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Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 09:39:12
Good day fellow punters.
How stupid to trust people.
Paid 50% of booking on Sunday in Cape Town that should happen Monday. Could not get hold of her on Monday. Tuesday notified she left to Pretoria on Monday.
7 weeks later no refund and excuses of not having money to pay back.
What would you do?
How stupid to trust people.
Paid 50% of booking on Sunday in Cape Town that should happen Monday. Could not get hold of her on Monday. Tuesday notified she left to Pretoria on Monday.
7 weeks later no refund and excuses of not having money to pay back.
What would you do?
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 09:39:57
Name and shame
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 10:33:03
These sluts makin busines for the good working honest girls giving us a bad name. we aint like many of these rubbish girls. DO NOT PAY DEPOSITS TO THEM. CASH ON ENTRY. SIMPLE.
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 10:42:29
I know the feeling bud... going through the same thing..but me like an idiot paid the whole damn fee...
On 2025-12-28 09:39:12 georg101 said:
Good day fellow punters.
How stupid to trust people.
Paid 50% of booking on Sunday in Cape Town that should happen Monday. Could not get hold of her on Monday. Tuesday notified she left to Pretoria on Monday.
7 weeks later no refund and excuses of not having money to pay back.
What would you do?
I know the feeling bud... going through the same thing..but me like an idiot paid the whole damn fee...
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 10:58:03
The pipi makes one do stupid things!
On 2025-12-28 09:39:12 georg101 said:
Good day fellow punters.
How stupid to trust people.
Paid 50% of booking on Sunday in Cape Town that should happen Monday. Could not get hold of her on Monday. Tuesday notified she left to Pretoria on Monday.
7 weeks later no refund and excuses of not having money to pay back.
What would you do?
The pipi makes one do stupid things!
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 12:04:37
Name and shame, I agree because SP 's like myself respect YOUR interest, YOUR time, YOUR money and there are reasons why upfront payments and deposits are a DEFINITE.
Those that understand the modus operandi of the trustworthy shall not hold it against them and continue to support them.
Ladies....don't fuck with your and your peers right to earn a keep.
RB.
Those that understand the modus operandi of the trustworthy shall not hold it against them and continue to support them.
Ladies....don't fuck with your and your peers right to earn a keep.
RB.
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 12:25:35
The newbie welcome message needs to be updated to also include something like "never pay an advance fee - money should only be paid in person" along with the usual punter Sim stuff.
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 12:38:05
So I posted a request for any wgs interested in a road trip.
1 WG DMS me, we take the chat to WA. She insists I must pay her a deposit. I suggested I will send her a ticket and theoment she lands at the airport I will give her the deposit.
She got angry, sent rude messages and literally hoped other wg I choose drugs me lol.
Funny enough she is a reputable wg on this platform. Trying to retrieve her name and will shame her.
It's rough brothers lol
1 WG DMS me, we take the chat to WA. She insists I must pay her a deposit. I suggested I will send her a ticket and theoment she lands at the airport I will give her the deposit.
She got angry, sent rude messages and literally hoped other wg I choose drugs me lol.
Funny enough she is a reputable wg on this platform. Trying to retrieve her name and will shame her.
It's rough brothers lol
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Re: Advance payments
Posted: 2025-12-28 13:58:45
learn a lesson. Do not make any kind of advanced payments
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