Good evening my Purple World Lovers...

I have been following a very interesting conversation on a ladys' profile since last night....

It seems that the gent got so disgruntled of the fact that he couldn't get hold of the lady in question the second time around after seeing her, that he felt the need to do a review without actually seeing her.

This behavior absolutely fascinates me, like what the absolutely *fbomb* are you trying to achieve my dear salad boy? Are you butt hurt Mr JD? Do you have an urgent need to self vindicate yourself? Did you not get enough love and attention in your formative years? Are you perhaps what is classified as an Incel? Like seriously dude, WHAT THE FUCKIDY FUCK is wrong with you?

Stop fucking up and messing with Top Tier Service Providers that do not deserve or need your stupid abuse!

I myself have been on the other side of bad reviews and I have always kept quiet about what ACTUALLY transpired in my studio....

You on the other hand; acting like a little teenager that didn't get his attention. I would lose my boner for your type the minute I meet you!

Stop being a salad boy, do better, and become a HUNTER!

Hey Ms. KB.

Me here.

The one that poses hard questions and gets people all defensive instead of engaged in a debate without hitting below the belt .

And thus here is to hoping that COMPREHENSION/ COMPREHENDING shall not be the challenge and that the "peanut gallery" shall not go into fuckfest psychotic defensive overdrive.

Let's play the devils advocate and in no reference to ANY "bad" reviews and I have had my fair share of abusive attacking comment and "review" on my profile, thus am not excluding myself, including being rated 3's for my face and body.

Unless you and I have either phoned or engaged with an SP like a punter, not like the peers we all should be, there is no telling what truly happens between punter and service provider.
Being the professionals we are and always striving for top tier service means professional and top tier responses WILL be the go to when the "salad boy" makes a comment on our profile....and there are many who are more touchy than others and, that is ok.


To me the review system is flawed in so many ways.....much more important ways .
But I do believe , as one punter explained, the seasoned guys know what's for what.

It was interesting listening to him chatting, not because I asked him but, because he mentioned my reviews and then went on to say what he did.

The only time I have EVER commented on an advertisers profile, and to this day do not regret it, even after advertisers and fucknut sociopaths went on an attacking spree, was when another service provider was mentioned on her page and the conversation turned into hearsay and speculation of sorts that was VERY uncalled for.

That young lady knows who she is and I thank her PUBLICALLY for sending me a DM , at that time, and acknowledging and thanking me for my interaction on her page.
Perspective was required.

Among us, some are more favored than others as peers, among the punters some are more endearing than others but, I do believe "gripes" should be a part of a grownup conversation and allow the top tier providers to shine through in handling the issue that may be raised....here is where the SP SHALL shine through and if I were a man would want to fuck her brains stupid!...simply because of her ability to approach a most uncomfortable situation, address it and make it her own .

Sisterhood is one thing. In all honesty , if u ain't part of the click then there ain't such thing as sisterhood.

And TRUE sisterhood is there even if not aware of it. Some of us are just blinded by our own insecurities .

Ps. Ms. KB I am not making reference to you...it is an overall statement and will hit home where it needs to.

:)

RB.

Just to keep it short, I distrust a review with all 1s as much as I distrust a review with all 5s (from a newbie). I find that one issue leads to everything being marked down, and sometimes this is after they've left a great review the last time.

I understand that sometimes things go wrong, and that is what the review system is for. And the review system has saved my ass a couple of times, but just do it fairly.

I don't feel any punter should relay on reviews if they don't contribute to it honestly and fairly...

If every punter uses the system as it was intended to be used, this problem won't exist.

It is extremely annoying to find people having sooooo much to say about reviews ,but never giving one.

Useless , inaccurate and cruel.. this is the way "some" have distorted a good system.

The reviews are pretty much just opinions or anecdotes basically. You take them with some salt and hope for the best. Taking them as law 100% of the time would be foolish. Some people definitely abuse it though unfortunately. It literally makes it worse for everyone especially the ladies.

On 2025-06-13 07:46:04 Russian Bridgitte said:

I have had my fair share of abusive attacking comment and "review" on my profile, thus am not excluding myself, including being rated 3's for my face and body

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Anyone rating you a 3 for face and body is blind. You are the epitome of woman and elegance. The perfect sculpture of the female form. And for those whom you allowed to brush back that beautiful mane, and remove the glasses ...what a sight to behold ...
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[QUOTE;5509094;Kylie] I don't feel any punter should relay on reviews if they don't contribute to it honestly and fairly...
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Reviews are but one source of information. You need to read between the lines. Hence ladies who respond to their reviews actually assist with filing in the blanks.

I recall reading a review from a popular punter which was quite nasty. But she stood up to him and it went on for a few pages. She lost her shit for a bit, but then pulled back beautifully and well composed. And he just kept being a asshat. And she just kept being solid. This lady would be on the top of the list of people I'd like to meet, if/ when I step out of my safe space again.

Also, it's always good to try to get to know the stranger a bit before walking through their door. So reading forum chats is very helpful, way more valuable than reviews. It's probably what makes ESA stand out from other sites.
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The next statement might be controversial, but I'll say it anyway. And you can correct me if I'm wrong. Always learning.

For me the first thing I look for when determining whether or not I'll make a punting enquiry is to satisfy myself that I'm not going to put myself in a position where I'm raping someone. So I tend to search for strong, independent women who are clear about their boundaries and not afraid to loose business by speaking out about things they think is wrong. Like the ladies on this thread.

I can see many punters saying if you take the money off the table, consent wouldn't be their. That's not what I'm saying. If my employer took the money off the table I wouldn't be working for it. I believe similar applies here, but I do need to have the comfort that the lady would be able to say 'Stop' at any point if she felt uncomfortable or wanting to pull out of the arrangement.

Example, one of the ladies in my safe punting space told me in our early punts to be gentle on her breast because she had an operation. Before visiting her I read on her reviews that a punter was complaining that she kept telling her not to touch her breast. That was a shitty review as it was out of context, as all she was saying is dont hurt me. The important thing to remember is that consent is continuous and can be withdrawn at any point.

Probably also the reason I dont go to venues. I know probably not a fair comment, but the venue owners dont engage much so one doesn't really know what goes on there. And thus it's hard to predict whether or not the SPs are independent and able to make their own choices. And the horror stories I've heard from those who left venue makes me rather choose to just avoid.
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Talking about rape ...

@therodent, I've read in a thread that you told RB she wouldn't know if you booked her. She made it very clear that she will never entertain you. If you book her under false pretenses, that would be rape. So please think twice about your actions, before satisfying your ego.