Strange but true.

Be careful who you call friend and why you call them friend.

Friend comes with huge responsibility and surpasses acquaintanceship.

Dont confuse the two .

Choose wisely who you confide in and remember...dont suffer to be liked.
Your sort will know you. It is not numbers that matter.




And thus....to quote

"Sometimes it's your 'friend' that keeps your enemy updated"

SELECTIVE.

Ever thought of this?


"...Friends ask you questions; enemies question you."


- Criss Jami


Step into the weekend mindful and grateful because there is always, but always something to be grateful for.

UNDERSTANDING.

There is always someone there...

Don't shun the good and the real. Don't chase societies fickle standards and approval.

Make sure to look into the mirror and SEE YOU...the good person, the fighter...the go getter.

This one is for YOU .

youtu.be/68IJ6ei60OY


STRENGTH.

Greetings!

A link that shall make you cringe.

But nature has its balance and thus think of it this way...

Something like karma.

What goes around comes around.

Stay true to yourself and be not scared of your shortcomings....everybody has them.


youtube.com/shorts/uMaVHVLo3AU




CLARITY.

Came across this.

Love it.


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...Bro to Bro. Never judge your father until you become a man.


...Bro to Bro. Never be the cause of another bro's downfall.


...Never get tired of your Mother's voice bro.


...Bro to bro. Take available jobs until you find your dream job, pride won't put food in your table.


...Bro to bro. Never eat where your Mother is mocked.


...Bro to bro. Noone is coming to help you grind like your life depends on it. Don't give up. Rest. Continue.


...Bro to bro. Build yourself up with your own materials so when anybody leaves, you won't collapse.


...Bro to bro. Never mock a brother to entertain the table.


...Bro to bro. Never sleep.with your friends wife.or girlfriend. There is no higher level of betrayed.


Are these "old school" ...

I don't think so.


RESPECT AND TRUST.

Quoted:-

5 Principles to learn from the Wild

Patience is a weapon....the hunter waits longer than the prey.

Strength alone is never enough...strategy beats raw power.

Nothing survives without adapting...nature rewards flexibility not stubbornness.

Only the prepared eat first...opportunity favors the ready.

Energy is never wasted...in the wild every move has purpose.


And so....
The wild has no excuses...you adapt, improve or disappear.
#mentality
#mindset

LEARNING.

Quoted:-

" You don't lose people. You lose the illusion of who they were, of what it was, of what you thought it could be.
Truth doesn't take from you.
It clears the weight.
Silence will show you things noise never could.
Who you are without distraction.
What you feel without escape.
Sit with it.
There's clarity in there.
Sometimes a thing only looks hard because of the way we look at it.
If you think a thing is impossible, you make it impossible.
It's OK to slow down.
Not everything needs to be solved at once.
Tonight, rest your mind. You will see it clearly. Even though some of your best work won't be noticed. No applause no validation. Do it anyway.
Because CHARACTER IS BUILT IN PRIVATE.
To know yourself.
Because once you know yourself , you cannot be controlled by fear or, by other people's opinions."


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One is not an island but, seeking to be part of a fickle ever changing "mass" , society, is not conducive to ones overall wellness.

To bravely stand, knowingly stand, in the face of what shall be popular today and forgotten tomorrow and not feel as if one is sidelined or being left behind....is independence and power most great.

INTEGRITY AND MINDFULNESS.

To ALL Women...quoted:-

" ...A woman with a naturally intimidating aura is rare, she is not performing strength.
She is just fully herself.
She's not loud , she's not trying to prove anything.
She's grounded, she knows who she is, she knows what she won't tolerate and that's why people compete with her for no reason.

Her presence exposes insecurities she didn't even create.
So, if you see her as intimidating , that is not her fault.
She won't shrink herself to make others feel comfortable.
People project their own insecurities onto her.
They mistake her confidence for arrogance.
They mistake her stillness for coldness .
She isn't present to dim her light, she isn't present to make others feel bigger, she simply refuses to make herself smaller ."


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Step into your OWN shoes and own them.
Do it for yourself...do it because it is YOU.
Know yourself.

OWNERSHIP.

Missed your input

Once you have put your mind to it.
The goal set.

No matter the doubt the challenge, remember this...

"...a man who refuses to quit is dangerous.
You can beat him down, take everything from him, a still he will find a way to rise.
His strength doesn't come from comfort.
It comes from pain from loss...from the nights he had nothing but his own will to keep him going.
You can doubt him.
You can count him out.
But yiu can't break him .
Because a man who's decided to keep fighting


.....has already won."

ACHIEVE.