Random question what do you ladies do if you get an overnight booking and the guy is just terrible. A bad human being. Do you grin and bear it? Do you slip him a sleeping tablet? Do you say "fuck it" give him his money back and go home?

How do you screen a guy for overnight bookings?

The later of the options..minus the 50% deposit he paid upfront.

Here is why .

1) The 50% upfront deposit means I can rest and not work the afternoon before an overnight meaning you will get me rested and at my best. The 50% deposit also means I say no to other potential clients for the time you booked. The 50% deposit also mean I don't set appointments for most of the following day if not for the whole day as I know I will be too tired to give 100%. All of this means I have lost out on other people's money because I was going to spend it with you. And for that reason I am keeping your deposit.

2) My do's and dont's are pretty clear and I always have open discussions about what would and would not be acceptable behaviour during a overnight visit. And should your behaviour be such that it is radically different from what we had discussed and you agreed to, I reserve the right to leave. And this is also discussed beforehand.

And in the same spirit I think it would just be fair that a punter can ask me to leave and ask some of his money back if I turn out to be the "pig" ( the non compliant party to the rules agreed upon beforehand;)

As for screening clients .. communication beforehand is pretty key to sussing out what kind of person you dealing with and gut feel( this is probably the most important one) because if something feels off it normally is.

Asking a deposit and getting it paid without too much drama also normally means the guy ain't joking around and actually understand that you have some rules and ways you like things done.

Check phone number for spam reports, search warnings to see if his number had been flagged, if you have a punters name go seek out some of his post and reviews to get a better feel of what type of guy he is.

Other than that there ain't much else to do but to trust that you are not making a mistake by trusting the guy enough to be a gentlemen in order to spend an entire night or weekend or holiday with him.

One thing that I have learned is that who you are and how you are seen as an SP determines the type of guy that will visit you or that will want you to visit him.....Meaning if guys see you as a push over you will get the chancers, if guys see you as a party girl you will get the party guys, if they see a girl that can have fun yet handles herself ,you will find the same type of client contacting you.

This is distilled anecdotal wisdom from years of talking to ladies I have become close with. Almost universally, none of them will ever do an overnight with a new or first time customer. Maybe you are not a weekly regular but they sure need to know you before they commit to an overnight. So the chances of your premise cropping up are very small. Not zero, but small. These ladies are smart and know how to protect themselves.

On 2022-03-31 20:53:26 OneNightOnlyTwo said:
Random question what do you ladies do if you get an overnight booking and the guy is just terrible. A bad human being. Do you grin and bear it? Do you slip him a sleeping tablet? Do you say "fuck it" give him his money back and go home?

How do you screen a guy for overnight bookings?

Hi OneNightOnlyTwo

Just dont do overnights at all

8 to 5 is my availability framework

On 2022-03-31 21:40:11 oraljim said:
This is distilled anecdotal wisdom from years of talking to ladies I have become close with. Almost universally, none of them will ever do an overnight with a new or first time customer. Maybe you are not a weekly regular but they sure need to know you before they commit to an overnight. So the chances of your premise cropping up are very small. Not zero, but small. These ladies are smart and know how to protect themselves.

Yep...what he said!

Which is why I never take over night bookings , unless you are a regular of mine. I for one , don't do very well with surprises. Regardless of how much money one will have to offer, I still have to know one first .
A night is very long to spend with someone you are not comfortable with Mhm... No can do .

I am one of those who will not do an allnight unless I know the person. The thing is no amount of money can make me feel comfortable with someone I don't gel with.

On 2022-04-02 08:18:55 Bbw Nadia said:
I am one of those who will not do an allnight unless I know the person. The thing is no amount of money can make me feel comfortable with someone I don't gel with.

I'm right here in agreement...

I'll try and be all ladylike in my language here. Let me see, he's a pig? Let's put it this way, he'll end up on the short end of the stick. I don't tolerate clients (or anyone really) who's disrespectful. He'll be ever so sorry for being a pig and by time I'm done with him, he'll have manners.