Hi guys, so i recently joined the website (beginning of this week) i have not met anyone or done anything. I would just like some tips maybe. I am a white male in my 20's.

First and foremost - GET A PUNTING SIM.

Don't fall in love, it's very easy to do so because some of the ladies here are amazing at their jobs.

Don't get too attached, don't fall for sob stories.

NEVER PAY UPFRONT.

In my personal experience I found rhat ladies who post often on the forums, and respond to reviews, generally provide better service. Not always, but most cases.

Remember: you are PAYING for a FANTASY.

Always be safe and don't do that raw kak.

Always be respectful to the ladies, don't act like an entitled prick just because you are paying for it. Be nice and the ladies almost always respond in kind.

Lastly, don't make punting the centre of your existence. It's easy to lose hundreds of thousands here. Focus on yourself first- be it your career, fitness, loved ones. Life is all about balance.

Welcome to the Purple World! Your associate gave you brilliant advice. There are so many people to choose from pn this site.. enjoy putting your hand in the cookie jar;)

Welcome.

Maybe start off slowly with a tantric cock massage.

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On 2025-04-03 17:14:16 bm4 said:

Lastly, don't make punting the centre of your existence. It's easy to lose hundreds of thousands here. Focus on yourself first- be it your career, fitness, loved ones. Life is all about balance.

All pretty good advice and I'd like to highlight this. Sex releases a fuck load of dopamine (just like drugs) so it can be extremely addictive. Moderation and acting responsibly is key.

Also get a cheap phone along with your punting sim (make sure it's pre-rica'd) and only use it for making enquiring and making appointments. Keep it separate from your personal number, email, socials etc.

Don't get personal/let feelings get involved. It will almost never work out and you end up losing a good SP which is hard (and expensive) to find.

Keep yourself clean --- the lady isn't going to give your junk the attention it deserves if she has to hold her breath and pick out pubic hairs every few minutes.

If you see a good lady and she has almost no reviews then drop her a review.

Welcome to the Purple World, strap in and enjoy the ride.

You've gotten amazing advice from experienced people on this thread.

Have a look at my Purple World Etiquette thread under off the beaten track to get some insight from a Service Providers point of view.

The only advice I can give you is to ALWAYS listen to your gut.

Kisses
Kourtney

Also, there are some posts about police scammers. Go read them and learn. They can sound very convincing, don't fall for their sh*t.

Welcome to our little world of everything hot and spicy...

Study the reviews thoroughly.