Some might suggest that the topic is a bit of an exaggeration, but I strongly believe that threads where Petite Maya and Sabrina are mentioned are bringing the forum into disrepute and all this is happening under the watch of the ESA Team. Prior to that it was threads between Petite Maya and another lady whose advert is no longer active.

Are there no moderators at all on this forum anymore?

Has the forum deteriorated to a point where insults and personal digs amongst service providers is the norm and also encouraged by punters and/or service providers pretending to be punters?

Anyway, as someone who has used the ESA site for over a decade, it's very disappointing to watch this unfold as it seems the only contravention that exists anymore is one that goes against the Freeloading Policy. Racist and derogatory remarks have been made in some of the threads and it appears diddly squat was done.

I suppose only time will tell whether this behaviour will result in the ESA forum becoming extinct like it's former competitor.

I suppose only time will tell whether this behaviour will result in the ESA forum becoming extinct like it's former competitor. [/QUOTE]

wait until someone commits suicide then only will everyone realize the words they used to attack ,bully slander ,hate each other

Few days ago a south african lady took her life because of a cyber bullying on a very known social platform

ESA when is enough enough until someone dies on your watch for a forum that allows this

Your Policy 1 # Respect
The slightest derogatory racial/or religious remark will result in immediate banning without warning
Esa has the right to ban anyone without warning at any time for not following rules that has been announced

WE EAT OUR WORDS

The person who wrote this racist drivel is absolutely vile and disgusting (yes I'm referring to Petite Maya). Here's what she said:

"...you got no culture. You know the shop boesmanland? The first word is wot you are. You got no culture. Only culture you have is klopse (coons) that's why you behave like a clown. You can take people out of the bush but cant take bush out people. When last did you look in the mirror? Nvm that but you behaviour is definitely like a Kalahari bush person. Oh yes you the "coloured" that feels very inferior towards indian pretty boys. Is that why you so insulting? I know who you are.

Sorry i dont give head massages, to kroes pitte koppe. I cant use my naughty fingers to scratch in your hard hair like a birds nest. You need a Brazilian blow dryer and expense shampoo. Use a relaxer for your steel wool hair or a weave."

It baffles the mind how this is allowed. I hope Cape Town punters take note.

I don't entertain those posts anymore... "I'm too old for that shit".

Moderators are one thing

However if you open a can of worms - you must expect a backlash from all or any side.

Years ago there was a user called johan200. His sole purpose on this forum was to cause kak

On 2023-04-18 06:47:56 JHB22 said:


Sorry i dont give head massages, to kroes pitte koppe. I cant use my naughty fingers to scratch in your hard hair like a birds nest. You need a Brazilian blow dryer and expense shampoo. Use a relaxer for your steel wool hair or a weave."

It baffles the mind how this is allowed. I hope Cape Town punters take note.

Well the guy insulted PM indian nose first. Its backlash
"Indian" vs "colour"

As for sabby we broke up post Women tend to vent and are emotional. I dont think either of these two meant harm.

Ras are you saying indirectly sabrina and PM are trouble?

IMHO punters like JHB22 are the real problem. Crossing one side references adding friction.
Sabrina and PM and both good girls if you ignore the forum.

Oh my. It would be unfortunate if this forum had to be shut down because of a few rotten apples. The best we can do is continue being polite, respectful and sympathetic to one another to set a good example to the rest. Also we need more people being called out when they are doing wrong. SP and punters alike

Some of the points I noticed

1. If a guy posts a message like 'I have Rxxxx for a specific session ' . Then the forum goes crazy with remarks such as, U a cheapskate; Go to the streets if u looking to pay that amount, etc etc.
It's a willing buyer willing seller. If u make an offer the lady she's at liberty to accept or reject it.

2. Religious comments.
Just recently a guy post he wants to give Zakat to a Muslim wg. And comments came in from people who know nothing about Zakat.

3. Racial remarks

4. WG slandering other WG

5. And the list goes on.....

Gone are the days where there are meaningful chats without slandering or remark passing.

Why must YOU think that you better than someone else by passing derogatory remarks.

if you climb into someone's character it's not a mindful debate and you loose your stance or position on the chess board

Healthy debating and discussion results in good awareness and realization of new truths

exposing other's weaknesses goes down the rabbit hole

Do believe from today the energy shift that happened a few mins ago will result in more harmonious flow on the forum ....time will tell :)

All of you are forgetting what this site is about,
Ladies advertising .
Punters to punt .
The problem is both are getting involved in things that doesn't concern them, and you indirectly contributing to the issue that you see.
if you see a bad topic post etc, why is it effecting your life? Or does your emotions revolve around the bad topics in the forum?

I have a solution for everyone in here,
Ladies advertise
Punters, punt
Is this not why we on this site?yes?