Edited: 2022-05-14 05:22:51
On 2022-05-13 23:30:38 Arizona said:
There is a woman out there whose life has been shattered, her heart has been splintered. Her trust destroyed. Her soul is in anguish as a wife and a Mother.
And there is a man out there that broke that in her, but who is now suffering his own anguish and trauma. An innocent child's future is hanging in the balance of growing up in a loving home with Mom and Dad or that of divorced parents. There is no way to justify or put blame on anyone. Every situation is personal and unique. Let's leave this be and hope they find the strength, with courage to make the best choice for themselves moving forward. Whether that be together or apart.
Sending my love to both of you. May you find Peace in your Journey!
Arizona
Some here will understand how it feels to be the "cheated on" and how that hurts and how that shakes your foundations that you thought was solid.
Some here will understand being " the cheater" and how that hurts, knowing they will hate you and you will feel you deserve it.. because despite what you doing you still love them.
Some will understand how it feels to be the "cheated with". Granted in this instance( in the purple universe) its not be like when you having an affair with a person and declaring true love, it is transactional and nothing more (for most) but in the end the name calling and knowing you where one of those that is part the reason some other woman/man/child's life is shattered, hurts.
In the end there is no winners..
I wish them all well and hope that they will find the strength to work their way through this and manage to hold onto some of the love that got them together in the first place, that that love will be enough to enable them to forgive and be the best parents for their child, be they apart or together from now on.
When entering this lifestyle, as a married guy, we well aware of the risks, accepted it, and enjoy the thrills thereoff. When caught we need to suffer the consiquences, as we created the "shit" we find ourself in.
If any married guy say he does not know the risks, well then he deserves to be caught.
On 2022-05-14 06:53:32 Kooni said:
Why feel sorry for those who get caught with their fingers in the wrong "cookie jar".
When entering this lifestyle, as a married guy, we well aware of the risks, accepted it, and enjoy the thrills thereoff. When caught we need to suffer the consiquences, as we created the "shit" we find ourself in.
If any married guy say he does not know the risks, well then he deserves to be caught.
How appropriate are your words - caught with your fingers in the "Cookie Jar"
On 2022-05-14 07:50:07 Airjon69 said:
RIP Harrybossman - your reviews will be missed :(! But thanks for all the GREAT reviews. It sounded like you've already lived your best life!
See martinm's comment above.
On 2022-05-13 23:30:38 Arizona said:
There is a woman out there whose life has been shattered, her heart has been splintered. Her trust destroyed. Her soul is in anguish as a wife and a Mother.
And there is a man out there that broke that in her, but who is now suffering his own anguish and trauma. An innocent child's future is hanging in the balance of growing up in a loving home with Mom and Dad or that of divorced parents. There is no way to justify or put blame on anyone. Every situation is personal and unique. Let's leave this be and hope they find the strength, with courage to make the best choice for themselves moving forward. Whether that be together or apart.
Sending my love to both of you. May you find Peace in your Journey!
Arizona
One of the few decent comments on this thread from a lady who knows what she is talking about.
Very much so.
In a way also, the vicious circle of life
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