@Sexyhumour, you would be the exception to the rule. Not trying to take anything away from you, but this is not us expressing a perception, or what we think about wg's but our real experience. Most wg's that message are certainly not in the mood to share jokes. Most of them are straightforward - "when are you visiting again." Or a "hi" followed by silence or little talk if you respond because they're disappointed you're not immediately asking to book. That way you also know the same message went out to a long list of clients to see who bites. Furthermore, this is not just related to wg's. I have experienced this with ladies outside the industry too, where you all of a sudden get a morning message and some back and forth chatting that quickly turns into a plea for help or cash. I had a lady last week sending me friendly chats and by the third response she was asking for money. Yesterday, another one was being very friendly but quickly turned into her a request for money. Wg or no wg, this happens and most of us are awake to it.

On 2025-09-02 10:44:44 Sexyhumour said:
It's just so sad how you guys see nothing good in us at all. Everything we do is just bad and we always have ulterior motives according to y'all. The way most of you see and perceive us really hurts. I do check up on clients I'm close to not because I want a booking. Someone may have told me about his weak health in our last session and they go mute for some time...I'll text and check up on them if they are doing well. I may say "HI" cos I genuinely miss you and miss our chats. There's clients I chat to almost everyday, we share jokes etc...some of us are really not malicious as you think.
Is there anything good at all you guys can say about WGs?

That is not true at all. There are plenty wgs I chat to. That check up on me as you say or I check up on them.

But it is not these messages. They will always follow up with details asking about family or whatever issue they're checking up on etc and we'll probably actual have a full conversation over hours or even days. So yes there are genuine wgs, or rather human beings but that is completely different to what is being spoken about here.

JP69

That is not true at all. There are plenty wgs I chat to. That check up on me as you say or I check up on them.

But it is not these messages. They will always follow up with details asking about family or whatever issue they're checking up on etc and we'll probably actual have a full conversation over hours or even days. So yes there are genuine wgs, or rather human beings but that is completely different to what is being spoken about here.

JP69 [/QUOTE]

I fully understand what is being spoken about here. It is about WG's luring clients into making a booking by sending texts and "hi" was stated as a conversation starter to such behaviour.
I just wanted to put it out there that not everyone that says " hi" is out to benefit something from you as WG's are always seen and assumed to be inhumane as per everyday comments on the forum. I rarely read positive things about WG's and that's my stance hence my comment. I'm not lost at all, I'm still within.

@Caton atleast you do know that it could be anyone's behaviour/character regardless or being a WG or not. I was onto WG's cos that's the subject at hand.

It is just business, and do not forget it for a moment.

Major John I agree with you 100 percent there is never a genuine interest apart from the moola each person can mask their replies with whatever they want to bite me shoot me but end of the day it's all about money just by saying hi to us punters is already putting that thought of a session with sp there will be other replies on this thread saying we are wrong but if you know you know we might think with the little head most times but the big head is always the voice of reason

Never happened
But if it's a relative acceptable offer, what's the harm. Still my choice to say yes or no

This happens not only in this business.
Atleast the girl doesnt ask for 2 referrals they can call who might be interested in their services.

It's a business so it's purely marketing, nothing personal or distasteful about it

On 2025-09-02 13:32:28 Pumpkineater said:
This happens not only in this business.
Atleast the girl doesnt ask for 2 referrals they can call who might be interested in their services.

Thank you for the laugh!

If you try put extra effort into "befriending" WGs most simply shut you out at some point or you just can never get a booking slot - they will give an excuse on excuse. I think most simply assume it will be easy to get manipulated in such a situation - time extension, extras etc . I understand it - so book, do your thing & leave!
There are some WGs that are so awesome you actually want them as both a SP and an odd adult friend but it never really works out most times. Tried it all before - was genuinely concerned.