I have one issue!!

The men who never learned to wash their cocks.. I have personally rejected so many and had them leave !! Nothing worse than some guys penis smelling like rotten fuck know what!!

I'm so off cheese since that fucking day!!

Why can the men not come and treat us good beautiful ones good?? Bring us candy, or flowers or just send something via 60/60.. even for massages I let them shower prior!! That makes our prices go up as it's water, towels and cleaning products for men..

If the men only knew how good it could get if you know how to have us women in our feminine mode!! I left the WG scene for one year to come back to this, thought it would be more fun, more play, more everything!!

On 2026-04-06 13:34:40 J_J said:
Interesting and useful thread, thank you

On 2026-04-06 11:55:58 Danika said:

3. Time wasting
Endless chatting, "just checking", or fishing for free previews---no thanks.



Can I challenge you (and other ladies who hold this view) to reconsider this one. Communication is key to a successful booking and its better to get it out the way before the booking, than during.

But out of curiosity, how do you prefer us to ask our questions. I've tried all in one message. But then she responds to 2 of the 10 and I have to then re-ask the other 8. I've also tried 1 by 1 to ensure each gets responded to. But then sense the annoyance.

Ok, they not 10, but a few to cover basic stuff that I prefer not to take for granted, like

Punter: Do you have shower facilities
SP: Yes
Punter: Can I have two showers, before and after (genuine question, Ive been told in the room before I can only have one, I must decide if its before or after.)
SP: Fuck off

Punter: does your all inclusive price include a prostate massage
SP: No, thats extra
Punter: How much
SP: R1000
Punter: And finger rimming only
SP: Fuck off


Punter: I prefer covered oral, are you fine with that.
SP: No, I dont like the taste of condoms/ No, condoms give me a rash
Punter: Do you have herpes
SP: Fuck off

I've asked a lady about herpes before, and she politely responded, I dont have herpes, but Ill give you a covered blow for your comfort. That was an awesome session, and I excluded the blow because she told me she didnt like the taste of condoms.

Can we take this a step further since you are challenging the lady because I get what you are saying however it can be a double edged sword... Let's say we open to chat there has to be a boundary because some guys will ask irrelevant questions or typical wanker questions eg.

How much money do you make it nobodys business. The other day a guy message me so I can help him be a pornstar or what about the guy that was so proud of being a forum member he says he is driving from PE passing the vaal wanting to chat the whole day come the evening he suddenly doesn't have time for the booking but he wants to come drive past see me he f me and get a feel of me lol because in his mind this is acceptable and the fact that he did this while bragging that he's a forum member shows the entitlement of some of these mofos using this platform with this kind of audacity (makes it difficult for the good ones) Or what are you wearing book me and see since I always make an effort for all my clients
Or the guy enquires he has a full detailed description of services and fees and he still says that I want the good boy and some oral and anal when you can clearly see that they are different packages at different pricing.

Last night's guy was the best he saw me in Rosebank a 2 years ago lol I was nowhere near there 2 years ago maybe two months then yes. Then he's asking for pics very specific pics and thinking offering to marry me will let me send him pics. Sometimes I think either the guys are just plain dumb or they think we are.

On 2026-04-27 06:45:52 Melina - The Edging Expert said:
I think either the guys are just plain dumb

That's true, you need to be patient with us ...

On 2026-04-27 06:45:52 Melina - The Edging Expert said:


Let's say we open to chat there has to be a boundary because some guys will ask irrelevant questions or typical wanker questions eg.

Boundaries definitely. When booking an extended session, longer than 90 min, where lengthy conversations are likely to occur, I will normally include a boundary that we can talk about anything other than work and family. If you ask me about these, I'll most likely lie, and I don't like to lie, it spoils the connection.

But some SPs forget this boundary. I don't however get upset or turned off with them as its natural in conversation to say 'what do you do for a living' or 'do you have kids',or talk about their own work or family 'I once had a client who ....' or 'my kid ...'. When faced with this slip, I normally just gently remind them 'lets not talk about work or family'.

There are bigger slips to pay attention to when engaging in sexual activity. Especially if you have a small penis. You dont want the condom slipping off when you do an extraction. Gotta lock that thing down .... roflol.

Jokes aside, I think patience with firm boundaries, makes communication more effective.