Do you get anxious or nervous when a client whom you've never met before has made a booking ?
How do you know what to expect ?

I've made bookings where the lady says just drive in and pop inside the door is open.

At least a punter has an idea of what or whom to expect because his selection is made from a website profile with pics etc ...

Yes, must be fkn scary to WGs. I do think they probably have emergency plans in place, but still....

I get that you would make a judgement call based on a phone call interaction on whether you will see said client or not but what about WhatsApp or PM bookings ?

It is very scary. I am usually scared, nervous and excited at the same time. the voice and manner of speaking over the phone tells a lot about the person on the other end of the line. The kind of questions that the punter asks also do a lot of telling. This is when trusting your gut really helps. Any form of unease, or dislike over the phone and I wont take the booking.

I personally look through my window to see who is coming in, what they have on them and if I recognise the face from shared pictures. As soon as a person comes in through the door, the first few minutes are about trying to figure out a person. This has worked so far. And yes, there is alays exit plans and emergency plans in place.

Yip, but works both ways

If you call a lady and she is rude and crude it's thanks but no thanks (unless that's what you want)

A lady can pick up your attitude on the phone call - then it's her choice

This is something i have thought alot about...and sometimes I am just like Landie, WTF are you doing?!?! LOL

But on a serious note, yes its fucking scary!
I still get nervous and anxious with every new client.
I try to form sort of an opinion about the gent by the way he interacts with me but that is difficult and many times impossible...
Its true, like @Kommerq said, the gents at least have an idea of what the lady is all about when making a booking, while the ladies have only a handle/nickname. And sometimes not even that, if the gent makes contact outside the purple world. But it all comes down to trusting your instincts. If my gut screams NO! then i will decline a booking...
So when confirming a booking its just a matter of jumping and hoping the landing is not too bad...

I must admit though that i have been lucky sofar and didn't encounter any really bad experiences yet.
So yes gentlemen, we are also nervous even if we dont show it.

Although...i always say that any nervousness or shyness i may have usually dissapear as soon as the clothes dissapear! LOL

On 2022-11-13 16:18:39 Kommerq said:
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I've made bookings where the lady says just drive in and pop inside the door is open.

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This has pretty much become the norm now.

I used to be surprised by it but now I just walk right in because more surprising is some will get upset that you didn't but instead decided to linger outside and knock and attract attention to the room.

I guess it does come down to the telephone conversation because at that time they're already assessing if they want to let you into their pussy so if they decided on that, then letting you into the premises is secondary.

N4P

Back in the day I would easily see a new client without thinking twice.

This business has changed drastically since when I first started working or even to what it was like 15 years ago.

Now even if something feels abit off I say I am sorry I can not accommodate you best you find someone else. I also don't see new clients at night unless I have some form or sense of security. I have learnt to read energy and one thing I have learnt is that energy does not lie. If something feels off I never second guess myself beit means it feels off for a reason.

I had turned away plenty of bookings due to a number of reasons if the guys mannerisms over the phone is disrespectful or rough I ask myself if this guys speaks to me like that over the phone what will he treat me like in person so I decline. If a guy asks if I am alone and I respond with I assure you your privacy and discretion you will see me and only me that should set your mind at ease. Not question me about am I alone, how many people work with me that to me is a major red flag. I have also to put extra security measures in to place simply because my safety is my priority. Though I don't want to focus too much on that. My focus is on the fact that I am greatful to be alive heppy healthy and thriving I prefer to keep my mind focus on my blessings it just brings more of the right things into my life.

Should I encounter some shit along the way and we all do from time to time. I ask myself what is the lesson here what am I supposed to do to improve the situation etc... I once said perception is everything and a bunch of Nanas gave me grief about that statement simply because they could not comprehend it. But I do believe where thought goes energy flows we created our own reality.

With that said I try to always remain of positive mindset but I am not niave I take precautions to ensure that I am am safe even if it means turning away a client.

LOL I went completely off track and repeated myself I know but Its how I sometimes get my point across though some might still miss the boat anyway.

I think it works both ways example for me, even if a lady has all good reviews and it's my first time going to visit her, I feel a little nervous as to whether she would be my type? Would I be able to click with her? Is the time going to be worth it and so on, if you understand what I mean.

When I make a booking with a new lady, I will give her the chance to decline a booking. I would usually look at a profile that caught my eye and ask for rates and services. As I am a Gold Member, I can pretty much see how she looks and whether she falls within my target market.


After the cost issue is sorted, I will then whatsapp the lady and tell her what I look like :
Old
Fat
Ugly
Currently unemployed, but have enough cash for the booking fee.

And I then specify that she has the choice to decline the booking and no harm done. I simply put a code next to her name on my punting phone and forget about her.

In all of my punting years, only one girl declined the booking. She was petite and was worried :
1.) How am I going to pay her high fee ? (Being unemployed)
2.) I will crush her if I am on top
3.) Do I sweat ?
She declined the booking and life goes on.

The unemployment thing is obviously just to stop the ladies from calling and asking for monies afterwards. Yes, I was one of the suckers that pissed money away. No more, for I Have (finally) Learned.

But at least I give them fair warning that I am kak ugly and obese, so foretold is forewarned.

I was not blessed with good looks so that is something that I cannot change.


This unemplyment thing did bite me in the ass. Was seeing this really lovely girl, and I must say that she never even mentioned monies to borrow. One day booked and eventually just sat chilling and drinking wine for the whole hour. Obviously paid for the session before, and as my time came to an end, she wanted to refund me. Told her no ways, as I thoroughly enjoyed my time with her. She then turned around and said that she knows I am poor, and that I should take the monies back. Did not take the money, but was then never allowed to visit.

Some you win, some you loose.

Happy to be the unemployed fat ugly guy. I do not sweat, ususally comes way too quick.

LOL