So, I have reached a point where I am now scared to actually spend my hard earned cash (things are getting harder in our Country too and prices are going up and service levels are going lower). I have been punting since 2006 atleast.... and now I have noticed I find very few of the ladies attractive anymore and if I do I generally am not motivated enough to make a booking with anyone I do find attractive...

I end up getting there and the experience is not usually what I expect....

Do you guys also have this kind of feeling now where its not worth it per say? (I am single for a long time too)

Everytime I browse to see who's available I'm not particularly keen on any...

So is this normal? Or am I having a mid-life crisis :D ?

Up to date I didn't had that feeling yet .. touch wood ... but everyone of us are going through different stages of our life ... maybe you just in the down stage now but it would most probably change very soon. Don't do stuff if you are not feeling 100 % into it .. you will most probably just waste your hard earned money.

My suggestion is to find someone who is good at doing something that you really like and turns you on for eg kissing, massage ,bj etc.

I find the more you see the lady the more you tend to click and before you know it you'll have a favourite regular who understands you and what makes you tick.

Tough one ..... finding a good regular is not so easy I've had experiences where the first 3 visits are good then your left wanting and unsatisfied... any suggestions on someone worth visiting ?

I'm worth it. Kisses, Mynx

C1989, I feel the same, my experience is that not many girls put a lot of effort in. You have to be very picky and hope youb dont get her on an off day. Most of the girls expect you to do most of the work, on the other hand it is very difficult to saisfyev3rybody

I share the same sentiment. Im fact its now so bad that im dipping my pen in company ink these days. Im not proud of it but it typically lasts longer, costs me less and is a bit more long term.

I beg MG's...give me a reason to punt again :(

The total off girls entering this industry is more and more every month. Service standards has droppoed. Not saying all new girls are bad, but there are many many girls on this site who give great service, but agree this is not the same as Two to Three years back.

I'm surprised but I'm not the only one feeling it. It's like buying a German car and you get the performance of like a cheap 10 year old car if I could use that analogy so now who do you spend your cash on when you do actually want a good time?

At this stage now I'm just tired of the bad service. Almost now if I don't get a good vibe on the phone or on whatsapp I certainly don't visit.

Mmmm before you could get some awesome all night bookings not at a ridiculous price too .... now days I find it's all night with lots of sleeping included.

I wonder what we do?

South Africa became a country where lots of peeps need to hunt down an income. Like a guy who's good at changing light bulbs gone unemployed so now advertise himself as an electrician. He's not going to impress many.

Few ladies out there gets the idea of 'Service makes a guy happy'. Once you've found one, make her a regular.

But I think C1989 is yet to say what he really feels like saying. Just spill the bean C one. If you really gone totally out of need of WG's, it's your heart longing for more. Google some dating sites then :-)