On 2022-07-22 12:13:51 JayDeeGee said:
On 2022-07-22 10:17:31 Saffron Skye said: Unethical?

Meaning not morally correct?

Compared to what morals?
You the punter that book escorts?

Just the same as she is not judging you for booking sex workers, i would imagine you not judge her for using drugs to be able to live with herself after said booking. I for one don't condone it, but who am I to judge what she has lived through and what she chooses to do with her money. If it bothers you that much then don't continue booking her. But don't shame her because she sins differently than you.

I beg to differ.
In all my life I treat SPs as I would treat my GP, mechanic.
There is no hypocrisy in feeling concerned about a sex worker (they are a human being) If that was not so, should punters treat SPs like trash because they are paying - NO.

WGs/MGs provide a discrete specialised professional service. Why do we stay with a GP for long? Because he/she understands our issues, can be concerned even outside their rooms as such provide good service over time.

Failing to intervene and you will lose your favourite SP to an OD and then what? Move on to another SP like nothing happened? I applause SPs leaving the "rough life" to go work in corporate/start a whole different line of business. I take pride in myself in having enabled someone to reach for their dreams (my money partly paid towards their degree etc). No shame.

Help this SP out the best way you can. They may be wishing they find someone to pull them out - Chester Bennington cried for years!

The point is, is that at the end of the day it's none of your business and not your place to 'intervene'. Some users are fully functional.
What 'rough life' do you speak of? We're normal people with real jobs. Just because you think it's rough for some, doesn't mean you get to assume we have so called 'dreams'. I plan in staying in the industry, because I happen to love my job.

By saying 'follow their dreams', you're implying a lot of us are living a nightmare. It's just not true

On 2022-07-22 15:04:11 Sabrina @ Le Belle said:
By saying 'follow their dreams', you're implying a lot of us are living a nightmare. It's just not true

I totally agree with you ladies. I meant for some SPs just like every job in life this "may not" be their "dream job" and so will move on to whatever their concept of a dream job is. Then some love this to death.

I have met SPs who were only doing this to get elsewhere (a vet student now living in Australia, other now a corporate IT lady). I have come across folks who eat, drink and shit out my own profession. Once I am off my job even stressed, I do something else (not drugs). It applies to most people.

I have read of guys who have booked SPs living in hell, some by choice, some by circumstances. I have also booked ladies living/working in absolute opulence. Not every SP has the looks/chance to work at a high class venue and then command a high-calibre client base. If you lucky - awesome. Some have to "live through it" hence take to survive, ending up addicts.

Addicts exist in all facets of life be they a CEO or a SP. As long as the agreed upon service is acceptable, then you aren't really obligated to do anything.

If your child's teacher arrives at school everyday, does their job well, and is loved by your kids, then the fact that they down a bottle of prison-style vodka after school isn't really a concern of yours. I do, however, think that eventually an addiction does start to interfere with your professional life and then it will affect your bottom line.

I do think the problem with addiction within this industry is more to do with it's additional layer of intimacy. Many clients might end up viewing the relationship they have with a SP as something different than what they have with their boss and co-workers. So seeing your favourite SP going down a drug spiral isn't quite the same as seeing your HR manager go through the same experience.

On 2022-07-22 09:30:46 FeralInstincts said:
If you know a SP is addicted to drugs or alcohol would you still use there services?
Just a ethical dilemma I have faced a few times.

The question to be asked is how, if at all, this addiction impacts on the service rendered? Remember once paid you no longer have any control over the use of the money
I believe you are paying for the service received, not where the money is going so if its your favorite SP, keep visiting

Talking from my experience as caregiver and having to work with many patients,from few mental health hospitals and old and disabled people...

What i learned is that everyone has their addictions in life,you may not be on drugs or alcohol.but you have your own addiction,im not a fan of drugs.but one can do their thing as long as you dont do it infront of me,and i expect people to respect me..

I am 99% addicted to energy drinks since 2010,my work was too much.i use to have a patient that kept me awake allnight,i would wake up every after 2 hours to turn her over to avoid bed sores.

And in the morning i had to be at one of the hospitals ,sometimes it was in Pretoria.where i travelled from Krugersdorp to Pretoria,so my life only depended on energy drink..

When i joined the industry i knew to never try drugs as i had worked with drug patience,i started drinking wine when i joined the industry hahaha.i cant say im addicted or not,if i have it in my house i will definitely drink it.if i dont have it i dont care at all,im one of the people who have addictive personality.i get excited about something and i want to do it,but along the way i will get bored and move on:)

Some people get addicted to abuse,which i think my mom was like that untill her death.i had a friend like that,she would even push her boyfriend to beat her.I had to cut the ties with her after they fought and when i tried help,i almost had my face ruined.iyoo my cute face looked like a monsters face

Some people are addicted to food which lead them to being obese
Others love sweets,cakes or chocolates
Alot of people live according to what makes them happy or let me say what gives them peace.

What im trying to say is if you feel like your favourite person is over doing it,Just reach out to them with love.dont judge them

Miss Barbie needs the mic!!
I would not continue to visit my favourite SP, see then become a shadow of themselves and think fuck it's none my shit, fuck seeing their turning more bony with each visit, one day they OD and I be like oh well - shit happens - next one. Even in this business a bit of one's human side kicks in. It is why there is chemistry and you like "that SP" over others - all WGs have cookies. If you reach out & they shut you out, find another SP! I volunteer for an NPO and have worked with addicts. The turnarounds - gosh!

On 2022-07-22 16:32:31 JayDeeGee said:
Miss Barbie needs the mic!!
I would not continue to visit my favourite SP, see then become a shadow of themselves and think fuck it's none my shit, fuck seeing their turning more bony with each visit, one day they OD and I be like oh well - shit happens - next one. Even in this business a bit of one's human side kicks in. It is why there is chemistry and you like "that SP" over others - all WGs have cookies. If you reach out & they shut you out, find another SP! I volunteer for an NPO and have worked with addicts. The turnarounds - gosh!

Hahahahaha mic for what,im just sharing what i know.i dont eat sweets stuff as well:)))

On 2022-07-22 16:25:24 Miss Barbie Doll said:

I am 99% addicted to energy drinks

Ja, me too. But my motto in life is "The more energy, the better"

Life is hard. Everyone is trying to get by the way they can. Everyone is addicted to something. If they are on drugs it's nome of your business unless it impacts on you, your finances, health or freedom.