I am totally baffled when I read spiteful comments and reviews if an advertiser declines a booking for a personal and valid reason.

Menstruation a very natural occurence in a woman's life cycle, is also a very sensitive issue for many men. So many times an
advertiser has been blasted by
clients because she started her
menstrual cycle during the booking
or was at the end of her cycle. Guys
were seriously upset and felt
somewhat violated and deceived. In some cultures and religions it is a serious taboo.

For the first time I came across a review where the punter blasted the advertiser for declining him a
booking because she was on her
period, yet she saw other clients. Some clients expect the
ladies to take time off from work during the menstrual cycle. Unfortunately this is not possible for most ladies. Instead they offer
limited services that restrict direct touching of her genital area and breasts because of tenderness.


Now if a service provider knows a client expects and enjoys much
more intimacy and foreplay than she is comfortable with during her period, should she not be within
her rights to decline the booking and instead do a booking for a client that she is comfortable with?

Should she not have the choice to exercise her "Right of Admission Reserved" policy, or exercise her
perogative to"Preference" in this instance?

So let's assume the service provider is uncomfortable with providing a service to a punter that she has seen before or she has her reasons, whatever they may be for declining the booking. Should the client not accept her decision or does he have the right to be upset and discredit her?

Is it a given that she should
accommodate the punter because he is known to her or that he tried to book several times?

If a service provider said to a punter that she is not comfortable doing a booking for him for a personal reason is that wrong?

It would be very interesting to read the comments from both punters and advertisers.

If an SP would deny me her time during this period I'd ask her when is she finishing with her menstrual cycle then visit her afterwards as I know that she'll be at her most high with Horniness

I think we as punters tend to ask a lot from you ladies, even wives and girlfriends don't want to be touched at this time of the month

Just my 2c

Most women are sensitive about having sex during their mensturation which is totally understandable. Despite being extra horny they are worried their flows may be too heavy and messy. They feel dirty in front of men and absolutely forbid it or do not alloe oral or fingering. This is especially when they are with someone they're not close to. In my years of punting, only one ESA lady has allowed me to have sex with her during her period and that's because we've grown quite close and she trusts me. Her flows are usually quite light and short. We both enjoy it as she is really horny and a well positioned dark coloured towel on the bed takes care of the laundry.

Most women are sensitive about having sex during their mensturation which is totally understandable. Despite being extra horny they are worried their flows may be too heavy and messy. They feel dirty in front of men and absolutely forbid it or do not alloe oral or fingering. This is especially when they are with someone they're not close to. In my years of punting, only one ESA lady has allowed me to have sex with her during her period and that's because we've grown quite close and she trusts me. Her flows are usually quite light and short. We both enjoy it as she is really horny and a well positioned dark coloured towel on the bed takes care of the laundry.

I do understand this is a normal thing
I do appreciate when a SP tells me upfront BEFORE the booking is made. Not nice when u have paid and then hear, "sorry but...."

I must say I have been rather lucky.

always honest with the guy when it is that time of the month I tell them why I can't see him normally they are understanding and come see me when I am done if it's a FH booking.

However with massage it's different as someguys don't mind because it a the massage they want. The guys that want to touch feel will comeback another time.

By the way Jiah I think this is a rather interesting thread.

The dispassionate logical me says; I don't care about the reason a lady may refuse a booking or change her mind. If she is not in the right frame of mind then the booking will be kak.

The compassionate me says: If a lady refuses or changes her mind and I persist and force the issue then it is borderline harassment and that's just not right

The selfish son of a bitch me says: I'm not booking her again, not after she disappointed me, dented my ego or was perceived as being a little rude in the change of mind or refusal.

None of me says; Bitch, how dare she, useless bag of bones, without a doubt she's full of kak and a lousy lay so I must now drop everything in order tell all my "friends" on ESA that they should not waste a cent on her.

So how as dispassionate, compassionate and selfish me ben refused?

I've been refused towards the end of a discussion because I innocently asked whether she would...... and was told "wow that's sick" after which she hung the phone up. I judged it probably wise not to call back and ask again. (no it didn't involve minors, miners, animals, danger of death, amputation, physical harm or contravene common sense rules of hygiene)

I've arrived for a booking and found a lady and found her teary and puffy eyed from crying after something happened since my call. She was very apologetic but there was not much hope of a joyous coupling that night so off I went with a heavy sigh.

And there was the memorable occasion that I arrived, was invited to make myself comfortable while she "freshened up." So down I sit only to hear the most violent retching, heaving and splashing sounds coming from the toilet. As I struggled to get past her trelly door she came out and said she didn't feel well. Believe me, that did NOTHING for my ego!

A good topic. I find most men are ignorant about these things. I remember a comment on a lady"s review a few years ago. The punter's gripe wss that the lady accepted the app and half an hour later cancelled cos her period started. Some ladies have pre-menstrual symptoms and some don't. And even if you do have symptoms you know more or lesd when it will started, as in the next day or 2 or 3. Not as in Thursday 16/2 @ 14:53.