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Posted: 2025-04-09 19:08:26

On 2025-04-09 14:38:23 Mpowered said:
Sounds like something the damn government is doing to most of us already....



And wives if you share bank accounts
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Posted: 2025-04-09 19:46:05

On 2025-04-09 13:54:00 Zynmaster13 said:
Hey there! I'm a guy seeking a strong, assertive white girl to build a findom (financial domination) connection with. I want someone who's ready to take charge and dominate me financially, owning and controlling my life in this dynamic.

For those unfamiliar, findom is a consensual dynamic where one person (the dominant) takes control over the other's finances, often involving elements of power exchange, humiliation, and devotion. It's about trust, surrender, and the thrill of giving up control to someone who knows how to wield it.

**What's in it for her?**
This is your chance to step into a role of power and confidence. You'll have the opportunity to call the shots, set the rules, and enjoy the benefits of my financial devotion---whether that's through tributes, gifts, or whatever you desire. You'll get to explore your dominant side, pushing boundaries with playful (or intense) humiliation and control, all while being appreciated and worshipped for your authority.

**What I'm looking for:**
I want you to take the reins completely---own me, guide me, and use me for your financial gain. I'm ready to be molded by your commands, whether that involves spoiling you, facing your teasing, or embracing the rush of being under your control. You should be confident, creative, and ready to make this dynamic exciting and rewarding for both of us.

If this sounds like you, let's connect and talk about how you want to make me yours. I'm eager to surrender and let you take over!


I don't mind I will give you the pleasure from taking your money gifts in a form of power dynamic
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Posted: 2025-04-09 20:36:04

Would love to bend you to my will. Break your ego and make you submit to my desires.
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Posted: 2025-04-09 20:55:41

Watch em swoop in lol, bros inbox must be flooded by now lmfao
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Posted: 2025-04-09 20:58:56

Saw this on Law and order svu
Didnt end well :-(
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Posted: 2025-04-09 21:10:45

On 2025-04-09 19:07:53 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
On 2025-04-09 15:24:21 Mxtress Fussy Bunny said: I love FinDomming

It can be so fulfilling for both of us, when done right.

*winks

Does the sub surrender their bank account to the dom?



This totally depends on what they want, and what we negotiate.

I like my subs to maintain their autonomy within the bounds of our negotiated dynamic.
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Posted: 2025-04-09 21:52:26
Edited: 2025-04-09 21:52:59

Not too long ago someone reached out with this kind of request.

I thought someone was playing the fool with me.

As per usual, no need to be rude and courteously said thank u but no thank u.

After the message , i Read up on it and still makes no sense to me.

I suppose because I am frugal when it comes to money spend and don't trust anybody with my hard earnings....no matter what.



RB.


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Posted: 2025-04-09 23:52:12

On 2025-04-09 21:52:26 Russian Bridgitte said:


After the message , i Read up on it and still makes no sense to me.

I suppose because I am frugal when it comes to money spend and don't trust anybody with my hard earnings....no matter what.



RB.




And hence you'd make a good Findom...

Personally, I have a wife, hence this is definitely not one of my fetishes, lol. Sometimes we need to be grateful for what we have. One man's fantasy, another's reality ...

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Posted: 2025-04-10 00:17:00

Sounds like you are describing a Wife ...and if she divorces your and takes a huge chunk of your wealth , that would just fit perfectly into the humiliating aspect that you seek
Either way , why would you give up your financial management to a person who isn't qualified to be an FM .
Would it not be easier just to book someone to play out that role without jeopardizing your financial standing .
Sorry , not taking a piss at you but this can't end well
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Posted: 2025-04-10 07:41:06
Edited: 2025-04-10 07:41:32

You should simply have invested in the stock market about a week ago. It would have taken most of your money. And will now start giving you back little bits - that's if you stay disciplined!
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