Oraljim I've been along time in this industry..
I've seen been there done all that..
But reading some reviews and actually speaking to some of the ladies you hear a different story..
Some ladies just accept it and don't say anything..
Coz they must work for there family etc
It's heart breaking..
Esp more so when a punter doesn't have simple respect for a lady.
I've posted many times on private forum of punters being rude rough etc..
Even this year a punter pounded me so hard I had to take a few days off so my body can relax and heal.. Yet guys don't see that. They just download there jizz and walk away.
I bet you if the cards where reversed punters would definitely treat ladies better...

What i find interesting is the punters who write...
"Treat her with respect and she will treat u like a king."......
Is there a hidden message in those words that has punters jumping for their phones?

... for i cannot understand why ANY punter would even imagine to treat ANY lady without respect while in a session with her.

So what gives? Any explanations?

Xxx
B.

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I for one can think that the punter who used those words actually spoke and got to know the lady during his session maybe she felt she could share some of her bad experiences.. And in that he realised damn I mustn't treat this lady like that it really hurt her.. I will treat her better and we both can enjoy the experience.. Maybe she also enjoyed the session more coz she could relax,etc with the punter and she actually gave her best!!!
Hence his words treat her with respect she will treat you like a king!!

Thank u Ms. Xtreme. Makes perfect sense.
A silly like me needs it spelt out.
Something like
"......i took the time to chat with her. A great gal she is"
But.
Sadly.
Can see the response from most punters...
"We here to fuck not looking for a girlfriends or know what music she played or what a great conversationalist she is."

Sigh.....Ms.Xtreme your post very relevant.

The review sadly, is based on cold factuals such as performance and expectation. How the lady felt......who the fuck cares.....and not meant to be a derogatory statement. Cold fact.


Xxx
B.

So on the one hand we have ladies like Chasidy saying "bend me over and fuck me like a whore, fuck me deep and hard, in my pussy in my throat". You ladies then go "Ooooh Chasidy you rock girl."

Then Sugar says "don't treat me like a whore" and you are like "ooooh girl you are so right".

Is it too much to ask for a little consistency? I personally would NEVER treat a lady like a whore or be rough with her, not even in sex games, I just don't have it in me. But when you ladies send such unbelievably mixed signals I am afraid to say you must expect mixed results.

On 2016-08-06 12:52:37 Sugar Xtreme said:
Don't be a doos and put on a review which is not even close to what really is happening..

After reading the whole thread this is the only bit I agree with.
Some guys (and girls!) like it rough, others don't - so, if you see the oke's going to go 'too' rough stop him, and if he doesn't listen chase him away.
Simple hmm?
Zero excuses like 'the house will not...' or 'she has to put bread on the table', if it's too hot in the kitchen get out - as simple.



Now, where did I put that bag of popcorn???

Oraljim
I'm no Chass Sir.
As a matter of fact that works for her I applaude her for that but not for myself ..
Yes I like to get wild sometimes but not always...
So Sir do not twist my words.. I made my point very clearly...

I've made my point that needs to addressed..
As this is a Daily occurence.. And so many ladies suffer silently.
So it's facts n.
To say get out the kitchen is such a shame.
For you are simply not acknowledging what I'm saying.
Thanks to Arwhen and B for commenting..
I felt for a moment I'm the only one that's seeing this the ladies I spoke simply don't want to be on the forum.. Non the less
I will be lambasted for speaking up at least some one did..
If A lady speaks up about Bad treatment it's always some guys That will say something bad...
FOK..
No man.. Look at it from the ladies side too..yet you claim to be gentleman.. FOK not in my opinion..
Thats the truth..
If a lady doesn't want to open up wide enough let her be...
It's after all her body..

This is usually a "chicken and egg" situation. I would ask the WG, are you in the mood? What do you enjoy? What positions do you not like?

At this point, she starts getting annoyed.

The alternative is simply going, only to realise the WG is really not in the mood, which leads to me being annoyed.

But I agree sugar, not all WGs are the same. Some are fairly machanical, yet awesome at GFE. And then you get the sensually slutty (no offense, my favourite), followed by the all out nymphs!! Each to it's own, and it's up to the punter to find the chemistry with the WG her prefers.

Thanks Doc
At least you ask the lady before doing the damage..
I've also told my punters slowly and have definitely declined some for there roughness.. But sometimes I do get wild..
Xoxo
Sugar