On 2026-07-16 10:59:57 Loves-HerGapedHoles said:

Most women today are all looking for that 5% unicorn man (rich, spoils them, good looking, faithful), which is why some are happy to be side chicks for years to married men.

Could be the woman you're attracting. Sometimes being a gentleman and spoiling a woman ends up attracting the wrong type of lady or bringing out that side of a lady that's just a leech.

Even the good ladies have this habit of just taking advantage of men. It's most likely just baked into them to rely on a man. Same way it's baked into us to throw hands. We were primates for most of your history.

Anyway back to my point.

Women need to be put in their place. Sometimes.

I've found saying NO will have them pouting for a few days but they'll always come back to you if your no was reasonable and you treat them with respect.

It's true that as a man you're always spending more when chasing a woman than when you're punting but after the chase is done, I find I pay less.

I've learned this the hard way when I used to be the type of guy that said yes.

On 2026-07-16 10:59:57 Loves-HerGapedHoles said:
Great takes, thanks for the engagement.

I see that some people seem deluded from the expensive experience of relationships and casual dating/sneaky links of today and I won't shy away from that point. Social media and exposure has lead to it.

In most cases being in a relationship or something casual often results in the woman calling and asking for a favor. The courting stage also requires some financial backing of going on dates and all that stuff.

Most women today are all looking for that 5% unicorn man (rich, spoils them, good looking, faithful), which is why some are happy to be side chicks for years to married men.

Sometimes you meet a career driven woman who seems to be doing well but only to find she's the same - looking for the 5% unicorn man. Unfortunately for them, these men have no incentive to just be with them only, because most women want them.


So it seems to me that protecting my peace and only using my money for an occasional nut with a fulfilled fetish/kink could work.
This until I someone on the exact same page as me pops up.

From my experience most women are selling pussy, just talking to some women at braais and chills has also shown me this, they say it without saying it.

So it's actually cheaper to punt and get exactly what and who you want than to go on dinners/drinks or do financial favors for someone just because they're having sex with you and they tell you they love you.

This is exactly why I got out of my most recent relationship three weeks ago. We only went out and did the deed twice but suddenly all her responsibilities and financial issues became mine. What's worse is that she's a single mother so I decided to get out before being asked to "help out" there.

Honestly, the entitlement of some women these days is insane. I'd rather punt for the time being.

Its sad to say but most single woman wil stay single forever. Sad but true. Just because of wat the guys mentioned here. On dating sites they not even shy to say wat they looking for. Hookups blessers sugar daddies etc. Then u get those that say she doesnt do hook ups. Those are the ones u get no sex, only an empty wallet.