I suppose this has been asked already.
WG's that are in relationships how do you separate the two worlds? You obviously do have fun with certain clients. Doing the deed a few times a day then fulfilling the requirements of the relationship. How do you get it right? I understand it must be the intimacy in a relationship but if you experience a good booking is there not a degree of intimacy that you experience with the "client"? Ever think of the client when you are with your partner?
No disrespect intended at all, just a question for the purple community.

Quite an intimate question asked and considering the abuse of late on the forum, those looking in to "collect" information and throw it back in ones face when it suits them to bully a person into submission and shame...I cannot imagine many a response.

Guarded posters and readers I would imagine.

Sadly.

I do know I would find it difficult as I have "fallen in love" with many a session shared ...wink.

RB.

That's an intrusive question,I wonder: what your motive?

On 2023-04-08 09:42:14 Cleopatra ( Your Royal Affair) said:
That's an intrusive question,I wonder: what your motive?

...and there sinker69 u have proof of the skepticism of why such a question.

In an ideal world where people could share and not fear the abuse of such information , it might have been received in a different light.

One has to thank the cyber bullies, both punter and SP,on this wonderful forum for the "guarded " responses u shall get.

And yes,as Cleopatra put it, many will find it "intrusive".

And then the "polygamists" might not mind answering and sharing.

RB

RB

On 2023-04-08 09:49:34 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2023-04-08 09:42:14 Cleopatra ( Your Royal Affair) said: That's an intrusive question,I wonder: what your motive?

...and there sinker69 u have proof of the skepticism of why such a question.

In an ideal world where people could share and not fear the abuse of such information , it might have been received in a different light.

One has to thank the cyber bullies, both punter and SP,on this wonderful forum for the "guarded " responses u shall get.

And yes,as Cleopatra put it, many will find it "intrusive".

And then the "polygamists" might not mind answering and sharing.

RB

RB,
You are 100 correct, as I said no disrespect intended and sorry if I have offended any lady! I was just wondering. No other replies needed to this.

It's understandable that folks would be hesitant to answer such an intimate question given the potential for abuse and cyberbullying on online forums. While some individuals may feel comfortable sharing their experiences and insights, others may be guarded or choose to keep their personal and professional lives separate.

It's important to respect individuals' boundaries and privacy, especially in online communities where anonymity can provide a false sense of security. Rather than focusing on individual experiences, it may be more helpful to explore broader themes and topics related to the industry and relationships.

Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide whether they are comfortable sharing information about their personal lives online.

On 2023-04-08 06:48:08 sinker69 said:
I suppose this has been asked already.
WG's that are in relationships how do you separate the two worlds? You obviously do have fun with certain clients. Doing the deed a few times a day then fulfilling the requirements of the relationship. How do you get it right? I understand it must be the intimacy in a relationship but if you experience a good booking is there not a degree of intimacy that you experience with the "client"? Ever think of the client when you are with your partner?
No disrespect intended at all, just a question for the purple community.

One "Legend educated me on how to separate"me and the actress who is in this purle world.....

The moment I put on lingerie and get ready for a client...I am that actress..

That's Me .....

The....end....

I appreciate when people are genuine with me and allow vulnerability <3 so I offer the same in a session and I never do anything that I don't want to do. So I will never perform or be someone I am not. While a level of professionalism is always maintained, once you're in a booking with me - that's just two people in an intimate space and it stays there.

I don't allow clients to have access to me outside of the occasional chat via WhatsApp or call or if it's something really pressing.

As for my personal affairs it does get difficult, fuck.

I've always been open and honest with my lovers because I expect the same.

I always try to not play outside of work, but then someone marvellous comes along and in that moment, my boundaries are readjusted because I find a sincere and out of this world connection with someone in my personal life.

Companionship for me outside of the Purple World is more than sex - it's being thought of and thinking of someone when you go to the shops, it's sharing useless but interesting facts with your partner, it's lying in pj's all day long and still thinking you both are the most beautiful people, it's making a meal, it's going for a walk, it's ugly laughing until you can't breathe and thinking that ugly laugh is the most precious sound you've ever heard, it's holding hands and feeling sensations rush through your body that make an orgasm go to shame... it's navigating the difficult conversations and even in misunderstandings or conflict, knowing without a doubt that so long as this is an equal partnership you have each others backs and you want the best for one another. It's compromise, communication and understanding. It's acts of service. It's building together and apart so that when you do come together, you bring the best versions of yourself. It's doing the inner work and healing so that you're not each others rehabs or outlets, but rather each others confidantes. It's co-existing.

I can't co-exist with a client. I can offer a deep level of sincere and genuine intimacy. But if you found me through my line of work, that's where you stay because that's my boundary. While I may care for a client and want to see them excel and win in life - they will never have that personal access to me. Because then every client would become my girlfriend and boyfriend.

I am big on boundaries and energy.

People in my personal lives earn their place there and you can't compare the two. After a long day of great sex, I want to go to my person and melt into their soul.

Plus when I'm in love, the sex is totally different. They may not even be an oil painting, but I have now fallen for this person and I'm co-existing with them, it becomes more delicate, it becomes something sacred and deeply personal.

This is my honest account. I don't care what anyone has to say about it either.

It's the same as asking a client, well how do you see several sp's a week and then go back to your wives and your girlfriends?

You just do, because while we provide a level of intimacy that a client craves, we ALL long to co-exist and build with someone. There is a space that your personal love interests fill that we could never match or fill.

And there is a space that we do fill and if enough effort and communication was put in, even you and your partners could achieve that. But the problem lies in shame around sex and complacency.

We are replaceable and that's the truth.

Recently a lady I was with tells me she is seeing a guy outside her job and he knows nothing about it. She is afraid the guy would take advantage of her and see her a sex symbol