Posted: 2023-06-04 20:01:28
For most ladies this is just a job, some enjoy it and some don't. Naturally the level of enjoyment also depends on the person they're with, while some ladies (and men) are just 'freaks' lol.
Thing to remember is that they're paid to give you a good time and a pleasurable experience, the better they do this (act) the more money they can make selling the fantasy/experience.
For the most part, they're having sex with someone they wouldn't outside of this work.
So from what I know, it's often a case of keeping feelings separate from the job, sex is just sex and having space for someone special is still there, ie: spending time with outside of the bedroom and being romantically involved with, actually attracted to etc...
How many guys punt but still love their girlfriends or wifes?
Rather see it for what it is and keep it that way.
Personally I'm single but have dated an ex WG before and this is pretty much what I summed up as well. Additionally, I tend to stray away from ladies I know are in a relationship but that's just my preference to be more comfortable with the reality of it all.