On 2025-07-10 14:58:34 Allora said:
On 2025-07-10 12:43:13 Bilbo said:
I wanna know from the guys , is it a major turn on to book someone who is busy?

May be it's a question for another thread... But yeah
He'll it's funny I can not comprehend.

Allora

...its not that we want to book when you are busy, its when WE are available...for us corporate slaves it may be the best time to sneak off.

On 2025-07-10 14:58:34 Allora said:

You know what I've realised though , is that some times I will switch that available indicator on, and get calls immediately. And you wanna know what's funny? Some days I do the same, then wait 30 minutes after 30 minutes and no calls, no text, but the minutes im occupied, and now my availability indicator is off , then my phone loose it, and ring out of control, with number of requests on my what's app

All we see is the last online time on your profile which I think updates every time you log in .

If you were last online at least 8 hours ago most punters will message you because we are assuming you're still working today.

The available stuff is just for you to show up on the available now section which only desperate punters use.

On 2025-07-10 17:18:44 FrecklesLover said:
On 2025-07-10 14:58:34 Allora said:
You know what I've realised though , is that some times I will switch that available indicator on, and get calls immediately. And you wanna know what's funny? Some days I do the same, then wait 30 minutes after 30 minutes and no calls, no text, but the minutes im occupied, and now my availability indicator is off , then my phone loose it, and ring out of control, with number of requests on my what's app

All we see is the last online time on your profile which I think updates every time you log in .

If you were last online at least 8 hours ago most punters will message you because we are assuming you're still working today.

The available stuff is just for you to show up on the available now section which only desperate punters use.

Really?
Wait I'm confused, you say you cant see the current available ladies now? And only the desperate punters can?

Who are the desperate punters Who are so fortunate to have this options, because each time we switch that available now indicator, we avail our self for them, I wanna know who are the desperate punters? Are the Gold members? Because according are a basic member right?

Unless you saying to me , you guys are saying, you are not looking for the current available ladies, but the specific lady of your choice
Then I think I will understand
Allora

@ Maverrick
I must say I agree with you 100%.
Thanks for putting it out there the way it is!

Another day, another search begins! Any and all recommendations or Self promotions welcome.

Trying to make this Friday a memorable one

On 2025-07-10 14:29:45 CIGARS said:
The other avalibility indicator is "last online " This info indicates when last the sp was online and if avaliable on the day.
Iv used this measure on a few occasions.

Might not be a good indicator;) you might miss out on some awesome oppertunities by just using that as an indicator.

I am home and cozy and scrolling and have no intention of taking any appointments for rest of the day.

Had two very early bookings a Pre booked 7h00 and a lucky early worm that caught me just as I left guesthouse and I popped in at his house for an early morning treat.

I know some ladies that will only check ESA in mornings or evening before their day starts or ends..

Some will only login between bookings at venues they work from as they can't check in on ESA at home due to kids/partner/parents etc being around.

And there are ladies that never ever login on ESA or their other advertising platforms.. they pay their adverts and as long as they get calls they don't care about forum or reviews or any of the bells and whistles offered by websites.

[QUOTE;5555314;Maverrick]
5. I have a rule which may be a contentious one but if I read even 1 bad review I'm out! You may say thats unfair and I am willing to hear you out on this but I have been proven right on this rule too many times and I am talking about *legit* reviews on bad service


For the most part, sure, however, always gotta take it with a grain of salt.
There have been many times where a bad review clearly indicates that the guy and girl just didn't connect, and that may be harsh on the lady bc sometimes a lack of connection may not be her fault.


It does suck having to do extensive homework just to find out if someone is legit!

extensive homework csan also equal expensive homework!!

Thanks Mav - enjoyed your rant. Agree on so many points. I too have, over the years, narrowed my choice of SP and I am battling to find that particular lady close to where I work/reside. I too am not able to spend 45 mins each way to Pta or East Rand in travel so I must do what is in and around JHB North area. The pickings are definitely slimming down. Maybe it is a function of getting older!!

My solution is finding a few "gems" and saving them to my favorites folder - whatsapping for more info about them and setting a relationship with them. Then, when I am ready to meet, most of the hard work is done. I already "sort of" clicked, know which area, and the underlying costs & services.

If at the stage of initial contact, they start to give attitude, they get cutoff and a note is made on their profile accordingly.

I might add that although I am not a big purchaser of content, if I feel that the lady is worth it, but I have a nagging feeling, I would buy content to get a feel about her.

It is amazing what you learn about someone when they sell something to you, especially when they have received the cash before sending you the product. I have learnt many lessons this way and saved plenty in school fees

Preach Brother!!! trust me i have tried the above too!! although i am not a conternt buyer in any way shape or form. im just looking for a good time!! is that too much to ask??