I personally believe, regardless of religion or belief that I have the chemistry (as do you all) of that of an animal, as we all belong in the Animal kingdom genus (scientifically speaking). We all enjoy grooming.

That said, Cuckolding is going to affect the relationship very negatively. Your partners chemistry clock is not going to stop or wait. If there is no sexual intimacy, then I would worry and if we are not talking about it then I am on my way; leaving because you feel you cannot confide in me.

For some reason societies view on sex is very taboo, and rather savored for special occasions. If the opposite is true, then we would not be having any problems. Let that sink in.

Seems like the bonobo monkey's know how it's done ;)

Give it some time, it will come right.

Book a couples massage at a normal spa(not sensual or anything) and then go back home and take it further.

If you are really open minded, book a sensual doubles spa and take it from there.

my 2c

On 2022-08-24 19:57:48 Kylie said:
I am sad to read this....

But deep down I've been feeling the distance between us becoming more and more ...

No real connection, like it used to be...
I could have shared any and every thing with him...

Thanks to Petite Maya, I'll give it a go ... I'll give my everthing...
It is so hard when it's comming from one side.

Kylie

I know that pain. It's draining if you are the only one giving. Hope it's something simple?

Based on your pics this is not a physical attraction problem, its a mental one. Sounds like the problem might stem from elsewhere in your relationship, a good honest chat with your partner will give you more guidance than any of us on this forum ever could.

On 2022-08-24 19:15:35 Kylie said:
What to do with a sexually unsatisfying relationship ???

What to do if your partner have lost all interest ???

Not even a quick fuck and simple release , not to mention real intimacy....

No sexy touching and kissing... nothing as it used to be...

Kylie

Just my opinion, why not ask him if he would like to introduce a little spice. Ie trying something that he has always wanted to, but was too scared or embarrassed to ask you.

You might be surprised if you both wanted the same thing...

There may also be medical reasons ie low testosterone that's just thought of as stress instead of the root problem

It sounds like there is not even affection.
Just walk away instead of letting life slip by.

Does your partner knows that you are in the industry,if yes then it might be that he is starting to feel insecure and low self-esteem.

The best thing you can do is to sit him down and talk to him:)

Thanks To all the response!

I Truely appreciate it

Kylie

Kylie , relationships change the longer you are in one, the sex and affection will change as you get more use to each other and the effort we put into each other changes as well over time. If there is no interest in either party to re establish a physical connection then it is over, walk away rather. If you keep putting all of yourself into the relationship you will have nothing left and your feeling will get worse and worse until you are dead inside. Hope you find happiness and affection