On 2025-04-04 07:39:52 Smileyzn said:


Never ever ask Sylvia is she offers greek!

Or Bareback[/QUOTE]

Just don't even contact her full stop

On 2025-04-04 08:20:03 Pieter51 said:
Thank you. What are the chances of getting scammed on here? That is what i am most nervous about, like if i go to the ladies place and there is some duded trying to rob you or something like that. I just feel kind of uncomfortable so far cause i do not know what to expect. And also how do i know the ladies are free from any STD or something alike as would definitely be wearing a condom but i do not know if it is worth risking it still

This "hobby" doesn't come without risk. But to be honest, most women here are making a living and aren't trying to scam you left right and centre. But there are some bad that creeps in. A punting phone/sim is highly advised, with a pre rica'd SIM, don't use your real name, don't share too much personal info, read the reviews, don't pay upfront. You will pick up quickly who are the reviewers you can trust.

My personal way of starting was with sensual massage at respected "spas", then as I learned I moved to FH, and then moved to individual ladies. This made me feel safe, but I did make some mistakes - it's normal.

Thanks for all the tips guys. At least i am not one of the people that can relate to being dirty or smelly i am alway a very clean person and every lady will be treated with the utmost respect. The scammers has already started bothering me but atleast i read about them before they called me so i knew it was a scam. Furthermore to the person that said i am in my 20's and should mingle with girls outside of the purple world and come back when i am married and unhappy lol, i do actually mostly agree with you, i just struggle to start conversations with most girls even tho i am told i am a conventionally attractive guy, well except for the reason that i am not that tall. So that is the reason why i have come here to maybe gain some experience i guess.

Touch your boobs and talk dirty to me baby ;)

On 2025-04-04 12:54:41 Pieter51 said:
Thanks for all the tips guys. At least i am not one of the people that can relate to being dirty or smelly i am always a very clean person and every lady will be treated with the utmost respect. The scammers has already started bothering me but atleast i read about them before they called me so i knew it was a scam. Furthermore to the person that said i am in my 20's and should mingle with girls outside of the purple world and come back when i am married and unhappy lol, i do actually mostly agree with you, i just struggle to start conversations with most girls even tho i am told i am a conventionally attractive guy, well except for the reason that i am not that tall. So that is the reason why i have come here to maybe gain some experience i guess.

I was in a similar situation to you, when I finally got brave enough to book it went well and I have no regrets. I have seen many girls since and have met some really amazing regulars. It has actually made me a lot more confident when dealing with girls outside of the purple world.

I have had a few bad experiences but nothing serious like being robbed, The worst I have had is one time I booked with a girl that was new and had no reviews. I paid her and then I was perp walked back to my car.

Most scams can be easily avoided if you just think with the correct head and follow the advice you have already been given.

- Get a punting sim
- Dont give her any personal information
- Dont get too attached, Dont fall for sob stories.
- Chose a girl who has good reviews made by old accounts
- Take only the money you need into the booking and leave everything else somewhere safe.
- If you want to go to the extreme you could leave your car in a parking lot and get uber to take you to her.

On 2025-04-04 12:54:41 Pieter51 said:
Furthermore to the person that said i am in my 20's and should mingle with girls outside of the purple world

No reason you can't do both as long as you operate with moderation and responsibility as I previously said. You won't always get to meet women as open minded as the ones you'd find here or at least it's a lot more difficult to sus that out in real life when we're a fairly conservative nation. So live out your fantasies.

On 2025-04-03 22:38:34 Yvonne said:
On 2025-04-03 20:49:14 Kourtney B said:

Initial contact is vital. If you start with hey, hi, how much for a fuck, calling her hun, babe, darling, dear, (when you have never met her) chances are she's already lost interest or decided you are a time waster or that she is better off taking a different booking. Instead try good morning /afternoon, (insert advertising name), i found your details on ESA and would like to enquire on your rates, services and availability. This already sets the tone for a successful booking arrangement.

Oh thank you so much for this. You could not have said it better. It's usually the younger guys who are the bane of my existence that address me as dear or hun, even worse is call me mummy. I simply block.

You're welcome. Unfortunately from a punters point of view they usually cannot understand why they get blocked. I have resorted to enforcing my boundaries and reply to them to please call me Kourtney. For some reason I feel cheap and disrespected when called anything else but my advertised name when it comes to initial contact. My regulars are a complete different story as we already have a connection :)

Once you get the basics from all the good advice posted, dont forget to experiment. This is the perfect place to.

Want to have a taste Asian girls, plenty available.

Want to see what black woman are like - no shortage.

Stiflers mom - many ladies here that make stiflers mom Like a prude.

3 somes, anal, gfe, pse and may other things are on offer . Just be polite and ask, usually most direct approach is best. And if it's no, it's not, just say thank you look for the next option.

On 2025-04-04 22:20:05 Kourtney B said:


You're welcome. Unfortunately from a punters point of view they usually cannot understand why they get blocked. I have resorted to enforcing my boundaries and reply to them to please call me Kourtney. For some reason I feel cheap and disrespected when called anything else but my advertised name when it comes to initial contact. My regulars are a complete different story as we already have a connection :)

But sugar plum, they have already built up an entire fantasy about you in their minds.

On 2025-04-03 17:14:16 bm4 said:
First and foremost - GET A PUNTING SIM.

Don't fall in love, it's very easy to do so because some of the ladies here are amazing at their jobs.

Don't get too attached, don't fall for sob stories.

NEVER PAY UPFRONT.

In my personal experience I found rhat ladies who post often on the forums, and respond to reviews, generally provide better service. Not always, but most cases.

Remember: you are PAYING for a FANTASY.

Always be safe and don't do that raw kak.

Always be respectful to the ladies, don't act like an entitled prick just because you are paying for it. Be nice and the ladies almost always respond in kind.

Lastly, don't make punting the centre of your existence. It's easy to lose hundreds of thousands here. Focus on yourself first- be it your career, fitness, loved ones. Life is all about balance.

So we'll said!