Earlier today I received the following PM

Message From:
Stein
Subject:
Hey
Date:
8 hours ago
Are you willing for a fuck
I really want to fuck you even though I am under age
I am a big fan of hot girls like you.
Contact back

the thought that this could be the son of anyone of you here makes me ill. This kid could be 13 for all I know.

Parents if any ofurther you have underage kids with access to the Web it is advisable to used net nanny or something similar.

It's something they can't stop... Think ESA should look into this.
It's like this one kid phoned me (atleast he called... not PCM lol) offers me a hunting knife(what am i going you hunt...dicks?).. asking me what can he get in return.
And if I could pick him up! Wtf is going on with kids today... don't they parents give them enough attention or n hiding when they where small?

On 2016-11-16 23:27:01 Meg said:
It's something they can't stop... Think ESA should look into this.

There is absolutely nothing that ESA or any other site can do other than post warnings and ask for positive confirmation that you are an adult (which of course a kid can just click OK). Until the day that humans are physically connected to the net and each human has some form of queryable interface, there is just nothing anyone can do other than watch your kids and parent them properly.

Unfortunately I think this is out of ESA'so control as they do not require a ID number to register a membership (which is understandable)

It is up to the parents to make sure they have parenting software like net nanny is installed on the children's devices so that the children are denied access to all adult site's.

Hense I did not put it on the ladies forum so that ESA can look into it.

But rather here on the public forum so it can reach multitudes of parents and spread an awareness of what some if not most kids are up too. So that us as parents can take much needed precaution.

I know this might not solve the problem but there is a possibility that it could be minimised.

On 2016-11-16 23:55:00 oraljim said:
On 2016-11-16 23:27:01 Meg said: It's something they can't stop... Think ESA should look into this.
There is absolutely nothing that ESA or any other site can do other than post warnings and ask for positive confirmation that you are an adult (which of course a kid can just click OK). Until the day that humans are physically connected to the net and each human has some form of queryable interface, there is just nothing anyone can do other than watch your kids and parent them properly.

100% correct sir

Dear Arhwen

By your own version you received a message, a message. It's possible it could be from and under age person while quite possible it could be a prank or from a further unknown source.

These types of posts smack of how can I draw attention to myself.

With all due respect to you, parents, good parents know full well how to protect their children from harm. Many ladies who list with us are parents and can attest to this first hand. This website is clearly adult content and NOT for children. I doubt we need to dictate to parents how to manage their children's interests.

Why even make this type of post if you feel it will have no positive effect.

As a prudent measure the user who PM'd you has been banned from using the PM and forum.

Kind regards
Eddie
ESA SUPPORT

Eddie with all due respect I haven't beenoticed active on the forum in awhile by choice why on earth would this post with to draw attention to me.

Are you a parent? Probably not. Just the thought that one ofmy kids could be lurking here would nauseated me.

However I am not going to argue with you as I know that assumption is the mother of all F.... Ups. Besides you might know of me you have no idea as to who I am. It s not worth the time and the effort to argue people Nobody is worth arguing. irrespective of who it is.

However thank you for taking the time to banner this kid.

PS. Even if it is just a prank it's damn Childish what kind of adult plays pranks like that.

I didn't know there was a Net Nanny... thanks for the heads up.

On 2016-11-17 01:14:37 ESA SUPPORT said:


As a prudent measure the user who PM'd you has been banned from using the PM and forum.

Kind regards
Eddie
ESA SUPPORT

That's a start... thank you Eddie.
Yes I agree there can't be done more than this.
The thing is they curious.
I remember when I was young my dad hide all his video cassettes in his closet. Locking everything.
And as a kid I wanted to know why its been locked away from us?
Wish I never found out...
That videos changed my whole life and how I looked at boys...lol (only kinky thoughts)..

You know this is something you must understand , Boy's will be boy's . I mean when you where in school you always had a fantasy about a nice female teacher or girls . Women and girls don't always fancy or dream like boy's do . We are grown ups and still horny and still do what we did in school .Must know now that children these days have no problem to go on to the Internet and open a PF on ESA or any other site ,they get taught how to use a pc or laptop or mobile in there school to GOOGLE or download any thing .So don't be surprised if you do get phone calls or SMS .Just my 2 c .

@Arhwen..you mentioned assumptions.. FYI - Eddie is actually a very dedicated daddy to 2 beautiful young children..

Having said that, parents need to be more aware of what their children are getting up to and educate them properly. This is a sick world we live in...