Mmm.. sounds like you've got a dangerous addiction...
But I get it...the thrill and the excitement that rush of intimacy can be irresistible!!
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Re: Addiction
Re: Addiction
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Posted: 2025-08-22 09:39:04
If you're an alcoholic or have the feeling that you're close to becoming an alcoholic one would then stay out of the pubs, maybe distance yourself from a few parties and braai's with your mates for a while, stop buying alcohol and keeping it in the house and keep yourself in check. Same as stopping smoking, just don't keep a pack in the house, chuck out the box you keep in the car, throw away your lighters and start using nicotine patches to help getting the cravings.
Then the same would apply to a sex addiction, porn addiction, punting addiction right? Stay off your phone searching for porn, stop logging into escort websites, delete your account. Look at what your triggers are and stop putting yourself in that vulnerable situation. If you're married then liven things up at home with your Mrs, take the money you would have spent on escorts and spoil your wife, take her and the kids out for dinner. Book a nice weekend away and rekindle the magic you once had which would lead to a better sex life. if you're single then put yourself on the market again, it's easy enough to find a sex partner, a one night stand, friends with benefits. It's all mind over matter, just stop doing it. The more you work on yourself, the more rewarding your life becomes.
Thanks for everyone's comments @RB for me it is not just about the sex, it is the intimacy.. Alot of the time I don't have sex. It is about someone new, new experience, sharing intimacy with someone. I get what everyone is saying, I think for me it is the lack of intimacy in my life and the effect it had on my mind. Issue is I can now see it has become a problem for me. Maybe I'm just a sad case lol
This so called progressive fast paced world we line in has desensitised people to the point that they are not even aware of the robotic behaviour we have bought into . The admiration of AI created lives that are non-existent .
Keep reaching out for that intimacy.
May it find u over and over and may your cup runneth over!
And there u go my dearest Aldo Sims.....it ain't all about sex.
Smooching you close, gently, slowly....most lovingly my dear SIMS fan.
Its about the connection, the feeling of want and need. The satisfaction after. And for me mostly its the squirting.
There it is, I've admitted now. Im addicted to squirting. Lol
That feeling just before you squirt. The rush, the feeling you get in your hips that comes all the way from your toes creeping up and up my legs, gathers in my hips and then the final explosion of release. That satisfaction and want for more and more and more while i ride that cock so hard for the extra stimulation. Omg. Its amaze balls.
Super important to know your triggers and then just keep yourself as busy as possible.
It's a tough addiction to kick though given that we are hardwired to seek intimacy so just telling someone to "do something else" is not very helpful.
What has helped me though is to restrict myself by rethinking what punting should be.
For example:
Sure, I could bust my nut twice a week at the many WGs charging R600 for 30 mins.
But I wanna make love instead of just busting a nut. So let me book 1 WG for 1 hour and have a proper session.
Hence my standard of WGs is already higher than most because I'm not going there to just bust a nut which means I actually punt less than once a week coz many WGs don't meet that standard I set.
Another one:
Make punting fun.
I have a "wish-list", the WGs on this list usually keep me in check.
Right now I could blow my money on any petite WG in my area but I have a WG on my wish-list lined up for next week so I'm not feeling the urge to punt right now.
Hope this helps and good luck kicking the addiction.
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