I've always just looked at the ladies on this site but never made an actual booking until a couple weeks ago. Long story short It was super akward that I immediately sensed that the lady was sad. We just spend the whole session talking as the lady was still very immature and sad like I said...

So my question is what is the first thing you should do when visiting a lady? I took a shower just before I left home. Should you take a shower immediately when you get there or chat a bit first? Should you just ask the lady if you can take a shower?

Okay so once you took a shower what then? Should you come out with just a towel around your waist or should you put your clothes back on? If you decide to come out with just a towel what about your clothes? Should you take your clothes with you or leave it in the bathroom? This was clearly a shared venue so I felt uncomfortable from the get go.

Would appreciate some insight from both ladies and Punters thank you.

Don't let SF see this, he's gonna start preaching the gospel of hugs

I have a shared space and this is what I do as a therapist:

Welcome my client in, offer coffee, tea or water.

Then I explain that I ask all of my clients to take a shower first (I don't know if you've been working all day or how far you've driven, so you need to go shower even if you've just had one at home).

I also let my clients know that there is a hook behind the bathroom door and I leave a hanger in case they need it to hand up their clothes.

I explain that once they are out of the shower, they can come through and lay on my plinth. But while I give them space in the bathroom, I will be heating up the oils.

Then off to my plinth they go and if they are new clients, I ask questions about them and will only talk about myself once they ask. I read the energy of the client, their conversation and take it from there.

Once the massage is done. I move onto the sensual where the magic happens and that's when our nerves should have been eased already through touch, energy work and conversation or no conversation at all depending on what type of client it is.

But once the magic happens, it's about how the body talks.

As a rule of thumb, etiquette goes both ways and it is to show respect and always make sure that even though you have already agreed on xy and z, your session is still consensual and you respect one another.

Shit happens, people have tough days, things we know nothing about and what may have originally been agreed on, may no longer be what the client wants or what the therapist is willing to do. But this needs to be discussed and an agreement needs to be made etc...

That's what I do with my clients. I can't speak on behalf of anyone else and I have no clue what anyone else goes through. So it's not a judgement.

But I abide by strict protocols and this is to ensure both my comfort and my clients comfort.

Ps. In my shared space there is total privacy and discretion.

I rent space when I'm not busy to another therapist and our bookings never conflict and we are NEVER within the same vicinity at all.

Unless we do a doubles together ;)

You over thinking this.

If it's an ensuite, take your clothes off in the room. Usually the lady will offer you some hangers and take them and hang them for you if she doesn't take the clothes off herself. Go into the shower naked, come out naked after drying off and lay in the bed or on top of her and get ready to be treated.

If you have to go out the room to shower like in a shared house, take off your clothes in the room the same. Wrap a towel and go to the shower when the lady tell you it's clear. Come back with the towel I and take it off in the room.

PS: this is why you don't take any valuables to a booking except for the agreed cash for the session as well. Just incase you come across a bad apple that might rummage through your pockets while you're in the shower, you won't need to worry about it.

I usually shower before a punt because I take a while and 90% of the time, there's no need for another shower at the punt before it starts. If they ask, I oblige and follow those steps. I ask for a shower after and they'll usually run your water and offer you a clean towel.

N4P

Member since 2017 and your first punt now only?

You are not a fast mover sir. I suggest you go to one of our +40 legends that knows the flows.
Tell her you want to be guided a through z.
She will relax you and much much mord