Posted: 2017-02-23 10:21:17
Edited: 2017-02-23 10:22:34
Oh dear oh dear,
As Zimba alludes to one does not ever fuck for free. The ladies do indeed have "friends." But there are not many men that can accept a WG's profession for any length of time. It takes a lot to get past the honeymoon stage of the relationship. It is a rare and arguably foolish lady that would walk away from her independent source of earning for any man without first having seen him at his worst.
So yup WG's boyfriends, partners, lovers etc abound, but they typically move one with alarming swiftness once their ego starts getting chipped. Do some WGs have long lasting loving satisfying relationships, yeah they do but not often. Where it does happen the lady is far more than lucky. Ladies feel free to correct me.
But on to the "you always pay" philosophy.
To reduce it to a crude matter of pure economics, yup you always pay. But to my mind paying is not the issue, its about value for money.
Mrs Le Roux has cost me a fortune through the years. That expense has however been worth every cent and has proved to have been a sound investment. She has been and remains variously my counsellor, chef, friend, chauffeur, fashion consultant, mistress, comedian, anchor and reason for still being here. This despite having a diagnosed personality disorder, dodgy knees (another cost), having been unfaithful, locked up, irrational, infuriating and frequently unfathomable. My Cost to benefit ratio remains soundly positive.
Now, the ladies on this forum range from the "how much?" ("wow that's cheap") to the "HOW MUCH?" ("I only want a pomp not a heart transplant")
The "wow that's cheap" offering will in all likelihood not offer warmth compassion tools implements, chandelier swinging levels of kinkiness and exhaustion. The "heart transplant" offering will frequently leave you with empty balls and empty wallet but also a depressingly empty feeling of having been conned, robbed or taken for a fool.
Value for money lies in between the two groups of ladies.
Expensive does not necessarily equal good and budget does not necessarily equal value for money. Paying is never the issue, its about value for money, return on investment and the cost to benefit ratio.
An attractive kinkster of note that can talk about something other than herself, fulfils that age old fantasy of yours and leaves you feeling magnificent is out there but R200 won't get it and R5,000ph is, in my opinion, too much to pay for it.
Don't worry about paying, concentrate on what bang you get for your buck.