Suikertjie you are very intuitive and when you let down that "eksaljouapkgee" facade you definitely let the sweetness surface, well done!

Good Post Sugar.

I would just like to say that I hope more women see men as people, and not animals.

Just like I hope more men see women as people, and not objects.

Sugar, the reason why I was offering to buy you a drink and asking which planet you are from is because very few women understand what you have just written. It was not in a bad or nasty way....I only meant to say that you are one of the few who understand exactly how a man feels and that really touched me. Apologies if I came across as nasty in my comment, that was not my intention. Let me know if we can still have that drink.

Sugar, thanks for the appreciation... and I think many men have been feeling the pressure! And the reason I am here is to clear my head, have a say, indulge in what society may not "allow"... and to hear someone who seems to understand that... that sees that we are not just dogs... thank you!

When what Sugar describes happens it is awesome.

If I can be forgiven in repeating one of my own posts here, this is what I was referring to when I wrote;

"I am a married self-employed man who has a truly dysfunctional family (that I happen to love madly). I am on the road here or overseas at least one week a month.

My wife decides that some aspect of our life is incredibly unsatisfactory. The cause? The issues imposed by our old kitchen, apparently granite is an absolute must if you want to be satisfied in life. None of that composite stone like stuff that we had, oh and it HAS to be red granite.

At the same time I have a client that is the rudest most self-obsessed over demanding piece of crap that I have ever had the misfortune to deal with.

I ache, REALLY ache, from old injuries, uncomfortable beds in remote hotels, too long on my feet and so on. I am so tired, physically mentally and emotionally.

I want my home, I want my wife to love me (sometimes she does!) I want all of mine to be happy, the house to be a sanctuary of utter harmony, my clients to be decent people and life to be an ambrosia like land of milk and honey and it isn't.

So in steps a lady who soothes the aches, seems to pick up that there is some inherent sadness affecting me, I don't tell her anything but she picks it up. She is a soft fragrant feminine creature that simply exudes warmth and passion all wrapped with an infectious smile, a subtle giggle and seems totally free of the trials and tribulations of life. She strokes my ego, listen to my opinions and offers her own freely and confidently, she laughs at my stupid jokes and didn't go EWWWWWW upon seeing my unsightly visage. I LOVE her!

Actually I don't, I love how she has made me feel, I love that for that short time she reminded me that life is good, that the impending sense of doom is simply me being an idiot. I love the way she makes me realise that I am a lucky dude who just needs a metaphorical slap round the face, needs to tie my boots on, square the shoulders and just get on with shit.

I love being happy, BUT I DO NOT love her. I really enjoyed the company, she is a special person but we are NOT in LOVE. I am fairly confident she kind of likes me but am under no illusion that she wishes for me to save her from the cruelties of life and run off in to the sunset. "

Sugar, when you are THAT person you do more good for the sole than most can realise.

Le Roux, now you just making a grown man cry over the phone screen! That's beautiful man... probably not intended to be poetic or of literary genius... but read as such!

@Sugar -- this is a great thread.

Thank you to everyone who contributed too. Very true words.

I think sometimes punters might be seen in a bad light by some SP's, but there is more to it than meets the eye. We are only human afterall and have needs, emotions,unhappiness, stress etc. to deal with on a daily basis. Most of us try to hide all of this as best we can when we visit you ladies.

What a beautiful thread

@ Sugar - such a beautiful person - remain humble - it brings the best out in you.

@Le Roux - I so get your post.

It is also important to note that at times us girls have felt the same way - maybe not in your exact words Le Roux but at times we too need the little comfort even though it may be a complete stranger - so treat us right and with respect. (not to say you dont)(though there are some that are ruthless and disgusting which in turn brings us down)(but thats another story, for another day)

There's a huge amount of energy that is exchanged during a session and it's amazing when it's good for both parties. A little distraction from the realities. People need more 'pick me up' experiences in order to get through the mundane tasks that life provides us.

On 2017-01-31 22:38:02 Sugar Xtreme Xxx said:
After commenting on a certain thread I have to put this up...
Yes I'm more an empath than a wg.
It's a blessing and curse.
However, this industry has taught me that We are All humans first, Everyone has feelings, everyone has something they dealing with that they don't speak about.
Treat everyone with dignity and respect.

Putting myself in a punter shoes he comes visits me to relief some stress to relief himself whichever one.
But his a person. A father, a CEO, a entrepreneur.etc
He works very hard for his money,and the time he comes to me could be there for a relaxing company just to get away from all the pressures of life work, family etc
Just to enjoy himself and indulge in his fantasy.
Some down time.

Sometimes I look at clients and you can see gosh this person doesn't get a down time. Rushing from one meeting to the next.
Day in day out.

I am a wg,Escort by profession but my heart is really touched by such clients.
You work hard.
I see it. I might not say it always.

You guys keep on pushing hard.
We ladies are truly thankful for your support.
Look after yourselfs too.
It's important don't just slave away.
Sorry just feeling to much tonight.
Xoxo
Sugar

Big like Sugar.

Great thread from an absolutely stunning girl