Start gyming.

Exercise.
Walk, bike a little in the gym.
Push some weights
Exercise 3 times a week minimum.

Take a testosterone booster- check on takealot for one. Short term. Not necessarily forever just for around 2 months.

Check for diabetes - simple test.

40 is not old. You actually get fitter in your 40's than in your 30's.

The women like 40 year old's better than younger dudes.

I have a mate who is one of the sports doctors for the Springboks

His chirp is always - you need 50% to pass, which 50% do they know?

I have suffered from gout/ arthritis for many years and have been treated with medicine for over 20 years.

In December 2021 I started falling over (not alcohol related!!!) Then I fell off a ladder. Went to see my GP and she said "Go and see this Autho surgeon and all the tests and exrays were done he sent me to a Nuero surgeon were they took another 2 litres of blood (Every box on that Ampath form was ticked)

Turns out that I was miss diagnosed and I have muscular dystrophy

He will only use drugs if he has to do brain/ spine or car accident stuff. The rest he believes that all can be managed via vitamins.

So, yes, it's your life, your body - go and get as many second opinions as you want

Well one trip to the urologist later, and he confirmed that I am fit as a fiddle

Thats good of course, but now back to the drawing board

Going to work through the other suggestions here

On 2023-04-21 12:00:54 xenon69 said:
Well one trip to the urologist later, and he confirmed that I am fit as a fiddle

Thats good of course, but now back to the drawing board

Going to work through the other suggestions here

Bud, not saying it is, but many times the fault not by us guys but the person you with.

Sorry for highjacking your question. Does anybody know od a female urologist in Jhb? Preferably a hot one. Not comfortable with guys checking out my junk and putting fingers up me!

Bud this happens to many guys, could just be stress, lack of d sleep etc and may not be anything physical. From what I know Cialis doesn't have too many if any lasting side affects. There are also many herbal vasodilators like Cialis etc, but you need to try a few to see which one works for you, and doesn't give you a headache. Cialis may also lower your blood pressure. Also try drinking a Monster energy drink before the act, it helps. Take a vithathion everyday in the morning.