There is someone in my personal life who wants to be my little bitch. This is a man in a high power position, so I get it. What boggles my mind, is why he wants me to enjoy hurting him? The domination isn't enough, he wants me to love it?!
This mf tore my heart out and ripped it to shreds, so I cannot wait.

I wonder why no one replied
Shame

Yeah because there are sexologist experts on this site

On 2022-07-29 06:01:35 LayerOfPipe said:
Yeah because there are sexologist experts on this site

Are you really small minded enough to think that? It's worth asking to me

Kahil Gibran said that pain is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self.

As with every human desire the driving forces are varied and complex but often masochistic subject actions are ego related.

Should the super ego for instance be infected with hostile interjection that threatens the true self this is one of the ways to unleash the subconscious and stimulate creativity and self acceptance.

Some people just can't feel loved simply because they are.

People's Kinks are vast
We are all just a little bent and it's not always nescesary to analyse how or why the twisting happened.

Play safe and just have fun with it.
Trust your lust :)

On 2022-07-28 20:32:29 Sabrina @ Le Belle said:
There is someone in my personal life who wants to be my little bitch. This is a man in a high power position, so I get it. What boggles my mind, is why he wants me to enjoy hurting him? The domination isn't enough, he wants me to love it?!
This mf tore my heart out and ripped it to shreds, so I cannot wait.

I'm no expert, but....

If you are out for "revenge", don't give him what he wants.
Telling him to get lost will be more torturous than slapping him or whatever he wants.

On 2022-07-29 08:24:01 ( Aunty ) Sage said:
People's Kinks are vast
We are all just a little bent and it's not always nescesary to analyse how or why the twisting happened.

Such true words...and I know from experience.

So ... I'm reading not a client, someone in personal life.

Man in position of power, tore your heart out and ripped it to shreds, now wanting you to hurt him and love it. Well I hope I'm wrong, but that's sounding like narcissist trying to stay in your personal life.

@Sabrina - don't do it, it's not your style and the probability is it ends ugly (again). Go the no contact route. P

Cock and ball torture

On 2022-07-30 16:04:06 doctorP said:
So ... I'm reading not a client, someone in personal life.

Man in position of power, tore your heart out and ripped it to shreds, now wanting you to hurt him and love it. Well I hope I'm wrong, but that's sounding like narcissist trying to stay in your personal life.

@Sabrina - don't do it, it's not your style and the probability is it ends ugly (again). Go the no contact route. P

Sounds like wise words to me - just mu humble opinion who has wanted a woman to stay in my life under any circumstance :(