A bit late to to post this but today was actually International BDSM Day and here I am.;)

Blissful BDSM day to you all!!!

What did you get up to today or plan to get up to to celebrate it?

How has embracing your BDSM lifestyle/moments, kinks fetishes impacted on your life both positively or negatively?

Come share a bit...

There might be dozens of people out there that could use a bit of encouragement to help them embrace their own fetish.

As I fetish provider I want to thank every single one of you that had ever trusted me enough to come share your special moments with me.

Xxx
Miss Red

Ah I missed it!

I love how BDSM has conversations, communication and consent as the foreground for fun

Knowing what and where the boundaries are, and that they will be respected, makes space for some phenomenal experiences!

Also, I finally got myself sound stainless steal and silicone sounds....
So much fun!!

@MFB..well if women's day and youth day can become Women's month and youth month we can turn BDSM day into BDSM month:) so plenty time to make the most of it and maybe run some fun activities to celebrate it..hehehe

You absolutely right about the conversation, the transparency and honesty that goes hand in hand with BDSM conversations...could tech people out here in the *normal alot about respect and trust.

As for sounding tools
.. they are amazing..got introduced to those little amazing tools by none other than this lovely lady..www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php. #advert active at time of post.

Had no idea what they where till she showed me few years ago..#nevertooldtolearn

To be fair Miss Red, I think everyday with us is BDSM Day ;-)

It is only fair that I share the link for the wonderful Elle Rider who taught me the magic of sounding!

www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php

That is the beauty of BDSM - There is always more to learn about and discover new sensations!

My BDSM journey started with rope a few years ago, and what a wonderful journey it has been!

Sounding is such a fun activity.
Something I truly look forward when I know it's on the menu. And I like a stretch.

On 2025-07-28 14:23:12 Mxtress Fussy Bunny said:
To be fair Miss Red, I think everyday with us is BDSM Day ;-)

It is only fair that I share the link for the wonderful Elle Rider who taught me the magic of sounding!

www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php

That is the beauty of BDSM - There is always more to learn about and discover new sensations!

My BDSM journey started with rope a few years ago, and what a wonderful journey it has been!

It just beautiful when the seasoned and pro ladies pass on knowledge and help newcomers to the scene to refine skills ;)

I sometimes wish some of them would team up and start a "school" for new SPs.

No one can really teach you how to f... or s...

But most BDSM skills are teachable...:)

Been telling a certain lady for years to do something along that lines even been considering it myself...and might still get around to doing something along that line.

On 2025-07-28 16:48:11 Miss Red ( Louise ) said:

I sometimes wish some of them would team up and start a "school" for new SPs.

No one can really teach you how to f... or s...

But most BDSM skills are teachable...:)

Have a peep on the Advertisers Lounge... #circle
BDSM is the theme for August :)

Totally agree with Bunny re communication. Being kinky (and poly) has made me a better communicator all around!
Lately I've been diving into the healing aspects of kink, for emotional release and to calm my nervous system through a stressful time - it's been a real gift to myself.

L xx