On 2025-09-30 17:20:01 JackParrow69 said:
On 2025-09-30 16:52:31 moehk704 said: Perfect, just the the thread I was looking for.
I've met a lovely lady and we've decided to start a FWB arrangement. We're both in our mid-20s and have agreed to get tested first. Once clear, she's happy to go on birth control so we can have sex raw.
For those who've been in a similar situation, how effective was birth control for you and your partner when you went raw? Did you ever have pregnancy scares, or did it work out fine?
Would love to hear some real experiences from others who've gone this route.
Thanks!
Pull out man. Pull out.
In this day and age, that is too risky. Any and every chick will say exactly that coz you won't/not commiting so they can get pregnant and then you're forced to commit to child support at least, and if they work their pussy magic on you, you will commit to a whole freaking relationship or marriage with a hoe.
Birth control is safe when you live with the person and see them taking it every single day to be sure but they don't even take their diabetes tablets consistently on their own.
And to as to the scares, I've had scares man when I was young. Two was a lie to try and make me stay in a relationship and one just wanted to hassle me for money "to do an abortion" and another actually got pregnant (because she forgot a couple pills here and there) and we had to do an abortion so it isn't really all that reliable and it's a shit thing to go through.
Also learn about the ovulation cycle. I didn't know this when I was young. Women can only get pregnant when they are ovulating which is mid cycle at around the 14th day from start of period. Some have different cycles so you need to figure hers out but birth control will regulate it to 28 days on most cases. Basically, she can't get pregnant outside of ovulation anyway so if you figure that out, then you don't need to pull out about 3 weeks on a month, just a couple days before and few days after to be safe and avoid surprises and headaches. Let her swallow those babies instead during that ovulation window. You can also get ovulation testers which normally come in a pack of 5 from Dischem that you can use during that period to be certain. People usually use them to figure out when to conceive a baby but you'll use it to avoid conceiving a baby.
JP69
There is a special term for couples that rely on the rhythm method, parents.
On 2025-09-30 16:52:31 moehk704 said:
Perfect, just the the thread I was looking for.
I've met a lovely lady and we've decided to start a FWB arrangement. We're both in our mid-20s and have agreed to get tested first. Once clear, she's happy to go on birth control so we can have sex raw.
For those who've been in a similar situation, how effective was birth control for you and your partner when you went raw? Did you ever have pregnancy scares, or did it work out fine?
Would love to hear some real experiences from others who've gone this route.
Thanks!
Not with a fwb but with my partner, we've now got 3 kids and she was on the pill each time. Funny part is that after each child we changed the pill and ended up with the same result... we've now dropped the pill and I cum either in the ass (on the times shes up for it) or mouth
Condoms and "pulling out" are among the least effective methods (around 76-95% effective or more than 5 in 100). Injections, the pill etc are somewhere in the middle depending on many factors such as correct use, medication interactions etc.
Side note: the contraceptive pill, for all the good it has done, has some potentially severe side effects for the women taking it.
No
No and no.
Why would anyone do bareback....
On 2025-09-30 21:16:21 Jade said:
Hormonal IUDs, tubal ligation and vasectomies have the highest efficacy (more than 99% or less than 1 in 100).
Condoms and "pulling out" are among the least effective methods (around 76-95% effective or more than 5 in 100). Injections, the pill etc are somewhere in the middle depending on many factors such as correct use, medication interactions etc.
Side note: the contraceptive pill, for all the good it has done, has some potentially severe side effects for the women taking it.
Yup, can attest, got a friend pregnant and definitely did not cum in her. Not even a close to the edge pull out. Pre cum is a thing.
On 2025-10-01 10:20:41 kevman said:
On 2025-09-30 21:16:21 Jade said: Hormonal IUDs, tubal ligation and vasectomies have the highest efficacy (more than 99% or less than 1 in 100).
Condoms and "pulling out" are among the least effective methods (around 76-95% effective or more than 5 in 100). Injections, the pill etc are somewhere in the middle depending on many factors such as correct use, medication interactions etc.
Side note: the contraceptive pill, for all the good it has done, has some potentially severe side effects for the women taking it.
Yup, can attest, got a friend pregnant and definitely did not cum in her. Not even a close to the edge pull out. Pre cum is a thing.
Wow, maybe your friend was already pregnant. I've seen a girl tell 5 guys that she's pregnant on the same day so all of them gave money for that first trimester abortion pill, lol.
Them all giving her money was not the surprising part to me. What was surprisingly is that no one questioned it so she was obviously banging them all at the same time raw and she wasn't a wg, just a student having fun and hustling guys.
JP69
On 2025-10-01 06:34:04 Matthewjones0407 said:
This is a big no and a lady offering it is a huge red flag. How often do working ladies get tested?
I think you'll be surprised by this answer generally service providers need to stay healthy in order to work. So I would assume more than the average person.
I feel we all need to do our part to keep each other as safe as possible.
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