On 2022-08-01 11:16:59 loverofpunt said:
I tried doing the girlfriend thing, it does not work really. Gotta pay for this pay for that, party week into the night and only have energy to manage one round or a morning glory session then have to rush to work. Then regular texts for 'help' in between. It really is best to just book and get true value
On 2022-08-01 12:06:40 Need4Passion said:
I agree is you're only comparing those options and the only required outcome is sex.
There's other options and desired outcomes though.
If it was just sex, theres literally free options. I mean, you meet and chat to girls online. They get interested. Sure they'll push for dates and and even a relationship sometimes. You just brush all that off until they decide to pop in for a fuck in which case, it cost you nothing or they invite you over and then it's just your fuel costs but punting is gonna cost you that fuel anyway. Then there's the possibility that sometimes they stay much longer or overnight and you folk out for Uber Eats or they ask you to stop and get a pack of smokes on the way to them. Still, nowhere near the cost of a punt and you're 99% of the time, spending that for a few hours or an overnight and multiple rounds, owo, and very likely CIM and swallow too without any time limit.
Then when you consider the whole gf thing, sometimes we want more. The sex is secondary so we want to spend money and time on someone that we like and care for and that cares for us and do thing with someone out and about other than sex. In that case, the money you spend on them is a sunk cost as you would spend it anyway so the sex is a bonus and basically free.
If you're just dating someone for sex though, that that's a mighty expensive time consuming punt. Might as well just book on the purple but it's not always one dimensional and cut and dry.
N4P
On 2022-08-01 19:19:23 Midnight Express said:
From a WG's point of view (well mine)
I must say I feel that being in this business is better than dating in the outside world. And the gents here Treat me with way more respect and love, whether temporary or not.
I used to hate getting into a relationship having to wonder whether this ones just here for a short time to satisfy his needs and leave or use and abuse me in anyway he can...and asking for 'help' even when there was no one else to turn to was something else I couldn't stand. Asking for help for some of us is not as easy as it is for others.
but the sense of independence the business gives you is comforting and also knowing my time is not being wasted it's being paid for means the gents I meet here will NOT waste my time.
Yes it may get lonely sometimes and you might need that extra "thing" that a relationship brings. But the amount of times I've been messed around by a guy claiming he wants to be in a relationship just so he can get in my pants is ridiculous. So I love it here and if all works out hopefully one day I'll find a guy worth my time that's just as great as the guys that I've met on this platform.
But for now this we'll definitely do.
I've honestly experienced way more "love" and genuine kindness here than I have on the outside.