So last Wednesday this guy calls from CT, to tell me he is flying in on Thursday afternoon, to watch his son play soccer in Braamfontein. He is staying in Dainfern, wants to run to my place close to Monte casino, take a shower have some fun, a massage and run back to Dainfern. I ask him what time does he want to book for? He cannot give me a time, said anytime from 2:00pm to 4:00pm. He'll call me when he arrives.

So Thursday no call before 2:00pm to confirm so I take travel booking.

Christmas Eve finished my last booking at 15:30 so I can relax, wrap gifts and get ready to meet my friends for dinner at 18:00. CT guy calls at 15:35 asking if he can have a booking at short notice because he hired a vehicle and can drive to me. Agree to see him at 16:00pm guy says fine can he quickly call his wife and call me back to confirm. Five minutes later he calls back to say he can do a booking because his wife is going to be away for a couple of hours. Ask him if he is confirming booking for 16:00 and to make his way to the address I sent him. Dude asks if he can call me back he quickly needs to check something with his wife. So he
calls back at at 15:45 says he wants to come but just needs to see how long he can spend with me, just incase his wife needs him for errands.

At this point I lost my temper and told him, "Listen well, you DO NOT get to waste my time. Piss off and go fucking irritate your wife. You are a pathetic excuse for a man."

This man is so fucking pathetic, his wife must have been getting shagged somewhere while this asshole was calling up every 5 minutes to check up on her. Hi five to the wife for getting away from him for a few well deserved hours.

Speechless.

On 2018-12-26 19:28:25 shoeguy said:
On 2018-12-26 16:42:05 lance2pot said: 100%
there is this lady in Northcliff.
I was in the office and browsing sly on the phone. Just wrote the number down but not her name.

I called her and said I'm enquiring about her advert. I say I can't remember the name. Next thing she is going off at me and saying how she has multiple ads on various places. So I said sorry but I can't remember the name. Next thing, she puts the phone down.

I went back, saved the number as Psycho Bitch. Will never visit.

Oh I know exactly which bitch u referring to here, she is trying hard with her many profiles but the reviews stink

I think I also know who you guys are referring to, it's a pity though as she's a stunning woman. But brother, even though it's an alias, try remember the lady's name.

How I'd like to do all enquiries, phone the lady in question, tell her I'm interested in a booking, ask her to send her services, rates and do's and dont's via Whatsapp. She can have a generic msg for this to just copy and paste, saving me and herself time.
Alas, not all the ladies do WhatsApp. I understand their reasons and respect that, so will play by their rules

On 2018-12-26 21:19:34 Sultry Indian Jiah said:
So last Wednesday this guy calls from CT, to tell me he is flying in on Thursday afternoon, to watch his son play soccer in Braamfontein. He is staying in Dainfern, wants to run to my place close to Monte casino, take a shower have some fun, a massage and run back to Dainfern. I ask him what time does he want to book for? He cannot give me a time, said anytime from 2:00pm to 4:00pm. He'll call me when he arrives.

So Thursday no call before 2:00pm to confirm so I take travel booking.

Christmas Eve finished my last booking at 15:30 so I can relax, wrap gifts and get ready to meet my friends for dinner at 18:00. CT guy calls at 15:35 asking if he can have a booking at short notice because he hired a vehicle and can drive to me. Agree to see him at 16:00pm guy says fine can he quickly call his wife and call me back to confirm. Five minutes later he calls back to say he can do a booking because his wife is going to be away for a couple of hours. Ask him if he is confirming booking for 16:00 and to make his way to the address I sent him. Dude asks if he can call me back he quickly needs to check something with his wife. So he
calls back at at 15:45 says he wants to come but just needs to see how long he can spend with me, just incase his wife needs him for errands.

At this point I lost my temper and told him, "Listen well, you DO NOT get to waste my time. Piss off and go fucking irritate your wife. You are a pathetic excuse for a man."

This man is so fucking pathetic, his wife must have been getting shagged somewhere while this asshole was calling up every 5 minutes to check up on her. Hi five to the wife for getting away from him for a few well deserved hours.

That's different, the caller was in the wrong and was messing you around


I am referring to a first time call to a lady and she goes off !

Why do the ladies hijack a complaints thread by trying to blame it on the punter? There is no excuse for rudeness period.

Jewel,
Your approach is a good one.

I for one, am hugely appreciative of mg's who are polite, patient and accommodating in their pre-booking communications.

I've added you to my todo list for 2019, even though you're a bit of a travel for me.

I myself am one of the ladies who occasionally throws the phone down the problems is when I throw the phone down i normally have good reason.

So i have been having this guy call me since the morning of the 26th to book a appointment each and every single time he gave me a time he ever honored his appointment i think after 4 appointments i have been more than patient. Yesterday when he called wanting to know if i am busy i basically got rude told him to fuck off and waist somebody elses time.

Then i am also known to throw down down the phone if one has manners. The how much to fuck you question seriously doesn't work for me if you have no manners over the phone I always ask myself what he is going to be like in the room.

Further more if if have given you a long detailed description of my services and fees and you start saying. What about CIM COF giving rimming sorry theni also throw the phone down as i took all the time in the world to give you a detailed description of what I offer. Then yes i probably will throw the phone down in your ear.

Something else that might get me dropping a call in your ear is if i have given you my rates and you give me your own rates question my rates or try to bargain my rates.

While I may have all the patience in the world with some clients i dont take well to time waisters, rude guys and idiots. So if i have been anything less than polite over the phone then ask yourself why.

If i have not been rude to you over the phone pat yourself on the back as you are doing it right.

On 2018-12-26 21:19:34 Sultry Indian Jiah said:
So last Wednesday this guy calls from CT, to tell me he is flying in on Thursday afternoon, to watch his son play soccer in Braamfontein. He is staying in Dainfern, wants to run to my place close to Monte casino, take a shower have some fun, a massage and run back to Dainfern. I ask him what time does he want to book for? He cannot give me a time, said anytime from 2:00pm to 4:00pm. He'll call me when he arrives.

So Thursday no call before 2:00pm to confirm so I take travel booking.

Christmas Eve finished my last booking at 15:30 so I can relax, wrap gifts and get ready to meet my friends for dinner at 18:00. CT guy calls at 15:35 asking if he can have a booking at short notice because he hired a vehicle and can drive to me. Agree to see him at 16:00pm guy says fine can he quickly call his wife and call me back to confirm. Five minutes later he calls back to say he can do a booking because his wife is going to be away for a couple of hours. Ask him if he is confirming booking for 16:00 and to make his way to the address I sent him. Dude asks if he can call me back he quickly needs to check something with his wife. So he
calls back at at 15:45 says he wants to come but just needs to see how long he can spend with me, just incase his wife needs him for errands.

At this point I lost my temper and told him, "Listen well, you DO NOT get to waste my time. Piss off and go fucking irritate your wife. You are a pathetic excuse for a man."

This man is so fucking pathetic, his wife must have been getting shagged somewhere while this asshole was calling up every 5 minutes to check up on her. Hi five to the wife for getting away from him for a few well deserved hours.

I dont blame you i would have reacted the same way.

So this is my first year ever working on Christmas day anyway some guy from esa may i add makes a 2pm appointment no news from him its Christmas so i think nothing of it lunch with his friends may have gone on longer thanhe thought. Needless to say i sent him a message to ask are you going to do the decent thing and honor your appointment he apologiezes and says hes abit late but is definitely coming through. Needless to say I didn't hold my breath.

Yesterday morning he apologized as they had to much to drink i was understing needless to say that he made arrangements once again and didn't honour them. Now should he contact me once more today and i amnot so nice and understanding.

Will it make me rude or impatient if i tell him to fuck off. I dont appreciate him waisting my time

Thank you ladies for all the responses. It is very clear that there is ABSOLUTELY a time to hang up the phone or tell a time waister to fuck off. But you would need more than 30 seconds to figure that out, especially when the caller has manners and is respectful in every way. Its THOSE ladies that I refer to... definitely not any of you sexy girls. ;)

This is why I love ESA so much and just wish more ladies used it. Reviews, forum, detailed descriptions in profiles... these things are important and reduce our questions and thus improve your patience.

Xxx