Then ask the ladies you visit what they want.
I responded to your main heading on your thread what woman want... Did not read your thread..
Your thread has two questions lol..
Anyway...
Hope the lovely ladies answer you..

We like Gentleman ok..
No rude buggers..
If you must slap my Ass do it in a sexual manner.
Be real with me in the room...
Dont be a scared guy. Too scared touch, too scared to do kiss, too scared to really stroke my breasts etc..
And if I let you do me in my favourite style trust me you would be leaving with a huge smile on your face!!!

On 2016-12-12 18:25:49 Miss Jackson said:
We like Gentleman ok..
No rude buggers..
If you must slap my Ass do it in a sexual manner.
Be real with me in the room...
Dont be a scared guy. Too scared touch, too scared to do kiss, too scared to really stroke my breasts etc..
And if I let you do me in my favourite style trust me you would be leaving with a huge smile on your face!!!

that's my lady hahahahaha.yeah babe

Interesting topic this.
Maybe being 'detached' it is something that come with experience. Maybe the ladies have had their hearts 'broken' by punters more than a few times and has learned to switch off. Myself still need to reach this 'level of experience' Still having these internal conversations with myself - 'What did she mean by this? Or by saying that? Or by doing so?'
The struggle of a punter...

On 2016-12-12 18:05:24 Lovemuff said:


I will try and rephrase my questions:

1. Compliments are given regardless of whom the person is or how you were treated to try and secure future business?

2. The mind is completely detached from the deed and not an afterthought is spared. No connection is possible as it is a transaction?

3. Do the women on this site even appreciate a little effort from the punter or is effort irrelevant?

1.Compliments are given to guys who treat me with respect, even if he was a bad lay, and guys who think they can just get here and treat me with disrespect are always told to leave, I really don't need them or their money, as most of my regulars are just awesome men!

2.some men can make me detach myself from the deed, especially when he does something like rubbing my clit as if he wants to pop it and I keep telling him time and time again to be gentle cause when flower frowns she instantly gets dry, and I don't know who told men that digging for diamonds in the puna is the way to go!

3. The effort is always appreciated, shaving the neither region, taking a shower before, smelling good and clean as if you're going on your first date, it's always appreciated!

@Matewis. You get the general direction I am going with this. Thumbs up!

@Climax. Thank you for a welcome response. Very well worded.

@Sharon. Do I interpret your answer correctly if I say you can detach your mind completely and just call it fun? Sorry to be blunt, but in simple terms: Wham, bham, thank you mam and it's over. Not an afterthought to be spared or deemed worthy after the fact?

To answer that my angel..

I meant every client is different. Like I said total different experience with every client...I remember each clients job each clients needs and what he wants when he spends time with me....even tho I havnt seen them in years I always remember their faces and actions and needs. Im sure some of them can say its true...

Its a secret that I keep to myself tho ur asking lovemuff....

Some of them are my best friends..come visit me just to talk....book 2 hours to lie next to eachother and drink wine and talk about life.....

Some of u really wiggles ur way into my heart....
Ive got clients that I go and visit tho I dont travel that I trust completely....so my point is be yourself when ur visiting me....if we go over the time as requested we laugh and talk about it....he would pay me for the time tho I dont ask....

I jump in the shower with them bite their bum or make jokes.... I take you as u are....
Hope it makes sense

@Sharon. Makes perfect sense. My apologies. I completely misread your initial response.

I think it all depends what a woman went threw in her life...
a young woman wants to get engaged get married and have children.. after that she does anything for her children
if divorced I think a woman then see life in another way and enjoys her freedom with a man she actually wanted from the start.. she will enjoy life for what it is and that is love.
most woman get married for security, they love, but it doesnt last...
the rest is a BONUS