There is a thread about, "Over Punting" as in, lost interest in punting and reference to the wife now filling that void.

When you are first courting a girl, it's all about the 2 of you, so, the spice of life is at it's greatest from both sides.

After marriage before the kids, that spark is still there.

Once kids arrive, things change, you now become PARENTS, and that spark starts to slowly go out, but, not completely.

In the beginning your GFWife would dress up and show off what they got, expose those curves and assets, enough to make you want to bang at any opportunity...LOL.

Now as a mother, the dress up is more conservative as you now become a role model to your kids, and society dictates how mothers, should behave and carry themselves, but, to the husband, that "Eye candy" is gone.

SPs on this site are GFs and Wives too,but are "Eye candy" to us, because of their erotic pictures and services they offer.
Just imagine your wife in these types of poses and outfits.

20 years and 2 kids later, my wife is still "Eye candy"
She still takes my breath away and makes me want to bang her at any opportunity.

When you have something like that, all the issues you encounter with booking SPs, from bad attitude to price vs services on offer, to scammers, really makes you reevaluate things and I think for many punters, it is getting to the "Over Punting" stage.

Just my 2c.

That may be the case for some, and it sounds like you're doing very well there, congrats bud!

But, speaking for myself here, we never had kids because we didn't want any, and the spark died a long time ago anyway. Granted there were a few other major dramas along the way as well. But I have Zero interest in the wife, and vice Versa it seems. And yet I'm still over punting, the excitement has just gone .

Try one of the She Males

Wow Knight rider. Your wife is an excellent example of a lady looking after herself and not losing herself hope she carries on looking after herself and getting your engine revving till death. It is really hard when u get opposite or pshycology takes over and no imaginative sex and foreplay at all it can kill many a relationship.we are after all animals.

I like this post. My sentiments exactly. Grateful to be in a similar situation as you.