Each week I'm reminded about just how small this industry is because information tends to spread like a wild fire, especially when it's negative.

A lot of ladies who found themselves at the centre of some of these rumours have either left the industry or are no longer active participants on the forum depending on the magnitude of the rumour.

I often wonder about the ladies who have 'battle scars' from a false rumour and where they end up after it destroys their business in this industry given that most of them don't join this industry as a first choice.

Anyway, my day has been soured because the rumour mill is at it again and it's unfortunate that one will never know if this information is true or solely malicious. I do hope that the said lady is able to find her feet afterwards because life is tough enough in this economy.

Like I've always said, from experience.... I doubt I'd believe it until I saw it with my own two eyes or heard it from the lady herself....

On 2022-12-07 04:49:00 Mandy said:
Like I've always said, from experience.... I doubt I'd believe it until I saw it with my own two eyes or heard it from the lady herself....

This industry already comes with enough of its own challenges. As if the the lady needs more and most of the time not always it ends up being a troublesome punter stiring the pot. Some times the lady herself is tarnished but in most cases the guy is not innocent if one gets to the bottom of the story.

Though I must admit if not for the really amazing punters who make this business worthwhile most ladies would have left this industry I am sure so all respect to the decent guys for being nothing short of amazing.

It is unfortunate that not all ladies have hair on their teeth and thick skins and are able to tolerate such abusive people so they end up leaving and never returning or they just stay off the forum all together which I am sure ends up working well for most as they nolonger run specials and promotions to get the punters attention here on the forum.

Though that's just my point of view.

Playbook :

1) Jab the punters, it is always their fault anyway.

2) Walk back the offending statement with some meaningless platitude about how some punters, by extension the exception to the rule, are actually good guys, to while attacking all men, also appeal to those who subconsciously may see themselves as good men, which is, funnily enough, most men, to make oneself not seem like an ugly hearted troll with a pronounced predisposition to confirmation bias and a departure point in all debates which indicates lack of objectivity and inclinations to subjective irrationality.

3) Assert some twatwaffle about ladies leaving because all the bad men are the problem, and the industry suffers because of all the bad men.


Memo to the sour crones : Your industry exists because of the men, treat the men well and your businesses will flourish.

...I always wonder how did it come to the point of "rumouring" in a session when it is about those two people sharing?

What is foreplay or that "afterglow" or companionship ?

I wonder...Ladies and Gents, care to share?

:)

On 2022-12-07 06:38:55 Russian Bridgitte said:
...I always wonder how did it come to the point of "rumouring" in a session when it is about those two people sharing?

What is foreplay or that "afterglow" or companionship ?

I wonder...Ladies and Gents, care to share?

:)

In my opinion i think that they could be sharing the wrong things instead of taking care of their clients needs they are discussing things that should not be disclosed.

On 2022-12-07 01:29:54 Littlerascal said:
Each week I'm reminded about just how small this industry is because information tends to spread like a wild fire, especially when it's negative.

...

Anyway, my day has been soured because the rumour mill is at it again and it's unfortunate that one will never know if this information is true or solely malicious. I do hope that the said lady is able to find her feet afterwards because life is tough enough in this economy.

I appreciate the sentiment, but don't you think participating in the rumours, even to the extent of being a willing receptacle for the information being disseminated, is actually part of the problem?

Gossip is ugly and a tool in the hands of those with malicious intent.

On 2022-12-07 06:30:22 JamesSpader said:

Memo to the sour crones : Your industry exists because of the men, treat the men well and your businesses will flourish.

I guess my regulars will know why they keep coming back for more... ;)

I guess its because I treat them like the gold they are. My Longevity in this industry is proof of that.

PS some people leave the industry to actually start a life which does not revolve around this one.

Talk about being narrow minded.

On 2022-12-07 06:55:51 Arhwen said:


Talk about being narrow minded.

You mean similar to one who manages to turn every conversation about anything else around to be about herself somehow?

I'm disappointed, you said you weren't going to respond anymore. :-(

Reading 101 miss A...
Re-read his line. Maybe you'll understand the proviso and supposition context he included when you study it a 2nd time