Had a situation yesterday that reminded me why we punt.

My regular hookup really wanted to see me, she's great, the type of chick that you can make love to the whole night.......but I ended up turning her down to go see an SP.

Why did I choose to pay R1000 instead of R0?

Because I just wanted to pomp and leave.

Didn't want to deal with cuddling someone to sleep at night and the morning logistics of getting her back home.

Sometimes we really do pay them to leave.

I find it funny that men come here to cuddle and sleep with a woman.

Quite amusing.


..and then happy they pay zero for that privilege.
It is a privilege after all....whichever way u may want to spin it.



RB.

On 2026-08-15 11:07:42 JohnnieWalker said:
Had a situation yesterday that reminded me why we punt.

My regular hookup really wanted to see me, she's great, the type of chick that you can make love to the whole night.......but I ended up turning her down to go see an SP.

Why did I choose to pay R1000 instead of R0?

Because I just wanted to pomp and leave.

Didn't want to deal with cuddling someone to sleep at night and the morning logistics of getting her back home.

Sometimes we really do pay them to leave.

Are u sure she is 100%free

True that...i pay to leave...minimal drama..no hidden cost.

I think it's very situational dependant.

At first it was a social thing pre-ESA and pre-marriage. Go out with a group of guys, everyone gets excited seeing hotties in the club etc. we end up going to a venue or we pick up a few wgs or we even get one and everyone runs a trian on her. It was like an occasional social bonding exercise more than anything.

For myself, it really started during marriage when the sex started waning. There was still sex but the passion was tapering down, hence the username and blowjobs became a thing of the past. Hence, the need was quite simple, I needed 1.passion with genuine desire and 2.blowjobs. I didn't wanna cheat in the traditional sense of giving my time and attention and building an emotional connection with someone who wasn't my wife so affairs where out of the question but I wanted my sexual needs met. At least I could get the blowjobs part here so it was the solution to that part. However, I eventually found was as long as you pay you're making it transactional so you can never bring yourself to believe there to be genuine desire and passion with someone you're paying as you will always assume that it won't be happening if you weren't paying so it's just an act, no matter how good the act is. But when you're married and in that phase of sex a good act may not be as good as the real thing but it's better than not even an act right.

Then came the next phase of being single. Different ball game, unlimited free sex, and yes free free as in no dates/meals/drinks and the girls will come over so you don't even waste a cent on fuel. Just communication on apps which use data on an already paid for uncapped fiber. If I were to go over , they always provided food and drinks, sometimes home cooked meals, and always breakfast and coffee/tea in the morning so they spent way more than my fuel to get to them. This is a similar reason to the OP. Basically, all those hookups usually want to stay the night or the whole freaking weekend it's it's a Friday or Saturday. Even if you tell them beforehand, that you have other arrangements etc or you're busy with work, they will make every excuse under the sun to stay from it's getting too dark and they're afraid to drive alone or the traffic is too bad or they took tomorrow off or the kids are with their father so they can stay longer or they'll sit and wait while you work until you have a gap or whatever excuse. Now you have to basically allocate more time than necessary when you just want a fuck or suck and probably only 20% of girls are cool with coming and fucking and fucking off but they might not be available when you're in that mood. The 80% will want more. This is were punting becomes the solution since I can rock up, do my thing and be out without any drama and having to listen to how someone's day was or about work or the kids etc when you're just not in the mood for any of that. I can say I do hardly punt when I'm single as the hookups are so much more rewarding as you know is genuine desire and the passion is through the roof when it's like that but form those odd occasions where you're just horny and not interested in anything else than a good fuck or blow to relieve your balls, this is the answer.

Then the not married but involved stage where you're getting good consistent sex all the time from hottie so it's almost too perfect. Now it's about 1. Getting variety and 2. Not falling into that marriage trap where you overcommit and put all your eggs in one basket which has been proven to make you unattractive to the woman you're with. By spreading your seed elsewhere, you stop yourself from simping to "the one and only source of sex" because it isn't and that helps keep the actual relationship alive and exciting because it triggers that competitive anxiety in women to outdo the other woman you're fucking with. You don't bend and crack when they try that nonsense of withholding sex or being moody because you just making a booking and get it elsewhere so they stop that bullshit because they see it doesn't work. In this stage punting is more a relationship aid so to speak.

I'm sure everyone else has a ton of reasons. Would be nice to see some others.

N4P

I punt for the direct access, however hookups (notwithstanding the admin) are still better than punting. Nothing beats sleeping with a woman who is genuinely attracted to you and who's main priority is to feel good as opposed to getting paid. The sex is warmer and more personable (not that there aren't SP's who can't reach this level but its not as common). Having said that, hookups are hard to come by because many of us are not single. Navigating between your serious girlfriend and the hookup can be tricky, which makes punting more favorable.