Safety is a real concern on both sides. Unfortunately, scams, blackmail attempts, robbery and even fake police scammers extortion methods are happening, which is why caution is essential for punters and SP's.

Some red flags are:

- Requests for upfront payments, deposits or gift cards.
- Pressure to rush the booking or move off reputable platforms.
-Poor communication, inconsistent details or changing stories.
- Refusal to provide thorough details when booking.
- Requests for pictures, personal information (screening prior to the appointment).
- Prices that seem unusually low or offers that feel "too good".
- Contact from "police," "Handlers/Managers" or third parties demanding money.
- Profiles with no history, no comments, no reviews on their adds etc.

Having said all of the above, there are still cases where SP's or clients may appear genuine but are actually intending to deceive someone into an appointment or meet-up.

Good morning I think it goes both ways. Clients has the advantage of at least seeing and choosing who they want to visit.

We on the other hand don't know who is coming through the door except if the member is active on the forum and conducts himself and tells us who he is.

I hate reviews. The so called police works with the druggie that sell Clients numbers. They look who reviewed lady's and then start digging. I can provide screen shots where I block these idiots asking for numbers after I told them to f*&%$ off.

If you gents only knew what some lady's has gone through, rape, being held hostage, being beaten up, being held ar gun point, forced to rob uber drivers ext your hair will rise. That is why I don't travel out to Clients. I feel safe in my space and that is why I work from my own private place alone and I offer my clients that.

If I have any issues or feel in danger I open or shout for my pitbulls. They will break a wall down for me( never had to though lol) just putting it out there.

I think it's a matter of respect and also not putting yourself in that situation if that little voice says stay away or don't take the booking.

On 2026-02-03 10:23:32 Vanta said:


Some red flags are:

- Requests for upfront payments, deposits or gift cards.
- Profiles with no history, no comments, no reviews on their adds etc.

Having said all of the above, there are still cases where SP's or clients may appear genuine but are actually intending to deceive someone into an appointment or meet-up.

I don't agree with the no history point. Every single woman here started at 0 reviews at some point so that doesn't make sense at all. Also you're telling me you don't pay first, that's eliminating 99% of woman here. Guys take chances and get just rush out first chance they get.

On 2026-02-02 15:33:22 jd6920 said:
How safe is it say compared to 15 years ago to visit a WG at a venue which is a house or cottage? Suppose also not always safe for WG as well not knowing the person making the booking. Read on social media that either way people get black mailed. Suppose best way is to check reviews and report back.

You are a member since July 2008, you off all people should know by now what this industry was and is now.

I been around since March 2009 and when I started it was about booking as many girls as possible, the risk then was not to get caught by the wife.

Now it's scam after scam, even punters ending up DEAD.
For me it's now a case of sticking to a regular ;-)

On 2026-02-03 10:47:01 Coochie.Pounder1 said:
On 2026-02-03 10:23:32 Vanta said:

Some red flags are:

- Requests for upfront payments, deposits or gift cards.
- Profiles with no history, no comments, no reviews on their adds etc.

Having said all of the above, there are still cases where SP's or clients may appear genuine but are actually intending to deceive someone into an appointment or meet-up.

I don't agree with the no history point. Every single woman here started at 0 reviews at some point so that doesn't make sense at all. Also you're telling me you don't pay first, that's eliminating 99% of woman here. Guys take chances and get just rush out first chance they get.

"Everyone started at zero reviews." Totally true - newbies exist, no argument there. But let's not pretend brand new ads magically come with a built in scam forcefield. When someone's fresh out the box, they're still learning the ropes, the red flags, and unfortunately that makes them prime real estate for Fake Police. Do all newbies get targeted? No. But pretending it doesn't happen is like saying nobody speeds because speed limits exist.

Now, point two - because this one did a full Olympic jump into misunderstanding. I never said I don't pay first ever. I said I don't do pre-payments. As in: I show up, I confirm I'm not being arrested by Officer CashApp, then money changes hands. On-site payment. In person. With gravity and witnesses. Not "send into the void and hope for the best."

And yeah, some guys take chances. Some people also eat gas-station sushi. Doesn't mean it's a best practice.

So to summarise:

New ads = learning curve + higher scam risk (not a moral judgement, just math).

I pay on site, not via advance donation to the Church of Nope.

Clarity restored, chaos reduced.

For fucksake its safe if u been engaging with her on esa or WhatsApp if the reviews are clear with no red flags. If you met her at a social and you heard of the place shes working at is safe. If you come across a dodgy area and u know its run by a certain crew then dont go. If shes a scammer dont go, guys talk,they post and they have WhatsApp groups so listen when ppl talk it helps.jisses

On 2026-02-03 11:22:49 Vanta said:
On 2026-02-03 10:47:01

New ads = learning curve + higher scam risk (not a moral judgement, just math).

Do disagree with you on this.

It is normally the more established SPs that know the industry well that are into scamming punters.

Do a search through the forum history and you will hardly find any new entrance to the trade been blamed for "scamming" tactics.

Its those SP, who constantly change their profile, names and contact number that are often guilty of scamming. The changing of profile details are most often an attempt to hide a "checkered past" .

Proof are here for all to see

I always ask my Punters about their safety when they make the bookings..like do you guys tell a closest friend that you're going to this location and if anything happens to you they know where to find you?do you guys sends live locations?
The amount of risks you guys takes it makes me think once you get horny your brains go down to your D..

I heard about a lady that had a client book her he wanted raw(not use a condome because then apparently he can't get it up. This guy proceeded taking a plastic bag put it over her pussy and started licking her and asked her how does that feel. Poor woman was traumatized and chased him out. This is what some of us has to deal with.

On 2026-02-04 07:53:56 Johanika said:
I heard about a lady that had a client book her he wanted raw(not use a condome because then apparently he can't get it up. This guy proceeded taking a plastic bag put it over her pussy and started licking her and asked her how does that feel. Poor woman was traumatized and chased him out. This is what some of us has to deal with.

I'm that girl...I was in Gezina and he came with spar plastic bag with wine...it happens in 2019 and l never recovered from that.And he left a bad review after that..