I was rushed yesterday to do a video call and sell content.To my disappointment, I was sent fake proof of payment. I know I'm naive,and I will make sure that payment shows in my bank account,from now on.

My point is gentlemen, you are not the only ones that get scammed.

This happened to me as well, but I told him he will have to wait until the money is in my account before we commence. He allegedly made an "immediate payment". He was enraged that I didn't want to proceed. Could I private message you, and we compare info regarding perp?

You know how you spot them immediately?

When you say "with pleasure but, only once your payment hits my account, then your request shall be honoured."
Then come the accusations, the promises, the false POP and and and...playing, in some cases on a girls desperation to earn some money's or, her guilt wanting to believe his sincerity.


I can understand that many punters would be hesitant to pay upfront all thanks to the cheats and thieving advertisers making it a nightmare for the good ones, both SP and punter.

It IS a sad sad state of affairs.

RB.

I had received one bad review once... Proof of payment reflected when I arrived at the studio I assisted back then for it was super fun having more than one venue... And the place is discreet, so signal was very poor. Ohhh and it was one specialised one I had to read one long script and then recreate.... So always know even doing the right thing someone might be upset due to scammers that we have daily.

I got scammed several times by the ladies, after sending the money whether you get blocked or some different kinds of stories coming up.. So since then I give up on purchasing contents..
But I know some of the ladies of esa r thr on onlyfans.. I think that is a good idea..

When I send my online services and content I have payment link options and bank deposit options.

And to my bank details I add the following please note no services rendered or goods released until the payment reflects in my bank.

Even with that they still try their luck. This past Saturday I had two scammers try their luck I just put it on my status for the ladies and clients in my contacts to see including contact details so people are aware of these scammers after that I archive them so even if they text me I will not get a notification and once they in my archive they stay there.

Lol the one idiot sent me a fake proof of payments from Nedbank and forgot to delete the url dumb ass no proof of payment contains urls.

Then the other tried sasfin hello piaisa and the imo is always the same.

Robz I love you to bits and pieces but you are genuinely to soft hearted not a bad quality at all but you need to toughen up with these mofos the don't deserve your goodness.

Also beware of the rush tactics if it's a genuine punters and his money doesn't reflect immediately he will understand because they normally do...

If you like I will show you the difference between the fake pops and the real ones because their is a difference you just need to know what it looks like.

I've dealt with these assholes plenty of times infact it often feels like the same idiot just using different numbers.

On 2026-06-16 11:16:18 bl1716737 said:
I got scammed several times by the ladies, after sending the money whether you get blocked or some different kinds of stories coming up.. So since then I give up on purchasing contents..
But I know some of the ladies of esa r thr on onlyfans.. I think that is a good idea..

Dear sir if you read what the op said she said it's not only the clients that get scammed the ladies do too.

Further more you are on ESA and clearly not a new member like your profile suggests why don't you use the forum and the review system and comments section as they are very telling of the service provider and what to expect.

It's strange how when guys are scammed the guys all jump on the band wagon and say pay back the money while the working girls always apologize and feel sorry for the punter but when it happens to ladies. The punters (not all there are some really decent guys on here) instead of showing some empathy because you have been on the receiving end of a scam or sympathies because you actually have some human decency they Will do what you did by minimising Robz experience without showing empathy or sympathy but you will never hear the punter say pay back the money a perfect example of such can be found in the PE thread where some idiot was trying to defame a certain lady but she called him out on the money he short paid her and his assholish behaviour not one punter said pay back the money or said anything to defend the lady and I am almost certain the majority of the PE guys have visited her and was aware that she is a decent person.

At what stage will guys realise before ladies are escort's they are human beings too the Also have emotions.

So who are winning & who are loosing in this business, overall in general..?

On 2026-06-17 10:26:06 bl1716737 said:
So who are winning & who are loosing in this business, overall in general..?

If there are losers then it simply means, there aint no true winners.

How come?

Because both SP and punter will constantly be on their backfoot, looking over their shoulder, wondering if they are being duped , scammed.

Making punting a nightmare for all.

Who do I put the blame on.

Squarely on the punters.

How come?

Because YOU stand up for your favorites excusing their bad behaviour , poor service simply on the basis that they have entertained you drunk, without time limits, allowed you to abuse their good nature ....and therefore to jump to their defense like pussywhipped c#nts in defense of said girl when someone calls her out.

Smile.

Now to wait for the stone throwing

Sorry .

It is like the anc gvnmt....let the mediocre and criminal get their way and then blame it on everybody .


True bullshit.


RB.

My own stupidity, I'm honest so in my naive mind, everyone else would be too. Hard lesson learnt.