And I am not only talking about when finances are near non existent.
This is such a special space to choose as ones earnings.
I always say it does take a different sort to contemplate entering this space .
A sort who will do whatever it takes to keep a roof over ones head and food on the table?
Would that be the right thing to say?
A resilient sort , a sort with a screw loose, a desperate sort?
Which one?
Does it matter . And no not meant to be insulting...let us not paint pretty pictures...let us be real.
The physical demand, mental demand, emotional demand is beyond what one may actually realise until deep in the grips of time spent in the sex-sensual space.
Even when the money might be flowing the most intimate giving of self to stranger upon stranger upon stranger...does leave its ripple effects.
It scars and maims the SP in different ways and I wonder what outlet does she have to spill the beans when the going gets tough and she feels vulnerable, lonely and alone, misunderstood, even abused.
When she feels picked on, bullied...judged.
When she starts questioning her motives for doing what she might be doing feeling vulnerable and a little out of sorts and disorientated.
What happens when she is sickly? Money tight.
Is there an understanding, an acceptance that it is no different than any other job occupied where benefits and support are to be found?...and actually might warrant deeper support and counseling?
What is it about the sex-sensual space that does not warrant support, infrastructure and understanding among one's own and those, the Punters , that revel in all that is on offer?
Is sex dirty?
Is sensuality dirty?
Only the unreliable occupy such a space?
Those that occupy the space are less human, have no life, below par intelligence?
Or....
Is it something else one needs to take a hard look at and address?
RB.
Granted...as I said and u confirmed...it should be like any other space..
But it ain't
I ain't only talking about the economy of things though.
Maybe have a little reread?
:)
Edited: 2022-07-14 22:40:08
This post ain't about a personal issue and contemplation but, rather much I have witnessed that has me thinking about how does one extend a helping hand or shoulder to cry on when one may need it.
Who knows, maybe I too one day might be in need and grateful for the kindness and support of a good Samaritan.
RB.
On 2022-07-14 21:52:59 Russian Bridgitte said:
I always wonder how do the ladies cope when things are not good.
And I am not only talking about when finances are near non existent.
This is such a special space to choose as ones earnings.
I always say it does take a different sort to contemplate entering this space .
A sort who will do whatever it takes to keep a roof over ones head and food on the table?
Would that be the right thing to say?
A resilient sort , a sort with a screw loose, a desperate sort?
Which one?
Does it matter . And no not meant to be insulting...let us not paint pretty pictures...let us be real.
The physical demand, mental demand, emotional demand is beyond what one may actually realise until deep in the grips of time spent in the sex-sensual space.
Even when the money might be flowing the most intimate giving of self to stranger upon stranger upon stranger...does leave its ripple effects.
It scars and maims the SP in different ways and I wonder what outlet does she have to spill the beans when the going gets tough and she feels vulnerable, lonely and alone, misunderstood, even abused.
When she feels picked on, bullied...judged.
When she starts questioning her motives for doing what she might be doing feeling vulnerable and a little out of sorts and disorientated.
What happens when she is sickly? Money tight.
Is there an understanding, an acceptance that it is no different than any other job occupied where benefits and support are to be found?...and actually might warrant deeper support and counseling?
What is it about the sex-sensual space that does not warrant support, infrastructure and understanding among one's own and those, the Punters , that revel in all that is on offer?
Is sex dirty?
Is sensuality dirty?
Only the unreliable occupy such a space?
Those that occupy the space are less human, have no life, below par intelligence?
Or....
Is it something else one needs to take a hard look at and address?
RB.
Miss RB, you beautiful soul.
I've thought about this so many times, in depth. The thought of a lady waking up in the morning, in no mood for chit chat, playing happy , intimacy or passion. But she puts her sexy pants on and gets going with the "duties" of the day.. and as much as we can complain that we all go through the grind of life and get f'cked by all and sundry (work, family, govt), these ladies quite literally go out and give "their all"!
I, personally, enjoy a good PSE session, but fairly often I will drive away thinking how the lady feels after I left. And what is laying ahead for her the rest of the day.
I've enjoyed a particular session with a lady on this site, currently active, where I held her at the end, she kissed me, hugged me and just said thank you.
It was beautiful.
Edited: 2022-07-14 23:03:42
Quoted ".....I've enjoyed a particular session with a lady on this site, currently active, where I held her at the end, she kissed me, hugged me and just said thank you.
It was beautiful."
That is part of it.
Acknowledging the humanness of what is shared between 2 people beyond it simply being for one's personal PSE pleasure.
There is NOTHING more selfless than opening oneself up for coital pleasure...even if a PSE, it is more than just a PSE...hope i am making sense?
I think u get me. I HOPE u get me.
RB.
On 2022-07-14 23:02:18 Russian Bridgitte said:
Thank u doctorevil.
Quoted ".....I've enjoyed a particular session with a lady on this site, currently active, where I held her at the end, she kissed me, hugged me and just said thank you.
It was beautiful."
That is part of it.
Acknowledging the humanness of what is shared between 2 people beyond it simply being for one's personal PSE pleasure.
There is NOTHING more selfless than opening oneself up for coital pleasure...even if a PSE, it is more than just a PSE...hope i am making sense?
I think u get me. I HOPE u get me.
RB.
Absolutely. A lady providing PSE does so as an offering and makes her no less intimately involved as someone providing GFE.
You give yourself to multiple, unknown and quite often off putting, men in order to sustain your lifestyle or simply survive. For those who enjoy it, that is great. Like me, I thoroughly enjoy my day job.. but how much of myself do I give?
I hear you, I feel for you and I am constantly aware of the "obligation" of the lady.
I will be back tomorrow to visit someone, as I enjoy the company of so many of the ladies on this site. But I never can ignore the journeys they endure
The issue is money management and putting things aside for the lean periods. Next is being truthful to yourself that your value in this industry will diminish and with that your earning potential, therefore using it as a springboard to other things.
As for the emotional cost. Not my problem because unless you were a victim of trafficking it was a choice. And everyone is faced with making choices everyday. Choices will cost you something.
Everyone is feeling the economic pinch. From business owners to gardeners.
On 2022-07-15 01:39:16 Dadon1 said:
Please let's be real earning average 600 to 800 Rand an hour is more than minimum wage. Its more than what Cybersecurity experts earn.
The issue is money management and putting things aside for the lean periods. Next is being truthful to yourself that your value in this industry will diminish and with that your earning potential, therefore using it as a springboard to other things.
As for the emotional cost. Not my problem because unless you were a victim of trafficking it was a choice. And everyone is faced with making choices everyday. Choices will cost you something.
Everyone is feeling the economic pinch. From business owners to gardeners.
Objective insights.
On 2022-07-15 06:11:18 RenePhillips said:
On 2022-07-15 01:39:16 Dadon1 said: Please let's be real earning average 600 to 800 Rand an hour is more than minimum wage. Its more than what Cybersecurity experts earn.
The issue is money management and putting things aside for the lean periods. Next is being truthful to yourself that your value in this industry will diminish and with that your earning potential, therefore using it as a springboard to other things.
As for the emotional cost. Not my problem because unless you were a victim of trafficking it was a choice. And everyone is faced with making choices everyday. Choices will cost you something.
Everyone is feeling the economic pinch. From business owners to gardeners.
Objective insights.
All granted and yes the comment from Dadon1 is objective.
But, sometimes being objective may not be relevant ...as my post says
"...Is there an understanding, an acceptance that it is no different than any other job occupied where benefits and support are to be found?...and actually might warrant deeper support and counseling?
What is it about the sex-sensual space that does not warrant support, infrastructure and understanding among one's own and those, the Punters , that revel in all that is on offer?..."
The antagonism toward this space is very real and obvious from society as well as internally among the SP's .
Why?
Derailing any real effort of educating, setting up and supporting possible infrastructures to help whenever legitimately required by those within the industry.
Again...question...what is it that one needs to look at or ask and, taking off those rose tinted glasses be honest about and address.
RB.
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