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Re: Realising tonight
Posted: 2017-02-01 16:02:40
Natalie has a good point. A very good one.
Who bothers to make sure that a WG enjoys her time? That she feels appreciated if not loved, be it ever so briefly, that she feels secure and has a good time?
There is an argument that goes "Fuck it, I don't need my plumber to feel loved or have a good time, or any other provider of services for that matter. I paid and it is all about me getting a service damnit!"
The thing is if you make the plumber a cup of coffee, hand him a spanner, hold a ladder and are generally pleasant and easy to do business with you will typically get a better service.
The same is true of the ladies here.
Some ladies will always be crotchety miserable get it over with and fuck off types. There is nothing that can be done about them expect not to go back. Don't judge, you don't know why she is that way, just don't go back.
Some ladies are just having an off day, that's life folks, but put a smile on her face and it will pay dividends! And its not just cash that can encourage than smile. No amount of money can make an unpleasant person good to be with.
Who bothers to make sure that a WG enjoys her time? That she feels appreciated if not loved, be it ever so briefly, that she feels secure and has a good time?
There is an argument that goes "Fuck it, I don't need my plumber to feel loved or have a good time, or any other provider of services for that matter. I paid and it is all about me getting a service damnit!"
The thing is if you make the plumber a cup of coffee, hand him a spanner, hold a ladder and are generally pleasant and easy to do business with you will typically get a better service.
The same is true of the ladies here.
Some ladies will always be crotchety miserable get it over with and fuck off types. There is nothing that can be done about them expect not to go back. Don't judge, you don't know why she is that way, just don't go back.
Some ladies are just having an off day, that's life folks, but put a smile on her face and it will pay dividends! And its not just cash that can encourage than smile. No amount of money can make an unpleasant person good to be with.
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Re: Realising tonight
Posted: 2017-02-01 16:23:08
@le roux ...on point man...could not have said it better...
@sugarXX ...wish more ladies...not necessarily WG's would look at us the way you do...at the same time, more often than I can find, I wish the visit to a WG could be seen much more in your perspective much more often - not withstanding not all punters would prefer this perspective as some guys just want the relief and move on - nothing wrong with a 'wham-bham-thank you mar'm' kinda session some time - but for most part I like SugarXX's perspective...nice to know that a lady does try to understand us...even if its just for that moment in time.
@sugarXX ...wish more ladies...not necessarily WG's would look at us the way you do...at the same time, more often than I can find, I wish the visit to a WG could be seen much more in your perspective much more often - not withstanding not all punters would prefer this perspective as some guys just want the relief and move on - nothing wrong with a 'wham-bham-thank you mar'm' kinda session some time - but for most part I like SugarXX's perspective...nice to know that a lady does try to understand us...even if its just for that moment in time.
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Re: Realising tonight
Posted: 2017-02-01 16:54:30
I'm very sensitive sometimes.
I can't block these things out.
However...
I must acknowledge the Gentleman that do visit for there hard work they do and effort they that they make and time to see ladies.
Just a Thank you from my heart.
It might not be a lot but it's the least I can do as a person and as a human being.
Xoxo
Sugar
I can't block these things out.
However...
I must acknowledge the Gentleman that do visit for there hard work they do and effort they that they make and time to see ladies.
Just a Thank you from my heart.
It might not be a lot but it's the least I can do as a person and as a human being.
Xoxo
Sugar
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Re: Realising tonight
Posted: 2017-02-01 20:23:49
I cannot say this enough, but Sugar you are really one of a kind and so very special! WOW!
On 2017-02-01 16:54:30 Sugar Xtreme Xxx said:
I'm very sensitive sometimes.
I can't block these things out.
However...
I must acknowledge the Gentleman that do visit for there hard work they do and effort they that they make and time to see ladies.
Just a Thank you from my heart.
It might not be a lot but it's the least I can do as a person and as a human being.
Xoxo
Sugar
I cannot say this enough, but Sugar you are really one of a kind and so very special! WOW!
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