May I ask, why do punters make a booking for the entire weekend, or an overnight, only to ghost you and disappear at the last moment?

You okes know, that besides the pleasure and fun, this is also our livelyhood, and we shift other clients arround to accommodate you, only for you to not show up and cost us valuable income by losing out on all other clients?

It's in very bad form and taste. The least you can do is let me know ahead of time so that I can make other arrangements, instead of just disappearing and me sitting around waiting and making no income.

Kak styl julle. Kak styl.

When it comes to over nights or a weekend away... Ask for a 50% deposit. That way, you will know he is serious. If he doesn't wanna pay it, then you know,he is waisting your time

Thanks Aph.

Ms. Aphrodite is right most dear Ms. Melody.

As much as one should listen to the gripes of the punters, I truly hope , DEAR PUNTERS, YOU read THIS thread, the simple plea for respect, acknowledgement of ones right to earn a keep , never forgetting the negative ripple effects it has on a lady.when played for a fool, made a donkey.

And I don't say that meaning disrespect toward Ms.Melody BUT as a real ever growing problem among advertisers that is becoming a pandemic and making advertisers resort to means safeguarding their position.

Gentlemen

What is this nonsense.

Why???



RB.

@RB
Well said and a very good question!

Why do this?

Kylie

My guess would be ... no reply.
As it obviously a malicious thing to do.

I know sometimes ,life happens, and it gets in the way of your plans, or it cuase delays.

However it respects, we all want , we all deserve... notify your service provider so they can carry on with their own business and responsibilities!

Kylie

The timewasters out there just give those of us who are reliable a bad name.

Mutual respect seems to be a lost virtue.

On 2025-04-05 20:48:06 mattiboo said:
The timewasters out there just give those of us who are reliable a bad name.

Mutual respect seems to be a lost virtue.

Oh! mattiboo how right you are.

Both us, advertisers and you, punters who care not that this is a sexy site ,and still behave with integrity and practice a code of conduct that governs decency, are with our backs against the wall.

Does this lack of integrity have a race, an age , a gender?

Is it the ways of a modern progressive society or a fallen society?

:(((

RB

IMHO making an extended booking with an unknown person (SP and Punter) alike is a huge risk.

I for one will never do it, the cons outweigh the pros by a country mile.

All my long-term bookings to date were with ladies that I've known for a while, and have build a strong rapport with.

On several occasions I've invited ladies over for long weekends, paid for their flights, and only settled their fee on their departure.

Admittedly these "relationships" stated long ago in the normal cash on arrival manner.

What I'm trying to say is.....

Trust and respect is earned, in all spheres of life.

@TheMuff: Totally agree!