is filled with decent guys who haven't had a steady relationship in years because they don't meet today's criteria.



It is far easier than this. You simply have to embrace your dark side and become a psychopath. Then she will devote herself to trying to make you change.



Everything you said. But I kindoff like this, I want to rub all over the fatties xo
https://share.google/L8yijAbSoglUupohA
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Posted: 2026-07-09 16:05:33

If you are too nice you will get no pussy. You need to a gentleman with a bit of a dark side. Dont be an arsehole but don't be a simp either.
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Posted: 2026-07-09 16:10:50

On 2026-07-09 14:56:34 Fleur Sensuelle said:
On 2026-07-09 13:12:31 MajorJohn_reborn said: On 2026-07-09 11:31:27 YourChunkyFunkiness said: On 2026-07-08 22:10:55 Littlerascal said: On 2026-07-08 14:08:23

To me this is what stands out. The ladies you want, you don't get to be with.

It sounds like you've thrown in the towel.

Do you consider the ladies you want to partner up with out of your league?

A single, desirable modern woman is almost out of everyone's league.

A woman with a career and who has looked after herself expects a flawless partner. Their partner should out earn them, be charming, physically in shape, funny and always be in touch with the latest trends and hip spots in town. They should be available or keen on spontaneous trips and be satisfied with paying for everything. They should be willing to fight to protect their girl, while never raising their voice to the said partner. They need to be stylish and fashionable. They need to have active social media pages but be inactive at the same time. They should have dozens of women commenting on their posts but shouldn't respond to any of them. They shouldn't be clingy but they should text constantly.

Most importantly they shouldn't give women the "ick". The ick could be anything.. Struggling to find a parking spot, using a rewards card, claiming a free coffee while on a date, worrying about finances in general, not matching your belt with your shoes, having a chronic medical condition. The list goes on.

All in all, it's easy to say a woman is out of someone's league because their options are so vast, their criteria is always changing. Dating today is harder than it's ever been.

My gym is filled with decent guys who haven't had a steady relationship in years because they don't meet today's criteria.



It is far easier than this. You simply have to embrace your dark side and become a psychopath. Then she will devote herself to trying to make you change.


Everything you said. But I kindoff like this, I want to rub all over the fatties xo
https://share.google/L8yijAbSoglUupohA



You are into polar bears?
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Posted: 2026-07-09 17:21:03

On 2026-07-09 16:10:50 MajorJohn_reborn said:
On 2026-07-09 14:56:34 Fleur Sensuelle said: On 2026-07-09 13:12:31 MajorJohn_reborn said: On 2026-07-09 11:31:27 YourChunkyFunkiness said: On 2026-07-08 22:10:55 Littlerascal said: On 2026-07-08 14:08:23

To me this is what stands out. The ladies you want, you don't get to be with.

It sounds like you've thrown in the towel.

Do you consider the ladies you want to partner up with out of your league?

A single, desirable modern woman is almost out of everyone's league.

A woman with a career and who has looked after herself expects a flawless partner. Their partner should out earn them, be charming, physically in shape, funny and always be in touch with the latest trends and hip spots in town. They should be available or keen on spontaneous trips and be satisfied with paying for everything. They should be willing to fight to protect their girl, while never raising their voice to the said partner. They need to be stylish and fashionable. They need to have active social media pages but be inactive at the same time. They should have dozens of women commenting on their posts but shouldn't respond to any of them. They shouldn't be clingy but they should text constantly.

Most importantly they shouldn't give women the "ick". The ick could be anything.. Struggling to find a parking spot, using a rewards card, claiming a free coffee while on a date, worrying about finances in general, not matching your belt with your shoes, having a chronic medical condition. The list goes on.

All in all, it's easy to say a woman is out of someone's league because their options are so vast, their criteria is always changing. Dating today is harder than it's ever been.

My gym is filled with decent guys who haven't had a steady relationship in years because they don't meet today's criteria.



It is far easier than this. You simply have to embrace your dark side and become a psychopath. Then she will devote herself to trying to make you change.


Everything you said. But I kindoff like this, I want to rub all over the fatties xo
https://share.google/L8yijAbSoglUupohA

You are into polar bears?



I laughed out loud neighbors probably got infected. We'll..... my taste is weird. I have fallen for weird men and each looked vastly different in size ect so I can't exactly say I have a type.

Maybe it's energy, pheromones??
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Posted: 2026-07-09 22:38:30

On 2026-07-09 11:31:27 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
On 2026-07-08 22:10:55 Littlerascal said: On 2026-07-08 14:08:23
Most importantly they shouldn't give women the "ick". The ick could be anything.. Struggling to find a parking spot, using a rewards card, claiming a free coffee while on a date, worrying about finances in general, not matching your belt with your shoes, having a chronic medical condition. The list goes on.



This is hilarious. Sounds more like a spoiled brat.
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Posted: 2026-07-10 06:23:04

Good time to be on this app this morning I can say I have learnt a lot in such a short time.

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