Call up a massage spot IN JHB known for ladies doing FH.
Enquire about a lady, get given massage rates...
I Ask if there's any extras on offer ...
You can discuss that with her when in the room...
Thank you but that's like playing the lotto, I don't like gambling, I don't want to drive all the way there only to potentially be disappointed...
Also I'd like to be sure I have enough cash.

Venue reply: Suite yourself !!

WTF

In their defense,surely the hostess receives these type of calls all day,every day.

And in order to protect themselves legally,they have to say what you just posted about.

It's not like we don't know that 90% of SP's in all venues advertizing on ESA offer extras.

For myself,I just avoid venues altogether,because the ladies working by themselves offer far more in terms of Rand value,maybe consider doing the same?

Not really an argument that they need to protect themselves and that's why they don't discuss fh.

All the other venues and ladies openly discuss it if you call them, WhatsApp them etc.

This site, despite its disclaimers overtly state sex is for sale.

Our fkn police care about xtras at massage parlours?
Really?
LoL!

They hardly investigate brutal murders....

Well it's not because the cops may investigate. They will try and scam you. From jail nogal

On 2022-11-09 17:00:18 Forsyth P Jones said:
In their defense,surely the hostess receives these type of calls all day,every day.

And in order to protect themselves legally,they have to say what you just posted about.

It's not like we don't know that 90% of SP's in all venues advertizing on ESA offer extras.

For myself,I just avoid venues altogether,because the ladies working by themselves offer far more in terms of Rand value,maybe consider doing the same?

That's a great reply.

ESA sisters appreciate this reply.

Thank you for a decent respectful answer.

Forsyth P

The massage ladies that offer extras are often more selective regarding who gets what. Hence they want to meet you before deciding. Nothing strange about that.

SP operate differently. I say, if they don't play the game the way you like then move into the 100s that do.

Besides this is supposed to be fun. If it pisses you off then maybe try another sport

I do understand Kommerq's frustration though. If I am to negotiate in the room, does it mean it is going to be instant cash or I should carry double the rate.

At the end of the day we will just ignore venues altogether.

If it is strictly no FH then let it be that and we will not ask.

Best advice I got was to not asked about the extra, but to put your money on table, and tell the lady how much you looking forward to enjoy a mindblowing session with her.

Have worked for me 90% of the time.